Ukuze ingane ijwayele "ubumba", kufanele ilungele ngokwanele ngokwengqondo nangokwengqondo lesi sinyathelo (okungukuthi, ukuqonda ngokucacile izidingo zomzimba wakhe). Ngokuvamile, ukuqala kokulungela okunjalo kwenzeka iminyaka engu-1.5, lapho ukuthuthukiswa kwezinhlelo zezinzwa nezinzwa ezilawula izidingo zemvelo seziqediwe. Uma ngabe i-crumb isiqalile ukukutshela ukuthi idinga "pi-pi," noma ikufihla ukusuka kwenye ikamelo ngaphandle kwesixwayiso, ukwenza "efanayo pi" pi "lapho, sekuyisikhathi sokumfundisa ukuthi angayisebenzisa kanjani ibhodlela. Unganaki izibonakaliso zokulungela kwengane ukuze ufunde kahle imbiza! Omunye angase acabange: kungani uqala ukufunda manje, uma kulula ukulinda omunye unyaka, lapho ingane ifunda ukucela ibhodlela futhi ngokuzithandela isuse ama-panties akhe? Lokhu akulona iqiniso ngempela. Umntwana oneminyaka emibili ubudala okhululekile ku-diaper uzothola kunzima ukuchaza ukuthi kungani edinga ukushintsha imikhuba yakhe bese ecela imbiza. Kuye eqinisweni futhi kuhle kangaka! Ohlakaniphile nonenkani oneminyaka emibili angenqaba ngokukhululekile ukuya embizeni futhi ahlale nje kuso. Lapha, abazali kuzodingeka benze umzamo we-titanic ukuchazela izingane isidingo salokhu. Okokuqala, zama ukushiya izindiza ezilahlayo uma umntwana:
♦ Ngemuva kokulala komuntu, uvame ukuvuthwa nge-diaper eyomile;
♦ ikuvumela ukwazi lapho kudingeka adinge;
♦ yena ngokwakhe ubonisa isithakazelo sokuhlala esomile futhi ehlanzekile:
♦ kudinga ukuba athathe indawo esikhundleni sakhe lapho efika khona;
♦ uthatha isithakazelo ekukhetheni imbiza;
♦ ufuna ukugqoka ama-panties.
Isinyathelo sokuqala: uthenge ibhodlela
Ingane yakho ayilambile, ilele futhi inemizwa enhle? Nasi isikhathi esihle sokuya esitolo ndawonye! Zama ukuchazela umntwana ukuthi uyini, futhi ake amkhethe ibhodlela eyedwa - lokhu kuzoba yingxenye yentuthuko yakhe. Yiqiniso, kudingeka uqiniseke ukuthi izimpahla ziqinisekisiwe, zihlangabezana nazo zonke izidingo zekhwalithi yepulasitiki futhi zivumelane nengane ngobukhulu. Okukhethwa kukho kuyinto ebhodweni enemuva. Kuzokhululeka kakhulu ingane ukuba ihlale kuyo. Futhi kufanele kube lula (ngaphandle komculo, njll.) Ngakho, kuthengwa ibhodlela elifanele futhi ulethe ekhaya lokuthenga. Kodwa ungasheshi ukuyisebenzisa ngenhloso ehlosiwe futhi ufundise ingane ngokushesha ukuthi ihambe emanzini. Ukuqala, ibhodlela kumele lihlanzwe kahle - lokhu kungaba yisizathu esihle sokuvumela imikhumbi. Thela amanzi afudumele ku-tub kanye nomkhumbi! Lapha konke kuzoxhomeka emcabangweni wakho - ungafaka abasebenzi basePupsiks emkhunjini noma uhlabe ingoma yomkhumbi. Into eyinhloko ukukwenza kube mnandi futhi ujabule - ingane izozwa ngokushesha imizwa yakho enhle. Kuye, futhi udinga ukuqala ukufundisa ingane ukuya ebhodweni.
Khona-ke, lapho uhambo luphela, futhi usula ummbizi owomile, yisikhathi sokubonisa ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani injongo ehlosiwe. Lapha kunengqondo ukuqhubeka nomdlalo - faka embizeni ingane yakho oyithandayo yokudlala. Wayengenaso isifiso sokuhlala ebhodweni ngokwakhe? Hlola ukuthi kubanda kakhulu, kumanzi noma kuyashesha. Kusukela kokuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala "kokuzijwayeza" kuncike kakhulu, ngoba umkhuba wokucela ibhodlela ngeke uvele ngokuzumayo. Uma ingane ingayithandi, inganqaba ukusebenzisa "indlu yangasese" yakhe. Ngakho-ke, zama ukwenza ibhodlela ibangele imizwelo emihle kuphela! Abanye abazali bathenga izimbiza zomculo. Ochwepheshe abaphakamisi ukwenza lokhu, ngoba khona-ke isidingo sangokwemvelo sizophendukela ekuzijabuliseni, sibe ngumdlalo, futhi lokhu akukona ngokuphelele.
Isinyathelo Sesibili: Sifunda Isayensi
Ungalindeli ingane ukuba isebenzise ngokushesha imbiza ngenhloso ehlosiwe. Kodwa ngisho noma ingane iveza isifiso sokuhlala nje kuphela, dumisani. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane ikhululekile ukuhlala - imilenze ihlala phansi, ingane ayesabi ukuwa. Uma ibhodlela lide kakhulu, ungafaka i-pedestal ngaphansi kwemilenze. Hlanganisa "imibuthano" yamanzi eningi odingayo izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, lapho ucabanga ukuthi ingane kufanele iye endlini yangasese (ngokushesha emva kwephupho noma emva kokudla). Futhi ungamcindezeli ukuba ahlale ebhodweni ngokumelene nentando yakhe! Ukuphoqeleka kuzobangela ukuphikisana futhi uzobhekana nomphumela ohlukile. Ungathukuthelwanga noma uvalo uma umntwana engafuni ukufunda "amakhono omdala". Manje umgomo wakho oyinhloko akumele ufundise ingane yakho ukuba ihambe ebhodweni ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu, kepha kumenze abe nombono omuhle kuye. Uma uphumelela, cabanga ukuthi isigaba sokuqala sokuqeqeshwa siphumelele ngempumelelo!
Isinyathelo Sokuqala: Ngaphansi kwe-diaper!
Manje sekuyisikhathi sokuyeka izinsiza futhi ukuthuthukisa umkhuba wokucela ibhodlela, kuyingxenye yentuthuko kanye nokuthi ingane isivele iqonda izidingo zayo zemvelo. Qhubeka ukugqoka i-diapers ubusuku, emcimbini kanye nokuhamba okude. Kodwa uma uhamba ngezinyawo egcekeni noma epaki eduze kwendlu, vele uthabathe ama-panties ambalwa nje. Okukhethwa kukho okulula kakhulu - ukuyeka izinhlayiya zokulala kwansuku zonke. Ukuze konke kuhambisane kahle, zama ukunikeza ingane kancane uketshezi ngaphambi kokulala. Uma i-crumb ingahlala isomile, ungakhohlwa ukuyidumisa futhi ngokushesha ngemva kokulala kubeka ebhodweni. Zama ukunikeza ingane ngenkathi ehlezi ebhodweni, uphuze amanzi noma usebenzise imisindo efanele. Futhi, yiqiniso, uma konke kusebenza - ungafaki ukudumisa. Khona-ke ingane izozama ukujabulisa unina ngesikhathi esizayo. Futhi akukho lutho okudingayo ukuba uhlaziye i kid for "blunders"! Akakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi kungani izolo ebhala ngezandla ezingenakulinganiswa noma e-diaper, kodwa namuhla uhlaselwa into efanayo ... Ingabe ingane yakho iyaqhubeka isomile ngosuku? Kulungile! Sekuyisikhathi sokuyeka izintambo nokulala ebusuku. Yiqiniso, ekuqaleni, "izingozi" zizokwenzeka kaningi. Kodwa kufanele uqonde ukuthi umsebenzi wakho oyinhloko akufanele ufundise - ingane ukuhamba embizeni kufanele ithande yona. Ngemuva kwalokho, i-crumb ayifuni ukuvusa imvula, uye wakhula futhi uyakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka. Ngakho emva kwesikhashana (emasontweni ambalwa noma ngenyanga) cishe uzovuka ebusuku bese ucela ibhodlela. Ukuqeqeshwa okuphumelelayo!