Awukwazi ukuphika, noma kunjalo, ukuthi izingane zihlukile. Akuzona zonke i-karapuz ezithinteka kalula ekukholiseni, ukuphazamiseka okunye okuphazamisayo nezinye izinkinga zomama. Akubalulekile nje kuphela ukuba "isiphambeko esandulelayo", kodwa cabangela zonke izici zengane yakho. Umzuzwana obaluleke kunazo zonke ekukhuliseni kusukela ku-pacifier ungumntwana wengane. Kufanele kucatshangelwe ukuthi kungenjalo, ngaphandle kwalokho imizamo izosulwa, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ubungozi ngisho nokuzakhela ingane yengqondo yakho. Futhi lokhu akuyona ukuphanga.
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Kusukela kolunye uhlangothi - lesi yisikhathi esihle sokufunda kusuka ku-pacifier. Kule nkathi lapho ukugaya kwenzeka khona okungenabuhlungu futhi ngokushesha. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi - ingane iqala ukusika amazinyo, iqala ukondla, okuholela ezinkingeni ezintsha ngesisu, kepha ukulala nokulala ngalesi sikhathi kuyashintsha. Ama-mood ayenakugwemeka, futhi lapha nawo azama ukuphuca othandwayo wabo-abaningi babo abakwazi ukubhekana nakho konke lokhu. Yiqiniso, ukuphonsa i-pacifier ngaphandle kwefasitela, ukubona indlela ingane ihlupheka ngayo ngaphandle kwalokho akuyona inketho. Yini okufanele ngiyenze?
Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ngalesi sikhathi ukudala umntwana amasiko amnandi. Ikakhulukazi ukukhathazeka kuzolala. Isiklomelo esilandelayo siyindlela elandelayo: ingane ihlambulukile, ibeke embhedeni, ivaliwe ukukhanya okuphezulu, ishiya ukukhanya kobusuku obuthandayo, ihlezi eduze kwayo ngokumomotheka, igubha kahle, yahlabelela ingoma. Bonke ngabanye, kodwa ngezinye izingane izingane zifanayo - imikhosi ibavuselela. Yiqiniso, akufanele kube khona i-dummy kumkhuba onjalo. Ngikholelwa ukuthi ingane ayidingi kakhulu le plastiki, njengoba nje idinga izandla zikamama, imfudumalo nesithandwa sayo. Uma uzoba eduze kwethu, nomphefumulo, uma uzokhipha ukuthula nothando - omncane wakho uzophinde alale futhi alale ngaphandle kwe-pacifier.
Abantu abaningi basizwa ushintsho esimweni. Ungakwazi, isibonelo, ukuthuthela kunogogo ngesonto, futhi u-pacifier "nje ukhohlwe" ekhaya. Ezimweni ezintsha, phakathi "kwendawo" engajwayele ingane ingakapheli unyaka ukhohlwe lokho engayiboni njalo phambi kwamehlo akhe. Kamuva, ukuhamba okunjalo kungase kungasebenzi, kodwa kule minyaka - isimiso esithi "ngokugwenywa ..." senza okuthile. Yebo, nokuningi: izingane ezincane yi-meteozavisimy kakhulu. Bambalwa abantu abazi, kodwa basabela ekushintsheni kwenkathi yonyaka kakhulu kunabantu abadala. Ezinsukwini zakudala abantu abahlakaniphile bathi: "Ungaqali izinto ezibalulekile ebusika." Namuhla, ososayensi baye babonisa ukuthi balungile la mazwi. Ngalesi sikhathi sonyaka, izingane sezivele zigcwele izinkinga - ukunciphisa usuku lokukhanya, ukunciphisa inani lokuhamba, nokunciphisa ingculazi. Ungangezeli kulokho, futhi ukugcoba kusuka ku-ingono. Yenza ngokushesha, noma ubekezelele kakhulu. Mhlawumbe, ngaleso sikhathi, isigaba esilandelayo sokugaya ukufutheka kuzofika. Lapha namaqhinga azohluka.
Kusukela ngonyaka owodwa kuya eminyakeni emibili
Ingane kakade iyaqonda ngokugcwele ukuthi kukhona i-dummy endlini, ukuthi iyamnandi, ithobisa futhi ingacelwa kumama noma kunini. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi ukukwazisa ingane ye-pacifier ngokushesha, ngokushesha nje lapho ehlaba. Zama ukuqinisekisa umculo ngenye indlela. Okuhle kakhulu isimiso sokuphazamisa noma ukushintsha. Insipho ngesikhathi sokukhathazeka inikezwa ingane kuphela lapho kunesidingo esikhulu kakhulu - lapho ngokuzumayo eqala ukwesaba okuthile, lapho engahlali kahle noma lapho ekhathele kakhulu, kodwa akakwazi ukulala. Ngokushesha ngemva kokuyeka ukukhala noma ukulala, le ingono kufanele isuswe.
Kulesi sizukulwane, ingane ayikakha amaketanga amade. Ngeke akwazi ukukhumbula umlutha wakhe we-ingono uma engamboni njalo phambi kwamehlo. Ingane izofunda kancane kancane ukujabulela ezinye izinto-ukuxhumana nomama, imidlalo, ukuxhumana okuthinta amathoyizi athambile. Le ndlela yokugcina, indlela, iyindlela engcono kakhulu yokondla ingane kusukela embongeni ngaphambi kokulala. Umngane ohlukumezayo eduze kwami esitokisini angiyikulimaza kunokuba ngiphuze i-pacifier. Izingane zithanda ukuthulula, i-nasknuvshis ekhaleni elithandweni lensimbi le-teddy bear noma i-kitten. Kuyingozi ukubeka ingane ngendlela enjalo, kodwa ngalesi sikhathi - njalo sicela.
Ngemuva kweminyaka emibili
Kulesi sikhathi umntwana usuqaphela kakade umkhuba futhi umama kudingeka azame kuwo "ukudlala". Ayikho indlela yokufihla i-dummy yengane - ingane iyazi ukuthi "isobho" ayithandayo kunendawo ethile, ukuthi akafuni ithoyizi noma ikhukhi, kodwa nguye. Yini okumelwe uMama akwenze? Tshela ingane inganekwane yomuntu onokudabuka, okwamanje futhi udinga i-pacifier, njengoba kwakudingeka kuye lapho esencane kakhulu. Futhi uthole i-dummy dummy ngokuphelele, akhala, udabukile futhi kubi. Izingane zinomusa ngokwemvelo, isihawu singaxazulula inkinga yonke kuwe.
Ufuna ukusheshisa inqubo yokugaya? Yenza lokhu ngokucophelela ngangokunokwenzeka. Zama "ukulahlekelwa" nge-pacifier ekhaya, bheka ukuthi kuzokwenzekani. Uma ingane iqala amahlaya wangempela - ngokushesha "thola" ukulahleka. Ngokuqinisekile i-crumb inesifiso ongayenza.
Phakamisa ukuthi uthola lokho iWizard efuna, okuzokwenza iphupho lakhe ligcwaliseke ngokubuyisela i-pacifier. Mhlawumbe ingane iyoba namahloni kangangokuthi uzoyikhohlwa nge-nipple ngosuku olufanayo. Ungazama futhi indlela eqinile - ukusika i-pacifier ngezikhali (kuphela hhayi emehlweni obuthongo). Ngokwenza kanjalo, tshela ingane ukuthi zonke izinto zakudala zidutshulwa ngokushesha noma kamuva, lapho ziyeka ukudingeka. Yithi: "Ukhulile kakade, ingono ayisadingeki kuwe - nakhu," esho. Uma umntwana engazi ukuthi ungathenga entsha, maduzane uzolahlekelwa isithakazelo ku-dummy.
Nakhu enye indlela: "ungalimaza" kancane kancane i-dummy, ukusika kuye kancane kancane nsuku zonke, kuze kube yilapho kuphela i-ringlet ishiywe. Kuzo yonke imibuzo yomculo, phendula ukuthi omunye umama-isilwane sasidinga i-papilla izingane zakhe ezincane, ngakho wahudula ingono yakhe ngezicucu.
Mhlawumbe i-crumb for some time this ring will carry it, ngisho nokulala nayo, kodwa kancane kancane umkhuba uzokhohlwa. Uma umndeni unomntwana omncane, kufanele ubuze omdala ukuthi anike ingane ingono. Yisho ukuthi ingcosana encane ilahlekile ngokuzumayo, futhi inkulu kakhulu ukubhekana nayo ngaphandle kwayo. Gcizelela lokhu "usuvele ukhulu," kodwa usho ngokuziqhenya, ngendlela yokudumisa, hhayi ngendlela yokuhlazeka: "Ehta, mkhulu kakhulu, futhi ucele ingane."
Kubalulekile ukukhipha ukukhishwa kwengane, ngokusho kweminyaka yakhe. Lona umthetho omkhulu. Ngengane encane yonyaka, ukugcizelela kufanele kube kwizindinganiso zakhe kanye nezidingo zemvelo, kuze kube yiminyaka emibili-ukukhohliswa ngobuhlakani, emva kokubili - ukuzama ukuxoxisana. Futhi kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi zonke izingane zihluke ngokuphelele. Ungaqhubeki mayelana nemibono evunyelwe ngokuvamile, imikhuba ethile nemithetho ejwayelekile. Lalela inhliziyo yengane yakho - ngeke ikhohlise futhi ngeke ihluleke