Kungcono ukulala nomunye nomunye ngaphambi kocansi. Yabelana nawe ngemicabango yakho yokudlala futhi umvusa into efanayo. Ngaphambi kokuba ulale, jabulelana ngamazwi.
Uma umuntu wakho engazi ukuthi angasebenzisa kanjani isidlidliza, bese ufundisa. Mtshele ukuthi kufanele uyisebenzise kanjani ukukujabulisa. Hlonipha phansi, hinting ukuthi isidlidliza sinjenge-ally kunomncintiswano. Ungamkhombisa ukufaneleka kwesidlidliza ngokwakho, kubonisa ukuthi isebenza kanjani futhi inikeze injabulo engakahle kuwe. Ngikholelwa, ngeke ahlale enganandaba uma uzithola e-orgasm ngosizo lwakhe.
Amadoda amaningi ayazi ukuthi i-clitoris iyinkinobho edinga ukuthi i-caresses, i-kisses ne-attention. Kodwa abazi ukuthi ngaphandle kwe-clitoris udinga ukunaka ne-anus, khona-ke uzofinyelela i-orgasm ngokushesha. Uma umlingani wakho ehla kancane kancane ngesikhathi sokusebenza ne-clitoris bese efaka umunwe noma isidlidliza isenzo, unikezwa nge-orgasm.
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi amadoda afana namabele amabhinqa. Bahlale bephikisana ngokuthi ubukhulu besifuba bubhekwa njengendlela ekahle. Amadoda angaphuthelwa umzuzu ukubheka intanyeni yakho noma entanyeni yowesifazane othile. Futhi ngesikhathi sezocansi kubonakala sengathi abazi ukuthi benzeni namabele akho. Badidanisa ngesibambo sokwemukeli noma okunye okunye. Udinga ukuchaza ukuthi naye ungenza noma yini: uncel, ukhokhe, cindezela, ulume nezinto. Vele ufundise futhi umbonise ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani kahle. Lapho ehla ebhizinisini, bese ubeka amazwana ezenzweni zakhe.
Futhi, ukumisa okungazange kuphumelele. Uma unamafutha okusikhipha, bese uzigcoba wena, ikakhulukazi phambi kwamehlo akho. Masibukele inqubo yakho, njengoba amafutha engena esikhunjeni sakho. Kusukela kulo mbukiso, akakwazi ukulahla. Uma emehlweni akhe ubona isifiso, khona-ke umcele ukuthi akunike umsizi. Vumela indoda yakho ifake amafutha izandla zayo futhi ibheke phansi ibhizinisi, phinda into efanayo kuwe.
Ekuphileni kwakho kocansi kwakuhlukile futhi kujabulise, bese uchitha isikhathi sakho sithandeka, sijabulise futhi sihlukile. Khohlwa ngezinkinga zakho futhi ube nokuphumula okuhle, ujabulele omunye nomunye.