Konke kuqala, njengoba kubonakala, kusukela ezikhathini ezingadingekile: ubunzima bokukhumbula izincwadi, ukungakwazi ukugxila noma ukuhamba kancane komsebenzi. Okuthile kubhalwe kuze kube yiminyaka - kuseyingcosana, engasetshenziselwa; into - ukungabi nemfundo; into - ukungabi nesifiso sokusebenza. Kodwa kulesi sikhathi lapho izinkinga kulula ukuzibona futhi kulula ukuzilungisa. Kodwa-ke izinkinga ziqala ukukhula njengebhola le-snowball - elinye lidonsa elinye bese lidala umbuthano ononya nesabekayo. Ukuhluleka okuqhubekayo njalo kudikibala kakhulu ingane futhi kudlule kusukela kwesinye isihloko kuya kwesinye.
Umfundi wesikole uqala ukuzicabangela ukuthi akanakwenzeka, awusizi ngalutho, nayo yonke imizamo yakhe - engenamsebenzi. Izazi ze-psychologists zezingane ziqinisekile: umphumela wokuqeqesha awuxhomeke kuphela kumakhono omuntu wokuxazulula imisebenzi ayinikezwe, kodwa futhi ngokuqiniseka ukuthi uzokwazi ukuxazulula le nkinga. Uma ukwehluleka kulandelana ngokulandelana, ngakho-ke, kufika isikhathi lapho ingane ivuselela yona ukuthi, cha, ngeke iphumelele kimi. Futhi kusukela kungakaze kube khona, akusikho isidingo sokuzama. Ukunqotshwa ngubaba noma umama phakathi kwecala: "Ungumuntu oyisiphukuphuku!" - kunganezela umlilo kuphela. Akukhona nje amagama, kodwa isimo sengqondo ngokwawo, esiboniswayo, ngisho nangabe kungenhloso, kodwa ngokuhlambalaza, ukuziphatha, ukukhuluma, ingane ngezinye izikhathi ikhuluma amagama amakhulu kakhulu.
Yini abazali okufanele bayenze uma izinkinga sezivele zivele noma zingasiza kanjani ingane ezinkingeni zesikole?
Akudingekile ukucabangela ubunzima bokufunda esikoleni njengenhlekelele.
Ungaphelelwa ithemba, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, zama ukungabonisi ukukhathazeka kwakho nosizi. Khumbula ukuthi umsebenzi wakho oyinhloko ukusiza ingane. Kulokhu, thanda futhi wamukele njengoba kunjalo futhi kuyoba lula ngaye.
Kudingeka siqiniseke, futhi sizokulungiselela umsebenzi ohlangene wesikhathi esizayo nengane.
Futhi khumbula - yena yedwa akakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga zabo.
Usizo oluyinhloko ukusekela ukuzimela.
Kubalulekile ukuzama ukumkhulula imizwelo yecala nokuhlupha ngenxa yokuhluleka. Uma ungene ezindabeni zakho futhi uthatha isikhashana ukuthola indlela yokwenza izinto noma ukucasula-ke lokhu akusizi, kodwa isisekelo sokuvela kwenkinga entsha.
Khohlwa inkulumo ekhohlisayo: "Wenzeni namuhla?"
Akudingekile ukuba udinga ingane ukuthi ikhulume ngokushesha ngezindaba zakhe esikoleni, ikakhulu uma icasuliwe noma icasule. Mshiye wedwa uma ethembele ekusekeleni kwakho, ngakho-ke, cishe, uzokutshela konke kamuva.
Asikho isidingo sokuxoxa nomfundisi ubunzima bezingane ebusweni bakhe.
Kungcono ukukwenza ngaphandle kwakhe. Akunjalo nganoma iyiphi indlela, ungamhlukumezi ingane uma abangane bakhe noma ofunda nabo beseduze. Ungamhloniphi impumelelo nempumelelo yabanye abantwana.
Yiba nesithakazelo ekwenzeni umsebenzi wesikole kuphela uma usiza ingane ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ngesikhathi somsebenzi ohlangene, yiba nesineke. Njengoba umsebenzi ohlose ukunqoba ubunzima besikole udinga ikhono lokuzivimbela futhi ukhathele kakhulu, akudingeki uphakamise izwi lakho, uphinde uhlaziye futhi uchaze into efanayo izikhathi eziningana - ngaphandle kokucasuka nokuhlambalaza. Izikhalazo ezivamile zabazali: "Zonke izinzwa ziphelile ... Azikho amandla ..." Uyaqonda yini ukuthi yimuphi umbuzo? Umuntu omdala akakwazi ukuzivimbela, kepha ingane iba necala. Bonke abazali bayazisola kuqala, kodwa ingane - ayitholakali ngokwanele.
Abazali ngesizathu esithile bakholelwa ukuthi uma kunenkinga ekubhaliwe, kuzomele ubhale ngaphezulu; uma kungabhekwa kahle - okuningi ukuxazulula lezi zibonelo; uma ufunda kabi - funda kabanzi. Kodwa lezi zifundo zinzima, unganikeli ukwaneliseka futhi zibulale injabulo yomsebenzi. Ngakho-ke, akudingeki ukuba ulayishe ingane ngokungaphezu kwezinto ngezinto ezingasebenzi kahle kuye.
Kubalulekile ukuthi phakathi kwamakilasi awuphazamisi, nokuthi umntwana uzizwa - wena naye naye. Vala i-TV, ungaphazamisi ekilasini, ungaphazanyiswa ukuba ugijime ekhishini noma ushayele ucingo.
Kubuye kubaluleke kakhulu ukunquma ukuthi umzali ingane ilula kangakanani ukwenza lezi zifundo. Umama uvame ukuhamba kancane futhi akakwazi ukubekezela, futhi bayaqonda ngokwengeziwe ngokomzwelo. Amadala ahlaziye, kodwa acindezelekile. Omunye kufanele azame ukugwema isimo esinjalo, lapho omunye wabazali, elahlekelwe ukubekezela, obangela omunye ukuba aphumelele.
Kusadingeka ukhumbule ukuthi ingane enenkinga yesikole, kuphela esimweni esingavamile iyokwaziswa ngokugcwele ukuthi ucele ukuba abuyele ekhaya. Kulokho akukho bubi - umsebenzi wesikole nje uvame ukunikezwa njalo ekupheleni kwesifundo, lapho wonke umuntu ekilasini enza umsindo, kanti ingane yakho isivele ikhathele futhi uthisha akanakuzwa. Ngakho-ke, ekhaya, angasho ngobuqotho ukuthi akaceliwe lutho. Ezimweni ezinjalo, funda kubalingani bakho ekilasini ngomsebenzi wesikole.
Umsebenzi wokulungiselela wesikole kufanele ube yisikhathi esiphelele somsebenzi oqhubekayo ngaphandle kwemizuzu engamashumi amathathu. Ukuze ume, ngenkathi wenza umsebenzi wesikole, kuyadingeka.
Asikho isidingo sokulwela, kunoma yikuphi ukukhokhela ukwenza ngokushesha umsebenzi wesikole.
Ingane idinga usizo nokusekelwa ezinhlangothini ezahlukene, ngakho zama ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nothisha.
Uma kukhona ukwehluleka, kuphakanyiswa ukukhuthaza nokusekela, nanoma yikuphi, ngisho nempumelelo encane kunazo zonke kumele igcizelelwe.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ekusizeni ingane ukumkhuthaza emsebenzini, hhayi nje ngamazwi. Kungaba uhambo oluya e-zoo, ukuhamba okuhlangene, noma ukuvakashela emidlalo yaseshashalazini.
Izingane ezinenkinga yesikole kumele zigcine umbuso ocacile nolinganisiwe wosuku.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi izingane ezinjalo ngokuvamile zingabonakali, ziphumule, okusho ukuthi azilandeli nje umbuso.
Uma ekuseni umntwana evuka ngobunzima, ungasheshi futhi ungawushiyi futhi, ngcono ukubeka i-alamu ngesikhathi esilandelayo isigamu sehora.
Kusihlwa, uma sekuyisikhathi sokulala, ungamnika ingane inkululeko - ukuyeka, isibonelo, kusukela kulesishiyagalolunye kuya kwezingamashumi amathathu. Ingane idinga ukuphumula okugcwele ngempelasonto kanye nezinsuku zokuphumula, ngaphandle kwezizabelo zokuqeqesha.
Uma kungenzeka, khona-ke qiniseka ukuthi uxoxisana nengane ongoti - ochwepheshe bezinkulumo, odokotela, othisha, izifo ze-psychoneurologists. Futhi landela zonke izincomo zabo.