Nsuku zonke sixhumana nabantu abaningi. Abanye bakhuluma kuphela ukuze bazuze okuthile. Indlela yokunquma ukuthi yiyiphi yabangane engokoqobo, futhi ubani okusebenzisa kuphela? Kulesi sihloko sizonikeza iseluleko esibalulekile esizosiza ukuqaphela umngane othembekile nabo bonke abangafanele bathembeke. Ngakho, umngane wangempela ngu ...
Qaphela lokho abangani abakushoyo
Lalela lokho umngani wakho akusho phambi kwabanye abantu. Ingabe isimo sakhe sengqondo ngawe sishintsha ngenxa yobungani bakho nabangane bakho? Khumbula, umngane weqiniso kufanele akusekele kunoma yisiphi isimo, ngisho noma unomuntu omncane futhi yonke inkampani iphikisana nesinqumo sakho. Qaphela futhi ukuthi uzizwa ukhululekile nomngane wakho. Uma ubuhlobo obuthembayo, ubukhona bakhe kufanele bujabule. Khumbula, umngane wakho wayengasho ukuthi ngeke uphumelele, akukudikibanga ekuzameni ukugcwalisa iphupho elidala? Uma izingxoxo ezinjalo ziphakathi kwakho, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi umngane ungumona nje, kusuka kumuntu onjalo akufanele alinde ukwesekwa, angakushiya yedwa ngesikhathi esingaphansi kokungena. Umngane weqiniso uzosekela noma yikuphi okusemandleni akho futhi hhayi kuphela ngamazwi!
Umngane wangempela uyohlale ebona izingubo zakho ezintsha, izinwele zezinwele noma izimpumelelo ezifundweni. Futhi uma umngane wakho ethanda ukukhuluma ngawe ngokwakho, awunandaba naye. Khumbula lapho ugcine ukuzwa udumo noma ukuncoma kumngane wakho? Ingabe uyakusiza ngaphambi kokuhlolwa okubalulekile noma usuku nomfana ongenandaba nayo? Isho esidala-umhlaba ukuthi umngane waziwa enkingeni ingokoqobo kuze kube yilolu suku. Njengoba ungabona, ukuqala, udinga ukuhlolisisa ukuthi umngane wakho omkhulu uthini futhi mhlawumbe kakade kulesi sigaba uzokuqonda ukuthi intombi ayinandaba nawe.
Umngane weqiniso uhlale ekulalela ngentshisekelo!
Esigabeni esandulele, sesivele sitshele ukuthi abangane beqiniso basho nje ngokwabo, kodwa futhi nabangane babo, abanesithakazelo esiqotho kanye nesifiso sokusiza. Cabanga ukuthi wena kanye nentombi yakho nikhuluma kangaki ngezinkinga nezinkinga zenu? Akusho yini ukuthi ahumushe lesi sihloko kuye, akunakwenzeka? Umngane wangempela akufanele nje akulalele, kodwa futhi anikeze iseluleko esihle! Zama ukuhlola umngane, uma ungeke ukwazi ukuphendula ngokuqinisekile umbuzo: ngabe intombi ikulalele nokuthi isondela kanjani. Khuluma naye ngezinye zezimo zakho zokuphila futhi unake ukuphendula kwakhe, ikakhulukazi emehlweni nangesimo sokubukeka: umuntu ulalela ngokucophelela, uma ubonisa iqhaza: i-nods, ayiphuli ukuxhumana naye futhi akaphazanyiswa izingoma ezingaphandle.
Futhi uma intombi iqala ukubheka, phendula ngendlela engafanele futhi uhlole yonke imizuzu yefoni - ayinasithakazelo. Ungakwazi, emva kwesikhashana, umkhumbuze le ngxoxo bese ubona ukuthi ukhumbula kangakanani lokho owamtshele khona. Bonke abantu bangama-egoists, kodwa umngane wakho omkhulu kufanele abe nesithakazelo esiqotho empilweni yakho. Uma kungewona-mhlawumbe intombi yakho ikusebenzisa. Masinyane uthi: ungafuni izizathu zakhe, ngoba uzokhumbula ukuthi uthandana noma ufuna ukuxhumanisa ikusasa lakhe ne-journalism? Ngakho kufanele abe nesithakazelo nawe.
Ingabe intombi ayincibilikisi ngawe?
Ngeshwa, amantombazane avame ukugcina ulimi lwabo, kodwa lokhu akufanele kubakhathalele abangane abangcono kakhulu. Khumbula, uma ufunde ukuthi umngane usakaza inhlebo ngawe, udinga ukukhuluma naye ngokujulile. Uma unesiqiniseko sokuthi umngane wakho akahlehlisiwe - hlala kude naye kude. Ungathembi izimfihlakalo kanye nezimfihlo, ngoba bonke bangaba yiklasi lonke. Ngelinye igama, hlolisisa intombi yakho! Mhlawumbe ukhuluma ngawe ngemuva kwakhe? Uma kunjalo, ngeke ukwaziwa ngokuthi umngane weqiniso!
Intombazane ikutshela kangaki "cha"?
Umngane wangempela uzothola isikhathi sokuxhumana nawe, uma umngane ejwayele ukuthola izizathu zokungahlangabezane nawe, mhlawumbe uthanda imisebenzi eminye eyithakazelisayo. Khumbula ukuthi umngane omkhulu kakhulu umsebenzi we-round-clock. Ngeke ube abangane abangcono kakhulu esikoleni, kodwa ungabizi futhi ungahambi ngesikhathi sakho sokuphumula. Abangane banesithakazelo komunye nomunye, okusho ukuthi ukuzijabulisa okuhlangene kumele kubonwe njengokuphumula. Uma intombi yakho ihamba nabanye abantu noma ihlala nje ekhaya, khona-ke ayinakho ukuxhumana okuyiyo. Zama ukukhuluma naye ngakho. Ngokuvamile, amantombazane angabangane nomuntu eqenjini kuphela ukuze agweme ukuba yedwa, kodwa lobu buhlobo bomngane-mbono ngokuvamile buphela ngemva kwesikole. Ungalahleli isikhathi kubantu abanjalo, mhlawumbe othile oseduze nawe ukuphatha kangcono futhi kufanele uhlolisise indawo ozungezile!
Zama ukukhuluma nentombi yakho, uma kukhona okungahambisani nawe ebuhlotsheni bakho, mhlawumbe kuzoshintsha.
Sifisa ukuthola umngane wethu omkhulu futhi singalokothi silahlekelwe nguye!