Ubani phakathi kwethu nentombazane eyodwa engazange exoxisane nomunye, futhi emuva kwakhe emuva? Thina, siqhutshwa yisifiso noma ukungazi lutho, ngokungathandi noma ukungathathi hlangothi - akunandaba nokuthi kungani kwenzeka. Kodwa ngokuzumayo ubhekene nesimo esinjalo, leyo nkohle iphathelene nokuqeda. Futhi akukho noma iyiphi embuthano omncane wobungane, okuwukuthi emsebenzini. Ungasabela kanjani futhi uphathe emsebenzini ukuhleba? Kungani ube yi-heroine yencwadi ye-office?
Ubani futhi kungani echitha ukuhleka emsebenzini?
Kunombono onjalo ukuthi ukuhleba kungumsebenzi wabesifazane kuphela. Noma kunjalo, umkhuba ubonisa ukuthi amadoda nawo athambekele ekucabangeni, asakaze amahemuhemu. Futhi-ke, ngisho noma usebenza eqenjini lomuntu, akufanele uphumule.
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi inhlebo isebenza emsebenzini. Okokuqala, lokhu kuyimona. Kungenzeka kumuntfu othize oba yinto yokuhleba, noma kubo bonke abantu abangaba noma yikuphi okweqile ukuhleba. Akukhona kakhulu ngomona, esikhathini sokugcina, njengokungathi ubuhlungu bezwe lonke. Umuntu, etshela izindaba zabanye, njengokungathi kunabanye, uvuka, akhulise ukuzethemba kwakhe.
Isizathu esilandelayo sokuhleba ngomsebenzi kuyisidingo. Umuntu ngomvelo uyathanda ukwazi. Okuthile ngomuntu owake wezwa futhi kwaba mnandi, ngakho wacabanga ngemininingwane, wabuyela emuva ... Ngokuvamile ngisho nangenhloso enonya, kodwa imiphumela ingaba yinto edabukisayo kakhulu.
Isizathu esilandelayo yisisulu. I-aphorism eyaziwa kakhulu ithi: kukhona abantu abacindezela umhlaba wethu phambili. Futhi kukhona labo abathukuthele ngemuva kwabo: "Futhi lapho leli zwe kuphela lifaka lokhu!". Kodwa-ke, lo mkhuba uhlala ikakhulu ngesisekelo somsebenzi wendlu, ubuhlungu, ubuhlungu, futhi edabukisayo. Noma kunjalo, umphefumulo womuntu udinga ukubonakala. Abanye abantu bangama-chitetromans, bahlala namaqhawe abo nsuku zonke, eziqalwa ngumlobi, abanye babheka imiculo, kanti, emva kokunye okuyiqiniso-kubonisa, ukuphila kwabanye abantu kugcwele futhi kugqamile. Abantu bahleba ngaye, baxoxe nabo abaseduze nawe impilo yakho.
Ngokuvamile imbangela yokuhleba ngumncintiswano. Ukuhleka endaweni yokusebenza kuyisikhali emzabalazweni, njengomthetho, nabancintisana nabo. Futhi ukuthi kuyoba kanjani "okubulalayo", kuxhomeke emakhono amakhono nokukhwabanisa kwehlebo.
Isizathu esilandelayo ukuphishekela ukubaluleka. Nguyena okhulumela okuningi, othakazelisayo kwabanye, futhi abaningi bayavumelana nalokhu. Noma kunjalo, akuwona wonke umuntu ozokhulisa ama-horizons awo, okwandisa ukukhishwa kwawo. Kulula kakhulu, ekusakazeni inhlebo mayelana nabanye ukuthi badlale "kumlawuli wezokwaziswa zomhlaba."
Buyisela. Njengoba ngaphandle kwalo - babengabangani, babelane ngazo zonke izimfihlo, futhi konke kuhle. Futhi baphikisana - futhi wonke umuntu ozungezile kakade uyazi ngezimfihlo zakho, ngisho "nemininingwane" enjalo okwesabekayo. Futhi kulokhu, inhlebo emisebenzini yomsebenzi iyindlela yokuziphindiselela. Yebo, konke kufanelekile ukukhokha, futhi ngokukhululekile kanye.
Indlela yokuphendula emsebenzini ekuhlekeleni?
Kusukela ngenhla, kungabonakala ukuthi basakaza inhlebo emsebenzini ukuze bakucasule noma uvele "ngaphansi kokusabalalisa." Inhlebo enjalo ingahle yenziwe kanjani uma iyingxenye "yesenzo sezempi"? Kulesi simo, kukhona oyedwa noma izisebenzi eziningana ezihlobene nawe emoyeni wobutha. Ziyizinhloso zokuhleba futhi zikhona.
Njengomthetho, isitha sakho singesabisa, futhi siguqule noma naye ukuba enze ukuthula. Ungazama ukuxoxa ngokuthula ngenkinga futhi uthole ukulinganisa. Noma ukuhlehlisa inhlebo ngokuhlehlisa amahemuhemu nangabo. Nokho, kulokhu, impi ingase ibambezeleke. Futhi uma unamandla, ungakwazi ukuxosha abakwa-laymen, ngaphansi kwanoma yikuphi okunye ukucabanga. Udinga ukukhetha indlela ezofaneleka kakhulu esimweni sakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, kufanele usebenze ngenjabulo, hhayi njengomsebenzi onzima.
Kodwa uma inhlebo esebenzayo ngawe isuswa ngaphandle kwesifiso sokulimaza, futhi ngokwesibonelo, kusukela ekukhunjweni, ngakho-ke akunakwenzeka ukuthukuthela umuntu onjalo, nakuba kungathandeki ukuthi bakutshele ngazo zonke izinhlobo zezinto ezingenangqondo. Indlela yokwenza kulesi simo?
Kudingeka uzame ukusabela ekuhlekeleni ngokuthula nangokungafani. Ezinhliziyweni uzakhipha ukungajabuli kwakho - ukuhleba kuzokunika umoya omusha wokuphefumulela. Okukhethwa kukho konke ukuhumusha konke kube yihlaya. Futhi uma ungayeki ukuhleba, uthathe futhi iqhaza ekudaleni izinkolelo zempilo yakho yokucabangela. Ngokufanayo, phonsa "amaqiniso" amaqhinga kulezi zinhleko, kwenze isimo sibe mnyama. Lokhu kuzonciphisa intshisekelo kumuntu wakho, futhi ukuhleba kuzothola esinye isisulu.
Ukuqapha
Amathiphu alandelayo azokusiza ukunciphisa ingozi yokuba yi-heroine eyinhloko ezindabeni zezindaba zehhovisi, izosiza ekuphenduleni kahle inhlebo.
Ungalokothi utshele ozakwabo mayelana nemfihlo yephasi. Kuyadingeka ukuthi uhlale ngokuthula, ngoba kunezihloko eziningi ezingafani. Isibonelo, imfashini, iholo yaseshashalazini, izincwadi, izihloko, izindlela zokupheka, njll.
Ungabambi iqhaza ekusisekeni inhlebo mayelana nabalingani bakho futhi ikakhulukazi ungayichazi izimfihlo zakho ezithembekile kuwe.
Uma inhlebo enhle ingakubona esimweni esiyinkimbinkimbi futhi unomuzwa wokuthi ngemuva kwesikhashana ne-legend lonke mayelana nawe, bese uhamba phambili. Isibonelo, qala ukutshela abantu abathakazelayo umbono wabo wesimo. Futhi njengomthetho, uma imfihlo yaba sobala, khona-ke akukho nje isizathu sokuhleba.
Ekusebenzeni ngokuhleba, akekho umuntu ohlinzeka ngomshuwalense. Ikakhulukazi uma ephikisana nesizinda esivamile, into engcono kunabanye, ithambekele kokuhle futhi ifinyelele okuthile. Kudingekile ukuzama ukubona okuhle kuhlebezi. Vumela izintshumayelo ezinjalo zikukhuthaze ngokuphila kwakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma bekhuluma ngawe, ufanele okuthile kulokhu kuphila!