Naphezu kokuthi ekuqaleni owesifazane wabelwe kuphela indima yomgcini wendawo, namuhla baye bafakazela ukuthi ababi nakakhulu kunamadoda abhekana nodaba oluphelelekazi - bahamba emkhathini, babusa izwe, bathuthukise amaphrojekthi omsebenzi wezakhiwo ezinkulu, ezezimali kanye nokutshala izimali, bahlanganyele ezindabeni zempi . Kodwa-ke, akubona bonke abesifazane abangaphumelela, yiziphi amaphutha abo? Kungcono kanjani ukusebenza kowesifazane ukuze uphumelele? Lokhu sizoxoxa ngalesi sihloko.
Lapho befuna umsebenzi, abesifazane bakhetha amaqhinga ahlukene kunamadoda, okwenza amaphutha wabesifazane abathile. Owesifazane cishe uzama njalo ukufuna umsebenzi wedwa, engaqabukeli ukusiza usizo lwangaphambili, abangane nezihlobo. Amadoda, ngokungafani nabesifazane, azoxhuma bonke abafunda nabo ekilasini nabangane embuzweni wabo futhi bathole umsebenzi ngokushesha. Ukufuna umsebenzi, abesifazane bayakuhlonipha ukuzethemba kwabo, amakhono, amakhono abo, futhi, lapho bebhekana nezinkinga, baqala ukuzwakalisa "Angikwazi, angikwazi ukuphatha", kuyilapho amadoda ekhukhumezekile futhi ezethemba, afunde ngokuhambayo futhi ezimweni eziningi afune impumelelo. Abesifazane basuke bengasenzi lutho futhi bancane kakhulu - abajwayele ukubiza abaqashi abangabafundi, ungafaki ukuqala kwabo emsebenzini. Naphezu kokuthi abesifazane sebezibeke isikhathi eside njengezisebenzi eziphumelelayo, abaqashi abaningi bakhetha ukubona indoda esikhundleni samahhala esiphezulu. Yiqiniso, lokhu kubangelwa i-conservatism yendabuko, kanye nenkolelo yokuthi owesifazane ngeke akwazi ukuba umholi, futhi uma enza, uzoba yinkokhelo yomholi.
Kodwa ngokuvamile evame ukuhamba ngesiteleka somsebenzi, abesifazane benza amaphutha ngokwabo:
- enye yemiphumela emibi kakhulu emsebenzini, ukubonakaliswa kobulili nokudlala ngothando. Uma uhlose ukukhula okuphezulu kwekhono nokuphumelela, kungcono ukugembula ngamakhono akho engqondo.
- Ukungabi nabugovu nokuzidela kuyimfanelo yomuntu enhle kakhulu, kodwa uma ukungabi nabugovu nokubekezela kwakho kuqala ukuhlukunyezwa ngokucacile, owesifazane uyathukuthela, kepha ngesineke uyaqhubeka esebenza ukuze kuzuze inkampani yakhe. Funda ukuzihlonipha wena futhi uhloniphe umsebenzi wakho.
- Ukwesaba ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo. Umholi wesifazane uhlale ethatha umthwalo omkhulu wethimba lakhe. Yiqiniso, awukwazi ukuhamba kuze kube manje futhi uthathe umthwalo wemfanelo kuphela ngomsebenzi wakho nemithwalo yemfanelo, khona-ke amathemba okuthuthukiswa komsebenzi ophumelelayo uyoba ngaphansi.
- isifiso sokujabulisa wonke umuntu - amacebo angalungile ekwakheni umsebenzi ophumelelayo, ozophela ekudumeni, kokubili ngokwabo nakweqembu. Khumbula ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukujabulisa bonke abantu, kuyohlale abantu abanganelisekile. Futhi amathiphu ambalwa wokusebenza kangcono kwabesifazane ukufeza imiphumela esiphezulu. Wonke umuntu angaba ngumdlali ophumelelayo. Okokuqala, funda indlela yokuhlela usuku lwakho. Ukusabalalisa ngezikhathi isikhathi sakho nebhizinisi, ungakhohlwa ngemihlangano ebalulekile ngisho nezizabelo ezincane. Thola idayari noma umhleli ukukhumbula njalo izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu. Owesifazane ophumelelayo akasoze avumela ukubambezeleka hhayi nje ngomhlangano obalulekile nabalingani bebhizinisi, kodwa futhi nasemsebenzini.
Ukugcina isikhathi kubonisa njalo umthwalo wakho wemfanelo, futhi owesifazane onomthwalo wemfanelo angaphathwa njalo ngezinto ezibalulekile, okunikeza ithuba lokukhula okuphumelelayo komsebenzi wethu. Iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu kunoma yiliphi owesifazane ukubonakala kwakhe. Izwi elithi "ukuhlangabezana nezingubo, ukuhanjelwa - ngokusho kwengqondo", ayizange ilahlekelwe ukuhambisana kwayo futhi isebenza kuze kube yilolu suku. Akunakwenzeka ukuba abe yinhloko yomnyango ophumelelayo noma umnikazi womlingani wezinketho zokudlela ngaphandle kwesitayela sesifazane wesifazane. Khohlwa ukuthi ukubukeka okungabonakali, ukulahla amajackethi amnyama, i-jeans enemfashini kanye ne-ultra-short mini. Manje ikhodi yakho yokugqoka yomsebenzi kufanele ibe nezitshudeni eziphathekayo, izingubo ezihle kakhulu ezingabangeli ama-blouses kanye neziketi ze-"ephephile" ubude. Izesekeli ezingeziwe ngesimo sezicathulo ezibizayo, isikhwama esenziwe ngesitayela nesigqoko sezimhlobiso ezinhle kakhulu sizoqedela isithombe sakho sowesifazane othembekile.
Khumbula ozakwabo . Ozakwethu bangabantu besixhumanisi sakho ohamba nabo empumelelweni, kokubili kwakho nokwenza inkampani yakho. Kodwa-ke, ungahumushi ubudlelwane nabalingani bangaphandle kwezebhizinisi, khumbula ukuthi ubuthakathaka nokuthembela kukhona izikhali ezinamandla kakhulu abafakizicelo bakho abangasebenziyo abangasebenzisa ngezinhloso ze-mercenary. Yazi indlela yokuqonda abantu, ukuzizwa ubuthakathaka namandla abo.
Ulwazi lunamandla , ikakhulukazi ngokuqondene nomsebenzi. Kufanele wazi konke okusemkhakheni wakho, kunanoma yimuphi omunye umsebenzi. Futhi kuphela lapho uzokwazi ukuguqula amakhono akho nolwazi ngemali, ukwakha inethiwekhi yakho ye-clientele futhi udale imakethe yezimfuno eziphumelelayo. Ungayeki lapho, ufunde njalo izincwadi ezintsha, uhambe emihlanganweni kanye nokuqeqesha, uthuthukise ngokwakho ngokukhethekile. Yenza kahle. Musa ukufihla imigomo yakho nezifiso zakho. Uma inkampani yakho inendawo ofuna ukuyisebenzisa, khuluma ngakho nomphathi wakho. Ungabi namahloni futhi uthule, linda ukuthi othile akumeme, futhi uzokucela ukuthi uthathe okuthunyelwe okusha. Indlela eya emkhakheni wakho udinga ukwenziwa wedwa. Thatha ukugxeka.
Ngisho namakhosikazi ebhizinisi aphumelele kakhulu futhi aphumelele awakwazi ukugxekwa. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlela ukufeza impumelelo ephezulu emsebenzini wakho, lungele ukuhlangabezana nokwamukela ukugxekwa okubhekiswe kuwe. Funda ukuhlukanisa ukugxeka okwakhayo kusuka ekuhlaselweni. Ukugxeka kusuka ochwepheshe abaningi bezobuchwepheshe kuyadingeka futhi umuntu kufanele akulalele. Kodwa ukuhlaselwa nokuncintisana, ungakhathazeki, kaningi lezi ziyizincomo ezifihliwe ezivela osebenza nabo abanekhwele. Futhi owokugcina akufanele afake njalo ukuphumelela nokuphumelela kwawo. Impumelelo nempumelelo yomsebenzi akugcini emgomweni owodwa ophakeme - ukwakha umsebenzi ophumelelayo. Kuyathakazelisa kakhulu ukufeza imigomo nemigomo ebekiwe, uzizwe uthembekile futhi uphumelele. Inhlanhla!