Khohlwa konke okwelulekwa kumagazini omfashini wabesifazane. Noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, khumbula konke lokhu, futhi wenze okuphambene nalokhu. Ingabe ufuna ngempela ukushada? Bese ukhohlwa amazwi: zanamuhla nezingaxhumano, ukuzimela kanye nobufazi, ukuthanda ngamandla futhi okunenjongo. Omagazini abalukhuni bakhombisa ukuthi lawa madoda afana namadoda? Khumbula - lokhu kuyize okungapheli! Amadoda angaba, futhi njengaba besifazane, kodwa abashada ngokuphelele kwabanye. Ngakho-ke, ukushada nomuntu, kudingeka ukhumbule eminye imithetho.
Hlola ngokucophelela ukuthi yisiphi isizathu sangempela umthandi angafuni ukushada. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi izizathu azikho kuwe. Kunezizathu eziningi ezivimbela amadoda kakhulu ekwenzeni isinqumo esinzima njengomshado, ngakho abafuni ukushada. Ezinye zazo zingase zibukeke zihle kakhulu futhi zingenangqondo kuwe. Kodwa khumbula, kunjalo kuphela, kubonakala sengathi. Futhi, ngokwesibonelo, ngokujulile akafuni ukushada ngoba uyesabiswa yiqembu lezinhlekelele zangaphambi komshado. Uma isizathu siyilokho, matshele ukuthi awusoze wabeka le nkinga kumahlombe akhe abesilisa abuthakathaka, futhi uzobeka lolu daba kubazali bakho.
Amadoda amaningi asaba kakhulu ukushada, ngoba asabisa kakhulu igama elithi "kuze kube phakade". Zama ukumtshela ukuthi uma kukhona okungazelelwe kusebenze, ngakho noma nini ungahlukanisa, njengoba izinkulungwane zomshado zenza ngaphambi komshado wakho.
Ngakho-ke, njengoba ihamba, kuwanele ukukhombisa ukucabanga okuncane nokuhlakanipha, futhi ucabange ukuthi othandekayo usevele ushadile nawe. Kuphela, ngaphambi kokuba ushade, cabanga ngokujulile, kodwa yilokho okuzama ukukufeza ngempela? Ngoba inkululeko inkululeko. Futhi umbono we "amagundane grey" ungaphalaza ngokuphepha.
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekile isayithi