Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubani obiza inkulumo, kubalulekile ukulandela imithetho elula:
- I-toast akufanele ibe yinde kakhulu, ngaphandle kwalokho akekho oyoyilalela kuze kube sekupheleni;
- kubhekisela kulabo abasanda kushada, kungcono ukugwema ukungathandeki kwezihloko zabo (isibonelo, ubuhlobo obudlule), ungafaki ubulili, imali, ukuhlukumeza, njll;
- Ama-amahlaya ama-toast amahlaya noma ama-anecdotes avela kalula, anciphisa umkhathi;
- Kungcono ukupheka futhi ukuvuselela ekhaya: abazali, izihlobo kanye nofakazi ngokuvamile bakhathazekile kakhulu, ngakho kuvela ukudideka.
Manje, manje sinikeza ama-toasts best for the wedding for parents, ofakazi, abangane kanye nezihlobo.
Ukugcoba ngomshado kusuka kubazali
Umama womakoti emshadweni uvame ukukhathazeka kakhulu. Ngesikhathi sesilwane, angakwazi ukuveza konke uthando lwakhe nangothando lwakhe, afisa indodakazi yenjabulo yesifazane futhi amnike amagama akhe okuhlukanisa. Imigqa efanelekayo:
Unosuku olukhethekile namuhla.
Ngakho ujabule njalo.
Makube khona umgwaqo okhanyayo,
Masibe ngumndeni onobungane.
Gcina ukuzwela, ububele, uthando,
Ukwesaba okukhulu imihlangano yokuqala.
Nezindandatho abazithatha ezandleni zabo,
Qinisekisa ukulondoloza kuze kube sekupheleni.
Vumela ekuphileni kwakho kungakaze kwenzeke
Izinsuku ezinjalo ngeke ziphindwe,
Ukuthanda njalo kudingekile,
Kanye kanye kuphela ukushada!
Unina womyeni uyamukela umalokazana emndenini wakhe. Ngesikhathi sezinyosi, kufanele abonise isimo sakhe ngokuqondene nendodakazi yakhe entsha.
Izwi liyathuthumela kancane kimi,
Futhi inhliziyo yenina iminyene.
Ukuhlala nawe manje ngumkakho,
Futhi ngihlala kancane ngakwesobunxele.
Yile ndlela uNkulunkulu akuvuza ngayo:
Ukufudumala komndeni nenjabulo kuwe.
Ngimthumelela i-syllable yami ejulile,
Ngisho nomkakho omncane onomhawu.
Ungathinti ukubaluleka kulokho,
Manje into ebaluleke kakhulu ihluke ngokuphelele.
Yini oyidalayo, indodana yakho, umndeni wakho,
Yini ezokusindisa ekuhluphekeni.
Kwangathi injabulo yakho ingaba mkhulu,
Vumela uthando lungapheli ize.
Futhi kuyoba lula kakhulu kuwe nomunye nomunye,
Ukusuka empini, makungakheki isiphepho.
Ngifisa sengathi induduzo yendlu yakho,
Futhi izwi lezingane lazwakala kuye.
Ukuhamba endleleni kusukela kuma-alamu nokuhlolwa
Ufikile kulokho okuphuphayo.
Futhi uma udinga isandla sami
Ukuzithoba kwakhe, ukufudumala kuyomfudumala.
Okubaluleke nakakhulu namuhla umndeni wakho kimi,
Ngigula ngaye ngomphefumulo wami.
Manje akukhona nje ukuthi nginendodana,
Manje indodakazi yami inikwe ilungelo.
UNkulunkulu akunike wena, izingane, okuhle kuphela,
Ukwenza impilo ibonakale injabulo.
Khumbula lo mzuzu kuze kube phakade,
Makube ngcwele.
Manje awuyena nje umlobokazi nomkhwenyana,
Kusukela manje, uyindoda nomkayo.
Futhi makukudlule noma yikuphi ukuhlupheka,
Vumela ilangabi lingacimi egazini.
Sifisela wena impilo. Sifisela wena injabulo.
Sifisela wena uthando oluqinile!
Obaba bangabantu abathandekayo. Ngokujwayelekile phakathi kwama-toasts, banikeza amagama abo okuhlukanisa izingane. Ungabufihli imizwa, bonisa ukuthi ukhathazekile kangakanani ngabo, ukuthi ufuna kanjani, ukuthi impilo yomndeni iyimpumelelo.
Sifuna ukufisa umkhwenyanazana:
Ukuze uhlale uhle,
Ukuze ujabule njalo,
Ukuze izingane eziningi zibelethe,
Ukuzala amanye amadodana.
Ukuthi lesi sibalo sasiyi-chiseled kwaba
Ngakho-ke isandla sami sasihlelwe.
Kumalokazana wakhe ukwenza konke,
Futhi ngaphandle komsebenzi ukuze ungahlali,
Ukuze kungabi kubi kakhulu kusasa, ukukhanya okuncane,
Umyeni wami ubonakala egugile.
Ukuze kugcwaliseke futhi kulungile
Konke lokho okwakudingeka namuhla kusuka enhliziyweni.
Umkhwenyana ulungile-ukuba ngumlobokazi omuhle!
Umbhangqwana omuhle kuleli zwe awutholakali!
Ngikhuluma namalungelo kababa, futhi-ke, umkhwekazi wami
Ngifuna ukukuthanda, bantwana abathandekayo, ukufisa!
Ngifisa sengathi omunye nomunye uthanda kangaka,
Njengoba akekho owake wakuthanda!
Ukugcina imizwa yakho kuze kube phakade,
Ukuhlala uthembekile komunye nomunye!
Ukushada komshado kubangani
Ubufakazi nobufakazi bangabangane abangcono kakhulu abancane. Umsebenzi wabo ukuchitha umoya, ukujabulisa izithameli, ngakho-ke siphakamisela ukusho ama-toast amahle futhi ahlekisayo. Kungaba amahlaya.
Kukhona abangane ababili abadala ngosuku lomkhosi womunye wabo.
- Uphila kanjani emshadweni?
- Awukwazi ukuphuza, awukwazi ukubhema ...
- Mhlawumbe, uyaxolisa?
- Awukwazi ukuzisola noma ...
Ngithi akukho tyranny emndenini! Futhi uthathe ingilazi kuso!
Njengomngane womlobokazi, ngingathanda ukukutshela, umkhwenyana othandekayo. Gcina futhi ujabulele lesi sidalwa esibucayi, esibucayi. Ungasivumeli phansi! Kodwa-ke, asikunikezi ngokuphelele, kodwa ngenkathi esenawe - yenza konke okusemandleni ukuze angafuni ukuza kithi. Injabulo nothando! Kuyabuhlungu!
Ufakazi kufanele anikele isilonda kubazali:
Namuhla wena, omncane, unesihlobo esiningi, kokubili ngakolunye uhlangothi nangakolunye uhlangothi.
Kodwa ngalesi sikhathi esinqumayo ngifuna ukuphendukela kumama wabantu bethu abasha. Akuyona imfihlo kunoma ubani okusho kumunye wethu umama. Siphendukela kuso ngenjabulo nasenxusweni. Ubuhlungu bethu bubuhlungu babo, injabulo yethu yinjabulo yabo. Futhi bekungakanani abanoboya obumpunga, ngenkathi bekhulisa izingane ezinhle kangaka. Bathi izingane ezincane ziyakhathazeka kakhulu, izingane ezinkulu zikhathazeka kakhulu. Umama othandekayo nomnandi! Ngisho namanje, lapho izingane zakho zingena ekuphileni okuzimele, izinhliziyo zakho zisabetha ngokukhathazeka. Umama omuhle, omuhle, omuhle! Ngiphakamisa ingilazi yezenzo zakho ezinhle, ngezinhliziyo zakho zethenda, ngenxa yokuthi ukhulise izingane ezinhle kangaka. Umnsalo ophansi kuwe!
Abazali bayadumisa, badumise nodumo.
Ngicabanga ukuthi abantu bazovuma,
Yimuphi umhlwanyelo kubazali okufanele bakhuliswe,
Sifisela impilo nenjabulo kithi!
Wonke ama-toasts nama-toast athatha,
Ngifuna wonke umuntu akhale ngokuzwakalayo
Nansi le toast esiyiphakamisayo
Singabantwana - ukuqala kwazo zonke iziqalo,
Ngoba kithi ngaphandle kwabo
Ungaboni omncane,
Asikwazi ukuhlala noma ukuma ngaphandle kwabo
Futhi emshadweni ungahambi!
Ukushada komshado
Isivakashi ngasinye sifuna ukuphuza empilweni yomakoti nomkhwenyana nokugcoba, ukunikeza izinketho ezingavamile kakhulu:
Uma kwakudingeka ukubhala indaba efundisayo yokuphila komuntu - lokhu kungaba indaba evela empilweni yendoda nowesifazane.
Uma kwakudingeka ukutshela indaba efundisayo yobuwula bomuntu - kungaba indaba evela empilweni yendoda nowesifazane.
Ukuze umshado, umthombo ongapheli wokuhlakanipha!
Yebo, yini ongayifisa umakoti nomkhwenyana?
Ukuthi babehlala njalo futhi kuzo zonke izinto ndawonye.
Balala ndawonye, badla, baphuza,
Izingane zizoya enkulisa.
Ukuthi kwakungekho ngisho nesizathu sokuxabana!
Vumela lowo muntu ngaso sonke isikhathi anikeze kuqala.
Uthando ulonde ngokuzethemba, ngokuqapha.
Futhi kuphela emshadweni makabe "okubabayo!".
Sawubona umyeni wethu! Sifuna ukukhulisa lesi sikhala ukuze sibe njalo! Ukuhlala njalo kuyinkosikazi yakho empilweni, okungukuthi: ukudla okuvamile, izinqubo zamanzi, imikhosi evamile embuthanweni womndeni wakho! Isikhathi esivumelanayo! Ngokuvamile, sikufisela inhlanhla kuyo yonke imisebenzi yakho yomndeni, injabulo ekuphileni kwakho. Kuyabuhlungu!
Kwabaningi, isibonelo se-toast ekahle yindaba mayelana nenyoni evela "ekuthunjweni kwaseCaucasus". Okunye mayelana neCaucasian hhayi kuphela ukugcoba kuphela uzothola ku-athikili " amakhotho omshado waseMpumalanga ." Sinikeza izibonelo ezithile:
Indoda ehlakaniphile yabuzwa:
- Kuyini ukuhlakanipha kokuphila?
"Phila ngenjabulo uqobo futhi ujabulele othandekayo bakho," waphendula.
Ngifisa ukuba abashadile abasha balandele lesi seluleko, bese ukuphila kwabo kujabula futhi kujabulise!
Umlobi wase-Arab Khalil Gibran uthe ukubambisana luphahleni olusekelwe emakholomu amabili. Uma lezi zinsika zihlukene kakhulu, uphahla lungase luwe. Ngifisa ukufisa abantu abasha ukuthi babe nesineke nokuqonda okuhambisanayo, inhlonipho komunye nomunye, ngoba lezi zimfanelo ngeke ziholele ekuhlukaneni kwamakholomu amabili ebangeni eliyingozi futhi ngeke livumele ukuphahla komndeni ukuba kwehle!
Amadoda amaningi aphupha ngokuba ne-harem. Bakholelwa ukuthi lapho abesifazane beseduze nabo, impilo ehlukene kakhulu nokuthakazelisa impilo yabo yomndeni, bayothola uthando nokuthandwa okungaphezulu. Ngakho ake sifise sengathi insizwa yethu ayisoze ifuna ukuba ne-harem, ngoba umkayo kuphela ongayithatha indawo! Kwabancane!