Yiqiniso, amantombazane ahluke, omunye ubuthakathaka kakhulu ukuze asondele futhi azijwayele, kanti enye ayinzima, ayinaso neze izinkimbinkimbi kuleli bhizinisi. Bangakwazi ukukwazi ukuhamba kalula kunoma yimuphi umuntu abathandayo futhi bajwayelene naye. Futhi kuthiwani uma ungakwazi ukwenza lokhu? Kulesi simo, indlela elula yokujwayele ukuvakashela lezo zindawo nezindawo lapho abafana ngokwabo benza isinyathelo sabo sokuqala. Ngalesi sizathu, kunezinkulumo ezihlukahlukene, lapho umoya ngokwawo uthi ukuphola ngeke kugwenywe. Ukukwazi ku-club noma ku-disco kungenye yezinto ezilula. Kodwa-ke, kunesisindo esisodwa "kodwa". Ngaphambi kokunikeza ukumomotheka, banquma ukuthi ufike ngani lapha. Ukuthola umuntu ohlala njalo noma nje ukuba ujabule. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula nokuthatha inothi ukuthi abafana kule minyaka badinga ngempela, kodwa, yebo, akuwona wonke umuntu futhi balenga ilebula kummeli ngamunye wesilisa esingeke sasike. Mane nje lokhu kuyi-physiology yomfana - ikakhulukazi kule minyaka futhi kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi kucatshangelwe. Ngakho-ke qaphela kakhulu, lapho ukhetha umfana futhi ufunde ukuhlukanisa ukuthi uyini ngempela. Ukufuna imizwa eqotho - bheka umfana ozolile, onesizotha, ohlakaniphile, uma ufuna into ehamba phambili (njengoba ikusho, i-ponagley), kusengakabikho ukukhetha i-macho ekhululekile, eyaziwa. Futhi nje iqembu - lokhu kungenye yezakhi zamadoda walolu hlobo. Yiqiniso, enye inkinga ingavela ngaphambi kwakho, ngenxa yokuthi akubona bonke abazali abazokhipha indodakazi yabo encane eqenjini. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, uye kwenye yokuthola isikole, kholwa kimi, umphumela uzoba okufanayo. Ngendlela, ungakhohlwa ukuziletha e-oda eligcwele lokulwa. Qinisekisa ukuthi wenza i-hairdo, i-makeup (gcizelela amehlo - ukuthi yini eqhuba wonke umuntu odidekile), agqoke ngokugqamile ngangokunokwenzeka, okungavelela emgqeni wamanye amantombazane. Futhi ungikholelwe mina, umphumela uzodingeka ulinde isikhathi eside. Abafana kule minyaka, njengombuso, baqhutshwa kumantombazane, ahluke kakhulu, ukubukeka kwawo nokuziphatha kwabo bonke abanye. Ngaphezu kokutholakala kokuthandana kwe-disco kungatholakala futhi nje ukuhamba epaki. Isibonelo, ufikile epaki (ungakwazi ngisho nomngani), ngamehlo akho uthola umfana omuhle. Ngokushesha wasondela futhi wathi ungaphakathi kuleli paki okokuqala futhi awukwazi ukuthi yimuphi umgwaqo odinga ukudlula isikhathi ngaphambi kokuhlangana nabangane (cela ukubamba). Ngalokhu konke, ungakhohlwa ukumomotheka, kuleso simo, akukho muntu oyedwa ongeke anqabe. Qala ingxoxo naye, bese konke kuzokwenzeka ngokwakho. Yazi, lo mfana akadingi ngempela ukunqotshwa. Ngaphandle kokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi kungabonakali ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala, uma kunesidingo: akuzona zonke izikhulu eziqinile futhi ezihlakaniphile. Ngezinye izikhathi aziphazamisi nhlobo, ngokuzithoba futhi asihambisani nathi "othandekayo". Kunoma yikuphi, kukhona njalo okunye okumele sikhulume ngakho futhi sithande umfana. Futhi ukuphola nabantu abapholile kusukela eminyakeni engu-15-17 kuyoba umbono omuhle okwenzeka ezindaweni ezithandwa kakhulu futhi ezigcwele kakhulu zedolobha. Kulezi zindawo, ukukhetha okuhle kungase kube yinkinga yokudoba. "Ukuwa phansi ngaphambi komuntu" - ngezinye izikhathi kuyasiza kakhulu. Kulapha ukuthi ungasondela kunoma yimuphi umfana futhi umbuze ukuthi yini ezokufundisa ukuthi ufunde (futhi kungakhathaliseki uma wazi ukuthi ungayenza kanjani). Yiba nesibindi futhi uzibuze ukuthi igama lakhe lingubani, bese-ke, ngenxa yokuthi uyimi phezu kweqhwa kabi, uzonikeza ukuhamba futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ukukufundisa ukuthi ungayenza kanjani. Uma eqhubeka enqaba, khona-ke vele uze uhlangabezane nomunye umfana, ukuthi abanye abafana, azikho amahle. Into esemqoka ukukhombisa logic yabesifazane futhi yonke iminyango izovuleka ngaphambi kwakho. Ngakho konke kungenzeka ngisho nasezimo ezingenangqondo kakhulu.
Ngokuqondene nezinye izindawo, hamba nentombazane enkabeni yedolobha. Ngicabanga ukuthi kuwo wonke amadolobha kukhona indawo lapho iningi lamantombazane namantombazane lihlangana khona kusihlwa. Futhi, ungakhohlwa ukuthi "uzenze ube mhle", bese uphinde ubonise ubuqili nobuqili. Thenga wena "WINSTON" encane futhi nje ukhohlwe ngeso lengqondo ukukhanya. Khona-ke, akudingekile ukuba ubheme - ake kube yinye yezinyathelo zakho zemidlalo. Thola i-macho ehle kunazo zonke, bese nje ukhuphukela kuye ngokumomotheka okumnandi bese umcela ukuba akhanyise. Lapha, kuzo zonke izimo - inketho yokuwina.
Ngakho ungamazi lo mfana ngokusekelwe ezintweni zakho zokuzilibazisa. Yiya ekhonsathini, enye yeqembu lakho ozithandayo. Ngesikhathi sokusebenza, ungakwazi njalo ukukhuluma nomuntu oseduze mayelana nethalenta linye noma elinye iqembu, umenzi. Khumbula ukuthi ungumuntu oshayisayo, okusho ukuthi usuvele unento eyodwa efana nayo ezokwenza indima ebalulekile kulabo obaziyo. Ngendlela, lapha nangaphezulu kwesihloko sengxoxo akudingekile ukucabanga isikhathi eside. Izovele isethelwe ukuvakashela lo mcimbi. Futhi nangu umfana olalela umculo wakho ozithandayo, futhi. Kuyafaneleka ukuphawula ukuthi kulula kakhulu izithakazelo ezivamile kanye nezokuzilibazisa ukuthola umfana nokumazi. Futhi, njengamthetho, abafana eminyakeni eyi-15-17, sebevele banamaphutha ayishumi nambili nokuzilibazisa. Ngakho kungani ungajoyina futhi uzizame kulokhu noma lelo bhizinisi, elizokukhonza njengelithi "ukukhanya okuluhlaza" ekufuneni umfana omuhle.
Futhi uzifake encwadini ukuthi into esemqoka ihlale iphoqelekile, ngalesi sikhathi abafana bahlonipha umgomo wabo futhi bakwazi ukuthola amantombazane abo. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuzibonakalisa njengentombazane enhle kakhulu, ongayikukhathazeka nhlobo. Amantombazane asheshayo, abathandana kakhulu emhlanganweni wokuqala. Bonisa futhi ukuthi ungumuntu othakazelisayo futhi onomthwalo onomuntu ongakwazi ukuxoxa nganoma yisiphi isihloko. Khumbula, awuzange ube ingane isikhathi eside futhi kuqala kokubili ufuna umfana ngobuhlobo obude futhi obukhulu. Landela lawa macebiso - futhi ukuphola namadoda kusukela eminyakeni engu-15 kuya ku-17 ubudala nangaphezulu kuyayeka ukuba inkinga kuwe!