Indlela yokuvumelanisa nesimo senkosikazi?

Ingabe uyiyinkosikazi yendoda eshadile? Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Indlela yokuvumelanisa nalesi simo? Lesi simo sihlambalaza besifazane abaningi abakhona kule ndawo. Futhi kwabanye besifazane akunandaba.

Indoda yakho inomfazi ohlala emlindele ekhaya. Lona ngemuva kwakhe, okuhlale kulungele ukumfudumala. Inkosikazi ithola ubulili kumuntu ongaziwa futhi inakekelwa kancane. Yimaphi abesifazane abakhetha isimo senkosikazi, hhayi umkakhe noma intombi?

Kukhona uhlobo lwabesifazane abazingela amadoda ashadile kuphela. Bafuna ukumkhipha emndenini ngamandla abo bonke bese bemshada. Ikakhulukazi uma lo muntu ecebile futhi ekhangayo. Ngakho abesifazane abanjalo bazama ukuziphindisela kwabanye. Kanti futhi, ukuthatha umyeni womunye, basho, noma kukhona izinzuzo. Uma bekwazi ukumthatha futhi bamshade naye, lo mshado ngeke uhlale isikhathi eside.

Uhlobo lwesibili lubandakanya abesifazane abashadile abahlangana nabesilisa abashadile. Zilingana nokuhlukunyezwa. Ugijimela kumyeni wakhe kuye, futhi uyagijima kuye esuka kuye. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi bangabangane nemindeni, futhi abafazi bangabangane abakhulu. Bobabili baqamba amanga futhi bafihle. Kubo kufana ne-adventure ejabulisayo.

Uhlobo lwesithathu lwabesifazane yibo abathanda isikhundla sabo, indima yepulani lesibili. Kubo, isimo sengqondo esinjalo siyamukeleka futhi asikho isibopho komunye nomunye. Banocansi ngaphandle kwezibopho. Uma kungazelelwe indoda yakhe eshadile inquma ukuyeka umkakhe futhi ihambe kuye, khona-ke lesi simo asihambisani naye. Njengoba uzohlela isikhundla somthandi, hhayi umfazi noma u-cohabitant.

Kukhona nabesifazane abanezinkimbinkimbi ezikhetha amadoda asetshenziselwe ukuzibiza. Abesifazane abanjalo banento engalungile ngokuzethemba. Uyesaba ubuhlobo nabesilisa abangashadile, ngoba wesaba ukuthi uzoyeka noma acele umshado. Ubuhlobo nendoda eshadile kuyomnika isizathu kubahlobo nakwabaziyo ukuthi ngeke ashiye umndeni wakhe, futhi akafuni ukuchitha umndeni.

Kukhona abesifazane abathanda indoda, kodwa abazi ukuthi unomndeni. Icala elinjalo livame ukujwayela, ukuthi abesifazane bayakhohliswa abathandekayo. Amadoda afuna izizathu zokuthi kungani angahlali naye ebusuku. Kodwa eqinisweni unomfazi, okwakungeke akutshele yona. Ngisho nomkakhe akazi ukuthi unayo.