Indlela yokuziphathisa nomuntu oshayayo

Isibonakaliso ngasinye se-zodiac sinemfanelo ethile yobuntu, ukuziphatha nokunye okuningi. Uma unake ukubhula ngezinkanyezi, ungafunda indlela yokuziphatha kahle nomuntu kunoma yiluphi uphawu. Kulesi sihloko, sizoxoxa ngokuthi hlobo luni lokuziphatha okufanele lube ngowesifazane ukuze luhambisane nomuntu oshayayo. Eqinisweni, akulula kakhulu ukuziphatha nge-scorpion, ngoba kuyisignali engavumelani kakhulu. Abaningi abaye baqaphela lokhu, bazibuze: kanjani ukuziphatha ne-scorpion yesilisa?

Ngakho-ke, usebenza kanjani nomuntu oshayayo? Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo, okokuqala kudingekile ukwazi zonke izimfanelo eziyisisekelo nezici zomuntu onjalo. Ukuba nolwazi olunjalo kuphela, ungakwazi ukunquma indlela yokuziphatha ngendlela efanele.

Kwendoda eyazalwa ngaphansi kwalesi sibonakaliso, kwakukhona njalo ukukhathazeka. Ngempela, laba bantu bazinikezele ngokuphelele kulokho akuthandayo nakulokho akuthandayo. Kungaba umsebenzi, izingane, owesifazane othandekayo, abangane. Njengoba siseduze ne-scorpion, abaningi bangase bacabange ukuthi uyumuntu ozolile futhi olinganiselayo. Eqinisweni, lokhu akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngaphakathi komuntu onjalo kukhona njalo imizwelo eminingi ayenayo. Abesilisa abanjalo cishe abazange banake umbono womunye umuntu, bathanda ukuphatha nokuhola. Ngomuntu onjalo kungcono ukuthi anganqobi, ngoba uzofeza konke futhi uyohlala engowokuqala. I-quarrel ne-scorpion nayo ayifuni. Umuntu walesi sibonakaliso ukhumbule unomphela izikhalazo eziqinile futhi cishe akaze abathethelele. Uma umfana wakho eyi-scorpion, akufanele neze umvimbe ekubeni angenzi abangane. Ngisho noma ungathandi kakhulu abangane bakhe, kungcono ukuthi ungakhulumi ngakho. Iqiniso liwukuthi ngo-scorpions, ubungane kusho okuningi. Bahlale bethembekile kubangane babo, ngaphandle uma befaka inkohlakalo noma babulala.

Kodwa, kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi uthando ngo-scorpion lusho okungaphansi kobuhlobo. Uma umfana wakho we-scorpion ethanda wena, uzozizwa njalo. Kodwa uma kwenzeka, uma ungayinaki imfihlo yangaphakathi. La madoda anamahloni okubonisa abanye ukuthi unamathele kakhulu kumuntu. Ngakho-ke ungayinaki kulokhu kuziphatha. Kholelwa kuphela imizwa yakho. Futhi eduze kwe-scorpion njalo kubonakala uthando lwakhe olukhulu. Iqiniso liwukuthi lokho kusho ukuphila komuntu onjalo. Ngeke ashintshe futhi alahle imizwa yakhe kubaningi. Ama-Scorpion ayingqayizivele. Bangathanda umuntu oyedwa ukuba abe ngumswakama, noma angathandi neze. Kumfana onjalo, ukwethembeka ebuhlotsheni kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, zama ukungamqambi amanga kuye. Ngokuba inhlanhla, iqiniso elibabazayo lihle kakhulu kunamanga amnandi. Ngisho nezindaba ezimbi kunawo wonke azitshela ngobuqotho, umuntu onjalo, ngokushesha noma kamuva uzosinda futhi athethelele, uma kunesidingo. Kodwa amanga ngaye afana nokukhaphela. Owesifazane othandekayo, i-scorpion izokwenza konke. Ukuqala ukumnakekela, uzoziphatha ngendlela efanele, njengendlela efanele, ukwenza izipho futhi anake. Labafana abakaze bahlale eceleni, behlazekile ukuze baqonde okuthile. Benza izinto eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, futhi uthando lwabo nokunakekelwa kwabo njalo bafezekisa umgomo wabo.

Eduzane ne-scorpion, ungazuza okuningi, ngoba abantu abanjalo bazama njalo ukusiza izihlobo ukuba zenze konke ukwenza amaphupho abo afezeke. Ngakho-ke, ungalokothi ushiye usizo lwezinhlanzi zakho, ikakhulukazi uma uludinga ngempela. Iqiniso liwukuthi umuntu onjalo uphuthele kakhulu ngenxa yokwenqaba okunjalo, ngoba unikeza ukusekelwa kwakhe kusukela phansi kwenhliziyo, ezama ukusiza othile omthandayo ngempela, uyakwazisa futhi uyayigcina.

Ngokuqondene nomshado we-scorpion, kuyinto enzima kakhulu kuye. Uma umuntu onjalo ethanda futhi efuna ukuhlala nowesifazane konke ukuphila kwakhe, ngokuqinisekile uyomnikela ukuba ashade, futhi, ngokushesha nje ngemva kokuqala kobudlelwane. Ngakho-ke, uma ubulokhu uthandana ne-scorpion iminyaka eminingana, futhi engakhulumi ngomshado, usuvele udinge uqaphele. Cishe, insizwa yakho ayicabangi ubudlelwane obubi. Kulesi simo, udinga ukukhuluma naye ukucacisa isimo. Ungapheli kuphela, futhi ungabeki "umbuzo onqenqemeni". Ama-scorpions awayithandi lokhu, athukuthela futhi azizwele. Futhi, ukuya engxoxweni enjalo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi kungasho ukuphela kobudlelwane. Uma i-scorpion ivuma ukuthi ayikuthandi, ngeke aqhubeke ehlangana. Ukuze uhlasele ebuhlotsheni obungathí sina, uthando ludlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa, uma esakunika ukukushada, thola - lo muntu uyakuthanda futhi uyakwazisa ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye. Njengoba engabongi abangane bakhe, ngumndeni ohlala kuqala ohlelweni lwakhe lokuziphatha. Ngomkakhe nezingane, umuntu onjalo uyokwenza konke, uma nje bengalokothi banakeke. Ungahlala uncike kuye nganoma yiluphi udaba. Ukuqiniseka ngokuqinisekile ukuthi uzokwenza. Umthwalo wemfanelo ungenye yezimfanelo ezinhle ze-scorpion. Ukuphila ne-scorpion ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa, ungalokothi uzame ukuba yinhloko yomndeni. Angeke abe nomfazi onamandla kunaye. Ngakho-ke, kufanele udale inkolelo yokuthi nguye owenza konke. Nakuba, eqinisweni, uvele ukwazi ukuwahola ngobuchule. Kanti futhi ama-scorpions angama-idealists, ngakho-ke, ngezinye izikhathi kungase kubonakale kuwe ukuthi ufuna okuningi kuwe. Ngalokhu kunzima ukulwa nalokhu, ngoba i-scorpion ngokwayo izama ukwenza okuhle kakhulu, ngakho-ke labo abanayo kufanele nabo babe ngcono kakhulu. Ngomuntu onjalo kudingekile ukuba uzinake njalo futhi ngokuvamile ube ngowesifazane ongabaziqhenya futhi azibonge.

Uma sikhuluma ngobuhlobo bocansi, kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi ubulili budlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu ku-scorpion. Kodwa, ngesikhathi esifanayo, akasoze wakha ubudlelwane phakathi kobulili obulodwa. Ngomuntu onjalo, ubulili nothando azihlukaniswanga. Uyakwazi ukwenza ubulili nokuthanda. Ngakho-ke, akudingekile ukuba umfana aphike lokhu futhi aziphathe ngokuzithoba, ngoba i-scorpion ifuna njalo ukuhlolwa nokubonakala okusha.

Bheka futhi: Ukuhlanganyela nomuntu-scorpion