Ngakho-ke, yebo, yebo, kakade gxuma. Okusho ukuthi awudingi ukusikhukhula ngento yonke ongayithenga-thola. Ukuqonda okubalulekile kuye nokuthi yini ayifunayo yiyona ebalulekile. Futhi udinga ukuqonda ngaphambi kwalokho ukuthi uzoyiqonda. Indoda eyahamba e-Afrika eminyakeni eyizinkulungwane ezingu-50 edlule ayizange ishintshe okuningi. Le ndoda yayihlale isilungele ukugijimela emanzini amakhulu, uma kwenzeka nje kwenzeka emehlweni akhe. Futhi manje siyakwazi zonke izenzo ze-idiotic. Uma owesifazane ebukeka, indoda iguquka umhlaba, uba uhlukile. Owesifazane akasoze abeka icala zonke izinkinga zethu, yena usemlandeleni futhi uwela ngaphansi kwesandla esishisayo. Yebo, yebo, siqeda isimo sengqondo esibi, kwenzeka-futhi akusizi ngalutho, akunjalo. Futhi-ke zonke izinto ziba ngcono, ubheka futhi ucabanga: "Kodwa akakhathaleli ngisho!" Amanye amadoda abuye afane nokwehla komndeni wesifazane. Uhlobo luni lentombazane, othandekayo wami, ngokuqondile, wahlanza izihlathi zakhe nge-strawberries. Khona-ke ikhukhamba ... Ngesinye isikhathi indoda imbukela njengomama wengane ekhuphukela emgodini, ngesineke. Lapha wayesekhamuziwe futhi ehleka kakhulu - enhle! Ekhaya, indoda iyazi intombi yakhe ngendlela engekho omunye umuntu ayibona ngayo! Kuyafaneleka kakhulu. Awukwazi ukucela owesifazane ukuthi uhlale ehle kahle. Ngoba kubangele. Awukwazi ukuphelela wonke usuku nosuku. Uma umuntu engazi lokhu, ngeke akwazi ukuhlala nanoma ubani okungaphezu konyaka. Ekuqaleni, owesifazane uyazifihla futhi akahambanga evulekile emasikeni amabi kakhulu emfudumeni kaNovemba. Udla nje ukudla, futhi akawaqedi. Indoda nowesifazane: ubudlelwano bobulili - isihloko sesihloko.
Ukukhulelwa kumuntu akukhuthazi ngokukhethekile
Umehluko kuphela ukuthi wawunomzimba omncane, kodwa manje sekuyi-pot-bellied. Uthi kuye: bheka, bheka, isithende, thinta. Iyini isithende? Futhi-ke uthatha umntwana ezandleni zakho, futhi intambo yomlomo iphinde inikezwe ukunqunywa, bese uqala ukuzizwa konke. Ngangikhulelwe futhi ngikhumbula konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okuyingqayizivele, ngisho ne-catharsis. Nginamadodakazi amabili - ayishumi futhi cishe eminyakeni eyisithupha. Futhi ngihlale ngididekile emasokisini abo kanye nezicathulo, angiqondi ukuthi baziqaphela kanjani. Baye beza kimi bebuza imibuzo enzima. Bonke abantu kanye nesimo sengqondo esicasulayo sabathengi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lapho imisebenzi yemoto - futhi namanje ngandlela-thile ayikuhle. Uma ubuhle bokuzwa bulahlekile, izimangalo ziqala: ungikhokhele lokhu, khona-ke ikhanda lami liyazilimaza njalo, ngisho nakusihlwa. Manje lokhu kungikhuthaza futhi ngiqamba amanga kimi, ngiqamba amangakwane amahle. Akukho buhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Noma kunjalo: ubungane obuphakathi kwendoda nowesifazane kuyisidingo lapho efuna khona, futhi usabaza. Abesifazane balungele ukuba abangane, ngoba indoda indoda. Nganginesikhathi eside nginezintombi, wayeqiniseka ukuthi sasingabangane nje. Ngisanda kuqaphela ukuthi kusheshe kakhulu ukumhlasela. Wayekholelwa ukuthi sithandana ngokuphelele nomngane womunye nomunye, simemeza, sixoxe ngezincwadi, sihleka okuthile - lokhu kungukuthi ubuhlobo ... Futhi ngacabanga ukuthi lokhu kwakungesizathu sokungacansini. Ngokuvamile umuntu ulale ukuze agweme ama-scandals. Nini ukuchaza isikhathi eside kunokuqamba amanga. Awu, ngubani ozokukholelwa ukuthi ulele ehambahamba nabesifazane ababili embhedeni futhi ungazange ucabange ngakho? Kodwa kwenzeka ngezinye izikhathi! Lapha uqamba amanga: lokho kwakungekho imizwa, bebedakiwe ... Abesifazane besilisa abashadile babonakala ngathi njengabafazi bomngane. Kukhona ikhodi ethile yesilisa, ongeke ukwazi ukuqhubeka nayo. Kodwa ezimweni eziningi lokhu akusivimbeli. Ngokusho kwami, amadoda angashadile angabesifazane abangashadile. Kwabesifazane, lokhu kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nezimangalo ezingaphezulu. Futhi kubantu - ngenkani. Amadoda athambekele ekuphishekeleni ngokungadingekile indaba yethando. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka - kahle, hhayi okulandelayo lapha, kepha bonke bayahamba, bahamba, bafuna okuthile ... Ngiyazi amantombazane amaningi ahlala yedwa ngoba kulula kakhulu. Njengoba ngihlala iminyaka eminingana ngedwa, angifuni ukuvumela noma ubani ekuphileni kwami. Ngoba noma ubani ozayo, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuyoba khona amasokisi ahloniphekile emagumbini futhi aphumele esibukweni esibhebheni. Futhi kulula ukungazicasuli ngezizathu ezinjalo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukhona amantombazane, ngesikhathi esihloniphekile, aqhubeke elindele isikhulu, amamitha ayisishiyagalolunye nambili, ekamela elimhlophe. Kunzima kubo. Ngenxa yokuthi ikamela eliyihloko, elingamamitha angamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nambili, kuhlale kunemigqa. Nginomngane wami, uyazi ukuthi uhle. Ucebile futhi uzibheka njengakufanelekile. Futhi akaqondi kahle, lapho isifiso esilandelayo sithukuthele ukuthi ubheka ohlangothini. Akaqondi ukuthi kungani uhlala nomunye oyedwa - ungenza abaningi bajabule. Futhi usiza ngempela bonke abesifazane bakhe - uthenga amafulethi, izimoto. Okusho ukuthi, ukholelwa ukuthi: abesifazane bahlupheka ngenxa yobugovu babo.
Amadoda akhala
Lapho ubuhlobo buqala ukuhlukana futhi wayekulungele ukuyeka konke, wakuqonda, wahlala phansi esitokisini esincane futhi wakhala. Konke ngobuqotho, ngaphandle kwenhloso. Yiqiniso, wayeka. Kwase kwesikhashana baqhaqhaqhaza, base bephuka. Izinyembezi ziyeke ukusebenza nabesifazane. Amadoda angaphansi kokuziqhenya futhi ayengathandeki ekukhonzeni, njengoba kuvame ukukholelwa. Kodwa kukhona phakathi kwethu abaqoqayo abaqondisayo - lapha basiphuca sonke izibalo. Wonke umuntu ohluphekile uyohlale enesithakazelo emzimbeni wesifazane osemusha, ngoba umzimba wezilwane. Umbuzo usemqondweni wakhe nasekufanelekeni kokuzihlonipha. Bonke laba "daddies", ngokuthinta esidlangalaleni imbongolo yamantombazane eneminyaka engamashumi amabili ubudala, bamane bengenele. Abesifazane abanamantombazane nabesilisa besithembu - izitha eziphelele. Ngahlulela ngokusho kubangane: ngokuvamile abesifazane babo bebaqala ukukhathala ubudlelwano futhi baqale ukufuna okuthile ohlangothini. Futhi lo mlimi wayehlala ngenxa yommbila ophukile. Kusukela ekuphingeni kukhona njalo yena kanye naye, kudingekile ukuthi kube nokulingana kule nkinga, kubesilisa nabesifazane. Kuwesifazane, indoda akuyona into engokwenyama ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ungakwazi ukuxhumana nathi ngaphandle kokucabanga ngobuhlobo bethu obuseduze noma obuseduze. Ngendoda, owesifazane owayesondelene naye kuphela owesifazane owayesondelene naye.