Ukuqonda kwanamuhla ngothando-mahhala akunalo ukuhlukahluka kwemizwelo "yezingane zezimbali": ubulili obuyisisekelo ngaphandle kwezibopho. Futhi ngaphandle kokuhlangana okungokomoya, okuyinto uthando. Oomama nabababa bethu embuzweni othi "nani, ndawonye?" Ukwenza amehlo awonayo futhi uthi: "Yebo kungukulala nje kuphela, akukho lutho lomuntu siqu." Bafihla futhi bafihle imizwelo manje, ngoba kungase kube namahloni, kodwa ukukhanga ngokomzimba - kahle, yini, ocabanga ukuthi, kufana nokudla. Ngokubukeka kwe-emo, futhi nabo kanye nethemba lokubuya kwemizwa ngesimo. :)
Usuphelile.
Iyini inkinga? Ezimweni "zothando olulodwa olulodwa-free", abaqalile ngokuvamile bafana, futhi amantombazane banikwa indima yokulinda ngokuthobeka uPenelope. Kunezinhlobo eziningi ze-pretexts ezibonakalayo: isibonelo, "Ngingumuntu odala." Ungathukutheli, ngoba leli vesi elisha, lizokubonisa kuphela!
Kungani uyidinga. Ukuziqhenya kwamanye amazwe kungamane kuphazamiseke ubudlelwane obuningi bokuthi "bukhanya" nabangane namaqhawe wezinsizakalo zokuhlukumezeka. Ngingathini? Kumele ukwazi ukulalela wena nezifiso zakho. Nakuba lokhu akulula, kunjalo. Kungenye indaba uma uvuma ngokuqondile "Yebo, asiphathe ngokukhululekile, ngendlela, ngithande le ntombazane isikhathi eside." Nonke ngokusobala awunalo uthando oluthandana naye, kodwa ubungane. Noma mhlawumbe ungakakulungeli ukuvuma ukuthi bobabili baye baqeda futhi bengasathandani?
Futhi uma uthatha ithuba? Gcina ukusondelana nokufudumala, uma umbhangqwana wakho usesimweni sothando-mahhala, kunzima kakhulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhululiwe kanjani ubandlululo, wena kanye nensizwa yakho awunamazwi, ukwazi ukuthi njalo kusihlwa izindebe zakhe ziyamangazwa enye intombazane, futhi, mhlawumbe, uyakuthanda okungaphezu kweyakho.
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekile isayithi