Indoda yafika ezinyaweni zakhe - kanti umkakhe wayengadingeki

Indoda, njengoba kwakunjalo esikhathini esidlule, iyinhloko yomndeni. Nguye ongokoqobo, isisekelo, ukuziphatha okuhle kanye nezomnotho. Ngokuqondene nesici sokugcina, owesifazane wesibini oqaphele umyeni wakhe akajabuli uma ehola futhi eletha imali emndenini kunokuba yena ngqo. Ngakho-ke, umyeni njalo uzama ukuphakama kakhulu kule ndaba, ngaleyo ndlela azibonakalise ukuthi uyindoda yangempela. Cishe waphawula okungaphezu kwesisodwa kulo lonke impilo yakho yomndeni ukuthi wazama ukuhamba ngezinyawo zakhe futhi aqonde imigomo yakhe yokuthuthukisa umndeni wakho. Futhi kwenzeke, umyeni wakho ufeze umgomo wakhe futhi waba umuntu ophumelelayo ngokwezimali futhi ozimele. Kodwa, kanye nemali, imibono ehluke ngokuphelele empilweni, kuhlanganise nawe, yafika kuye. Wena, ngokusobala ube ngumuntu owengeziwe, emshadweni wakho futhi uzama ukukukhombisa lokhu kuzo zonke izindlela. U-Constant wayezishayile indiva, uhlambalaza, futhi ngempela, wena, ngakho-ke uma usondelene nomunye nomunye abantu, ngokuphawulekayo futhi waba kude kakhulu. Phila, njengabahlali ababili ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa. Nakhu kuwe, ubufakazi bokuthi imali iyabhubhisa abantu, ngisho noma ukungcola kwabo kuhlasela abantu abaseduze. Lapha kukhona - imali elula. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuyinkinga enkulu kubesifazane, njengomgcini wezindlu. Futhi ukusiza ngandlela-thile, futhi siqonde lesi simo, ake sizame ukubheka eduze nalesi simo esinzima, igama elizwakala sengathi liyisigwebo "umyeni wafika ezinyaweni zakhe - futhi umfazi wayengadingeki."

Kulesi simo, umfazi, ngokukhululekile, ubonakala, kuphela endimeni yomama wendlu. Kuxhomeke ekuhlanzeni, induduzo nokuhleleka endlini. Futhi ngeke kube khona umbuzo ngalokhu nhlobo. Ukuthi ungaqasha umgcini wezindlu, nakuba kungukuthi imali. Udinga kuphela into eyodwa - isidlo esiphundu nesinomsoco kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi silungele, njengoba kunanoma yisiphi isikhathi sizovela ekhaya. Futhi ukuhluleka kwalolu msebenzi kubhekene nesinye isikhalazo. Kodwa yini inkosikazi ayengayenza, ephuma ekhelini lomyeni wakhe, eyokuzwa, engaphezu kokuhlambalaza nokuhlambalaza. Ngokuvamile, umyeni ocebile oye wahlala ngokugcwele endaweni yakhe ezuzisa imali, uqala ukuyala owesifazane ukuba abe nemithetho yakhe. Uhlala emhlambalaza ngeqiniso lokuthi uyamgcina, ngenkathi emisa imali. Yena nsuku zonke, uchitha, ngakwesobunxele futhi ngakwesokudla isabelomali somndeni, futhi ngaphambi kwakho nezidingo zakho akangakhathaleli nje. Le ndoda ibeka i-veto ecacile futhi ecacile kumkayo, isisekelo sayo sokuvimbela ukuthenga okungahlelelwe. Wena, esikhathini esidlule, bobabili sebevele bekhohliwe, lapho bethula futhi bengenasisindo, bakhuluma ngenhliziyo ngenhliziyo, babelana ngezinkinga zabo, imizwa kanye nenjabulo. Futhi ngokujwayelekile umlingani wakho waqala ukukubona ngokuphawulekayo futhi ekhuluma nawe kuphela uma kunjalo uma enesimo sengqondo noma okuthile okudingekayo kuwe. Kodwa le ngxoxo ayisekho efana neyokuqala, ngezwi lomfazi, manje ukukhathazeka okugcwele nokubandayo kubusa. Wathula futhi wahlukana ngokuphelele. Ngemuva kokuba umyeni efika ezinyaweni zakhe - futhi umkakhe akadingeki, okuningi kuye kwashintsha futhi, ngokudabukisayo, akunandaba neze.

Izizathu zalokhu ukuziphatha komyeni, kungaba, isibonelo, yena, uthole inkosikazi. Umphumela onjalo wezenzakalo uqobo kakhulu kulesi simo. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma umuntu enemali, khona-ke ungumuntu ongabhekana nabanye abesifazane futhi akukhathazi ukuthi ukhululekile yini noma ungumqeqeshi omdala. Lapha, akugcini ngisho nokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uvele uthandane nomunye wesifazane. Ngakho waba, ebanda kakhulu futhi enganandaba nawe.

Isizathu sesibili singase sibe ukuguqulwa okubukhali kwezwe lakhe elingaphakathi. Ema ngezinyawo zakhe, ngelinye ilanga, wacabanga ngokungacabangi ukuthi kuthiwani uma ukhona naye manje ngenxa yesimo sakhe sezezimali. Isiphukuphuku, kepha isayensi yezinsizwa, mhlawumbe ayikho into enjalo. Futhi lezi zizindlo, usuku nosuku, zivusa ukuqonda kwakhe futhi ngaleyo ndlela, zona kanye abashade abavela komunye nomunye. Lapha, empeleni, indima ebalulekile yadlala ngokukhwabanisa okusheshayo nokusheshayo phezulu. Futhi, njengesiphetho, uyesaba nje ukulahlekelwa yizinto zonke, kanye nokuhaha nobubi, ukuhaha, lokhu akuyona into ehlukile, hhayi nathi.

Isizathu sesithathu siseqinisweni sokuthi ubheka amehlo akho ahluke kakhulu futhi lokhu kwamcindezela. Uhlala kwimodi ecacile kanye nesimiso esibalwa sosuku ngalunye. Ukucindezeleka nokucindezeleka kwaba abangane bakhe abathembekile. Yena, njengawe, udinga ukwesekwa kwengqondo nokwemzwelo, okungukuthi, akutholaki kuwe. Umuntu oshade naye ubona kumlingani nje umuntu ongaphandle ongakwazi ukuziphatha ngokufanele ukusiza. Ngenxa yalokhu, wayenesimo sengqondo esibi kuwe. Lapha, empeleni, wonke umlandu uhamba, kuphela kumkakhe. Ngemuva kwalokho, kumele abe ngumyeni wakhe, njengomngane, kanye nengqondo, uma engafuni ukukhokhelwa ngokugcwele.

Esinye isizathu simane nje umsebenzi wakhe ngokusebenza kwakhe nokusebenza kwakhe. Yonke imicabango yakhe inabantu abalingiswa, amaphesenti, izinkontileka nakho konke okunye okusebenzayo. Futhi kakade unamandla kuye futhi, ngokufanayo, isikhathi. Yiqiniso, washintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo, waba nesaba futhi ecasulwa. Ngaphambili, konke kwakungafani - ngaphambi kokuba izinkinga nezinkathazo azincane. Umyeni wakho, ngokumane, esikhathini esidlule, wayehola indlela yokuphila ehluke ngokuphelele. Lona ushintsho oluphawulekayo esimweni semindeni yomndeni futhi ushukumise ubuhlobo bakho.

Zama izindlela ezehlukene zokubuyisela konke ezindaweni zazo, ngoba isimo "umyeni wasukuma - kanti umfazi wayengafuni" akujabulisi kakhulu. Qala ngokwakho, unakekele ukubukeka kwakho, shintsha isithombe sakho, okwenze kube kufanele ukuqinisa isithombe somyeni wakho. Funda izincwadi nezincwadi ezihlukahlukene kwi-psychology yesilisa futhi emva kwalokho, ube nezingxoxo ezingenangqondo nomyeni wakho. Mbonise ukuthi ungumuntu onokuziqhenya nangokuziqhenya ukuzama ukunyuka izinga lemisebenzi emsebenzini wakho. Uma lokhu kungenakwenzeka, zama ukuguqula, ukuze uphumelele futhi uthembise. Uma engekho enye yezindlela engasebenzi, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kule simo kuyoba ukuhamba kwakho kumyeni wakho. Khumbula ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi kunezikhathi lapho kungakufanele nakancane, ukuyekethisa ukuze uzidela kanye nokuzola kwakho kokuziphatha.