Ukunqoba ukwesaba kwakho
Yiqiniso, inkulumo ukuthi ukwesaba okuvimbela ukusebenza okuphumelelayo kuyiqiniso eliyinhloko. Kodwa wonke umuntu wesaba ukwesaba, ngisho nezinkanyezi zezwe, ekhuluma nezinkulungwane zabantu. Into ewukuthi, kulandela ukwesaba. Isifiso sokugqoka i-cap engabonakali noma ukufakazela ukuthi ngingakwazi ukunqoba imizwelo yami. Isabelo esincane sokwesaba sivumela umzimba wethu ukuba ukhiqize i-adrenaline, evuselela amandla engqondo yomzimba, okusho ukuthi siqala ukuveza imicabango yethu futhi sikhulume kangcono. Ngakho-ke ukwesaba okuncane, kuyasiza ngisho. Kodwa uma ukwesaba okwamanje kungathandi ukuhlehlisela inani elifanele, khona-ke kuyodingeka kulwe.
Beka inkulumo yakho
Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi ukulungiswa kwesethulo kwakukhona abantu ababaziyo, abamele izethameli ezizayo. Bavumele babuze imibuzo engakhululekile, bazame ukukubamba ngamaphuzu akhohlisayo. Uma unesimo sangempela, uzokwazi ukuthi yini okufanele uphendule.
Phinda ubuyekeze izimo eziba yingozi enkulu kuwe. Umbhalo okhohliwe, isilayidi asiveli kuleso siphakamiso, sivuselele lezi zikhathi futhi unqume wena, yini ukuthi usho ukwehluleka-ukusola okuvela ezigunyeni, ukuzihlambalaza?
Hlola ukwesaba kwakho eduze, ngeke kube kubi kakhulu. Ubani ongazange athole abaphathi abathukuthele, abangazange benze umehluko empilweni?
Yenza umfula wakho siqu
Ukuqhaqhazela, hhayi okuthakazelisayo, umbhalo ongenamathele - lesi isinyathelo sokuqala sokuhluleka. Izilaleli, eziyeka ukulalela, ziqala ukuphazamisa nokuzethemba komkhulumeli.
Ukugwema lokhu kuyadingeka:
- Maka amaphuzu abalulekile enkulumweni. Gcizelela izwi, inkulumo kumanothi wezobuchwepheshe, okubonakala ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu kunombono wakho. Ungakwazi, isibonelo, ukulandisa indaba yokuphila, ehlobene nesihloko sombiko, uma, eqinisweni, uvumela ububanzi bomcimbi.
- Naka i-namamiku. Kumele kube bukhoma, kodwa kungabi bukhoma. Okufanayo kusebenza ku-kzhestikuljatsii, ungakwazi ukuyifaka enkulumweni, into eyinhloko akufanele iluveze.
- Kodwa ukwesaba kwakho izilaleli akukwazi ukuboniswa. Ukwesaba kufundwa shazi ukuthi abagibeli abazungeze igumbi nxazonke, njengokungathi bafuna utshani obusindisa. Ukugwema lokhu, khetha izethameli zenhlanhla bese uyibheka. Okuhle kakhulu, uma ehlala phakathi, uzothola umbono wokuthi ukhuluma nabo bonke ehholo.
Bhala inkulumo efanele
Imizwelo ayisizi, uma isuselwe kumbhalo othakazelisayo.
Umbhalo kufanele uphulwe izingxenye:
Isingeniso (mayelana nokuthi kungani unqume ukuphuma emalini bese uthatha isikhathi esincane ezilalelini);
Ingxenye enkulu (isisekelo senkulumo yakho);
Isiphetho (iziphetho ezivela enkulumweni yakho).
Zonke izingxenye kumele zixhumeke ngokulinganayo komunye nomunye bese ziphuma zivela komunye ngaphandle kokungacabangi.
Uma isihloko sombiko wakho singenzi sengathi siyindaba ejabulisayo, bese uyihlaziya ngamahlaya afanele, ama-aphorisms. Amaphuzu adidayo achaza ngolimi olulula, ziqhathanise, ungasebenzisa lesi sichazamazwi. Ukuqhathanisa okunjalo kungagcinwa kangcono enkumbulweni.
Iziphakamiso kumele zibe mfushane, hhayi ukulayishwa ngokweqile. Umuntu ubona kalula ingxenye yesine yolwazi, ngakho-ke imicabango ebalulekile iphinda ibuyele ezingxenyeni ezahlukene zombhalo.
Ungakhohlwa ukugcinwa kwesikhashana kolwazi, okukhanga nesithakazelo sezilaleli.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, isihloko salo mbiko kufanele sibe nesithakazelo, okokuqala kuwe, bese-ke lesi simo sengqondo sizodluliselwa ezilalelini.