Izihlobo zicela ku-chorus: "Ingabe usuvele uzilungiselele ingane enkulisa? Sekuyisikhathi kakade! Udinga ukuxhumana nokuthuthukisa! ". Amammy of kids-to-one izingane ezizibandakanya ngomunye nomunye babelana ngemiphumela ye "castings" yama-kindergartens azungezile. Abakwa-comrades asebekhulile, abangekho "bokuqala", bachaza ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi ungamcasula kanjani ingane ("Noma, uyazi, izinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala asizange siphume ku-snot"), ukuthi singamfundisa kanjani ukuba alale ohlelweni lwezinkulisa ("Uyazi ubuhle bami" Akafuni ukulala, ngakho-ke ulale phansi emini "). Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ukuthi ungaphila kanjani iqiniso lokuthi "ukupha" ingane esikhungweni sezingane ("Uyakhathazeka ngokumangaza, mina, futhi, futhi ngiyaduma, futhi ngenzeni?"). Futhi wena ngokwakho, ngokuziphatha nangokwengcebo ukulungiselela umcimbi wokwenza izinto, uhlale uzibamba ucabanga: "Mhlawumbe ngeke sihambe ...?". Ingabe izinzuzo zeqoqo lezingane zingenakulinganiswa?
Ukugcinwa kwempahla
Akungabazeki ukuthi i-enkulisa iyisakhiwo esimangalisayo sesintu, isipho sabazali banamuhla nezinto ezifana nalezi. Kodwa uma uphendukela kumqondo wangempela obeka ngaphansi kwezikhungo ezinjalo, kuyacaca: i-enkulisa iyinhlobo "yegumbi lokugcina" lapho ungakwazi "ukunikela khona" ingane uma ungenayo umuntu okumnakekela ekhaya. Kwakungeyona izehlakalo ukuthi izivande kanye nezingane zaqala ukubonakala yonke indawo ngemuva kokuphela kuka-Okthoba Revolution, lapho omama nogogo behileleke ekwakheni "ikusasa elikhazimulayo". Babephoqelelwe ukunikeza ingane enkulisa.
Yiqiniso, ukuhlala enkulisa kunzima ukuqhathanisa nesimo "sesithombe, ibhasikidi kanye nekhadibhodi" emithwalweni - kukhululekile kakhulu, kunabangane, amakilasi futhi uhamba ... Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngakwezinye izingxenye zezifo ezivame ukulingana nokucindezeleka, ukuphikisana kwengane "Ozakwethu" noma umfundisi, ubunzima bomndeni nezinye izizathu, ngenxa yokuthi inyane elithile lingase lingayi enkulisa. Ingabe kuyolimaza intuthuko yakhe?
Umzabalazo wokuhlalisana kwabantu
"Kuthiwani ngokuhlangana noontanga?" - Abazali abanothando bajabule. Sifundiswa kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuthi kuphela engadini ukuthi umntwana angathola "ulwazi olugcwele" lokuxhumana. Sizoyiqonda, ingabe kunjalo ngempela? Okokuqala, enkulisa ingane ayikhethi ukuthi ubani ozoxhumana naye, futhi ngubani - cha, ngoba uchitha sonke isikhathi esivumelwaneni esivaliwe. Okwesibili, amaqembu akhiwa ngesisekelo sobudala. Futhi ingabe sixoxa kuphela noontanga? Okwesithathu, ukukhulumisana kwengane kudingekile - kodwa ngobuningi obunjalo, njengenkulisa? Maye, ngenxa yesimiso sezinzwa zezingane eziningi lokhu kuvivinyo olubi kakhulu. Phela, ngisho nosuku olusebenzayo lomuntu omdala, ngisho nethimba elinobungane kubangela ukukhathala. Umsindo, ukungakwazi ukuthatha umhlalaphansi nokuphumula ekukhulumisaneni, ukuguqula umsebenzi - konke lokhu kunganciphisa impilo yengane enesimiso sezinzwa ezisengozini.
Abasekeli be-kindergartens bakholelwa ukuthi lapha ingane iphoqelelwa ukuthola ulimi oluvamile neontanga, ukuzibiza eqenjini. Futhi igama eliyinhloko "liphoqelelwe." Akukho ndawo ongayenza! Kodwa ingabe uyayidinga ngqo ingane yakho manje? Phela, izingane zihluke ngokuphelele! Omunye osekuyiminyaka engama-4 usekulungele ukuhola ama-comrades, ngisho nasemkhankasweni we-arctic. Futhi enye kuphela ngonyaka wesi-6 no-7 uzobonisa isifiso sokuxhumana nezingane, futhi iphoqe ingane ngokuphoqa - kuphela ukuze imlimaze.
Isiyalo: ngokumelene nokuphikisana
"Yini okufanele ifundise inkulisa, ngakho-ke kuyisiyalo!" - bathi "abazali bendabuko". Futhi-ke, zizobe zilungile. Esikhathini sokubeletha esivela kumntwana sidinga ukugcinwa okuqinile kwendlela yokuphila nsuku zonke, ukulalela imiyalo yabantu abadala. Kodwa ... kubalulekile yini ukunika ingane engadini lokhu? Njengomthetho, ngaphansi kwesiyalo sisho "ukunqoba" ingane ngokwayo, izifiso zakhe, kanye nezidingo zenyama. Awufuni i-porridge? Ake 'singakwazi'! Awufuni ukufunda, ufuna ukugijima? Konke kuhamba ukuhamba, futhi ugijima. Awufuni ukulala? Amanga, yiba nesineke. Ukukhathazeka, umbuzo: ingabe kuyasiza empilweni yengane inqubo enjalo ye "perebaryvaniya uqobo" (udle lapho umzimba ungakulungeli ukudla, hlala lapho ufuna ukugijima), ungakhulumi ngokuphila okuhle? Futhi igunya elidumile lomfundisi? Ingabe kunengqondo ukuphikisana ngokuthi "Ngiqinisile, ngoba sengimdala!"? Mhlawumbe kunembile kakhulu ukuthuthuka ekukhulekeleni nje ngomqondo wokuhlonipha abanye - kodwa ngokuqinisekile hhayi ukuzithoba okungenakuphikisa, umngcele wokwesaba isijeziso? Uma ubheka "empandeni," ukuqondiswa kwempi cishe kwama-kindergartens amaningi aseSoviet kwakungumqondo ojwayelekile wokukhulisa "izinkinga" zomphakathi abalungele ukuhlaziswa futhi abazi ukuthi bangazinakekela kanjani, futhi futhi ngokungenakuphikisa - futhi bengacabangi! - thobela igunya. Abantu abanjalo bakulungele umphakathi wobumbano. Kodwa ingabe kufanelekile manje? Mhlawumbe kungcono ukufundisa ingane ukuba ihleleke futhi iphendule izenzo zabo? Futhi abazali, ngesibonelo sabo, bafundisa ingane ukuba isuse amathoyizi, ikhava itafula, imboze umbhede?
Ngenzuzo yekhaya
Ngakho-ke, uma ufika esiphethweni sokuya enkulisa - umcimbi ongekho kuwe, qiniseka ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi ungenza kanjani ingane yakho ikhule ngokuvumelana.
1. Ukuxhumana
Abazali abaningi bayesaba yilokho okuzokwenzeka kohambo oluzayo lwesikole - bathi, ingane yethu ingenakho ulwazi lokuxhumana? Kodwa ukungabikho kwe-enkulisa empilweni yengane akusho ukuthi kudinga ukuvalwa ekhaya kuphela nomama noma ugogo. Hamba ngezinyawo zokuya lapho izingane eziningi, zimema izivakashi, uvakashele imibuthano nezigaba - amahora angu-1-2 wokukhulumisana ngosuku akwanele ukwenza ingane yakho ibe ilungu eligcwele lomphakathi wezingane.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo
Kuze kube sesikhathini esithile (esikoleni) izidingo zomntwana ezingqondweni ezikwazi ukwanelisa amalungu omndeni wengane. Akudingekile ukutshala imfucumfucu yedeski elincane - kungcono nakakhulu uma ethola ulwazi namakhono emidlalweni nasekukhulumisaneni. Isibonelo, uma upheka ukudla - kunzima yini ukubala nge-crumb of izaqathe namazambane bese usho ukuthi hlobo luni lwezimbali nezinhlobo? Uma ufuna okuthile "okukhethekile", enkonzweni yakho iningi lokuthuthukisa imisebenzi yezingane ezivela esikoleni. Lapha, nokuxhumana nabangane bakho nabadala, nokuqonda, nokuthuthukiswa kokudala. Uma idolobha lakho lingenayo izikhungo zokuthuthukiswa kwezingane, akunandaba! Mhlawumbe uzobambisana nabomama ababili noma abathathu bezingane zasenkulisa futhi izikhathi ezimbalwa ngesonto bangahlela izinsuku zokuthuthukiswa ekhaya. Ngokuqinisekile omunye wenu uyakwazi ukudlala upiyano futhi ahlabelele izingoma zezingane, enye izobonisa indlela yokubala izinti nama-apula, nomkhulu noma u-unina unesipho emdlalweni othakazelisayo ukutshela nge-geography noma i-biology, akufundise ukufunda noma ukudweba ... Nakuba umqondo wokufundisa " abangakujabulela nje kuphela abangane bakho, kodwa futhi nabafundi bekolishi lokuqeqesha othisha bendawo. Uzobona, ngokwezezimali ngeke kuphazamise nhlobo!
3. Ukuzethemba nokuzethemba
Ukuze ukhule ngokwengqondo kahle, ingane yakho kumele iqiniseke ukuthi iyathandwa futhi iyakwazi. Ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esiningi kanye nabantu abadala kungamvimbela ekwenzeni ukuzihlola okwanele - kepha kuphela uma ukukhulumisana kwakhiwa noma ngabe yikuphi "imifanekiso yomndeni", i-hyperopeak, noma ukucindezela njalo nokulawula (uma ingane ikhona nathi thina-ah-ah-ak sifundisa yebo-ah-ah-ak masikhulume!). Vumela ingane ibe ... ingane nje! Menze enze lokho akufunayo, masikuthuthukise, ngokweminyaka yakhe. Yiqiniso, imfundo yasemakhaya yengane ingahle ibonakale kunzima kakhulu kunejwayelekile evamile "eyamukelekile" ekhonsathini. Kufanele sibheke ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nentuthuko yokuqala, ukuthatha umthwalo wengane, ekugcineni - sivikele njalo ilungelo lethu lokungafani nabanye abantu ... Kodwa lo msebenzi oyibonga - imizamo yakho izothela izithelo, futhi uzokwazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi intuthuko ingane isezandleni zakho. Yiqiniso, iningi lethu, abazali abakhulela eSoviet Union, umqondo wokuthi ukuvakashela inkulisa akuyona into ephoqelekile, kungase kubonakale kungenangqondo ngisho nangokwemvelo. Yiqiniso, kunezinhlobo zokubeletha ezimnandi ezinothisha abanolwazi abanolwazi. Kukhona izingane ezizikhubela ukuya enkulisa futhi ziyajabula ukuchitha isikhathi lapho. Phela, kukhona abazali abangenayo enye into kodwa ukunikeza ingane enkulisa ... Kodwa uma usenayo le nketho, qhubeka noma cha, kufanele ukwenze ngokucophelela, ulinganisa konke "ukuze" futhi "ngokumelene", ukulalela inhliziyo yakho nengane. Futhi hhayi nje ngoba udinga ukunikeza ingane inkulisa.
Kuthiwani ngentuthuko?
Impikiswano ebalulekile ekufundiseni i-kindergartens imfundo eyimpoqo, ukutholakala kwamakilasi akhethekile njalonjalo. Kodwa uma ubala, kuvela ukuthi empeleni, ingane ichitha amahora 1-3 ngosuku "izifundo" enkulisa - ngokuvamile idweba, ifunda, umculo, i-logic / izibalo kanye nolunye ulimi. Futhi ukuthi ukufaneleka kwezomnotho yizindleko zakho kulawa makilasi? Eqenjini lezingane eziyi-15-25, umnakekeli akanalo isikhathi, ithuba, noma ngokuvamile isifiso esikhethekile sokuvumelanisa ikharikhulamu yengane ngayinye.
Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi kuyathakazelisa futhi kuyasiza ukufunda kusuka ohlelweni olunjalo "olulinganiselwe" okuwukuphela kwengane okuzoba "okujwayelekile". Iningi elinjalo, kodwa uma ingane yakho "isuka kubambalwa"? Kodwa i-crumb-wunderkind, okwazi ukufunda nokubhala eminyakeni emihlanu, noma i-kid-kopushe, okudingeka aqoqe imicabango yakhe isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuba enze okuthile, le "schedule" ingase ingafaneleki. Ngakho cabanga ngokucophelela ngaphambi kokunquma ukuthi ukunikeza ingane - nge-enkulisa ngezinye izikhathi kuyakufanele futhi ulinde.