Uma unquma ukuthi unganikeza ingane enkulisa noma cha, abazali balinganisela zonke izinzuzo nezingozi.
Iyini inkulisa enikezela izingane? Izazi zengqondo zicabanga ngo-Olga Krushelnytska no-Antonina Tretyakova.
Ontanga
Eminyakeni engu-3-4, umntwana unesidingo sokuxhumana hhayi kuphela namalungu omndeni omdala, kodwa futhi nezingane. Ngenkampani yezingane zontanga bafunda ukunqoba futhi balahlekelwa. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba umuntu omdala, edlala nomntwana, njalo "uyangena". Ingane ekhulela ngokuqiniseka ukuthi ikusasa lakhe yizinqola eziqinile lizobhekana nokuhlangenwe nakho okunzima esikhathini esizayo.
Emdlalweni nezinye izingane, ingane ifunda ukulalela imithetho, ukucabanga ngombono womunye umuntu. Kumuntu omdala ovunyelwe ukudlala, ingane kufanele ilingwe yiyo, noma inqotshwe ukukhala. Kodwa ukuthi uyavuma ukudlala neontanga yakho, kufanele ukwazi ukuhambisana nemithetho, unikele kwabanye.
Enkampanini yezinye izingane kuyinto ejabulisa kakhulu ukugijima, gxuma futhi uhlanganise. Futhi kulezi zingane zinesidingo somzimba.
Kodwa into eyinhloko ukuthi ukufunda ukuxhumana nezinye izingane kungcono uma usazi ukuthi kanjani, usafunda kuphela. Uma kungenjalo, uma ujoyine inhlangano yabantwana, ubungozi bokungabi namandla, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ungenakuqhathanisa.
Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungazijwayeza ontanga endaweni yokudlala, esikoleni sokuthuthukiswa kwangaphambili, lapho izingane "ekhaya" zivame ukuya khona, emnyango wazo siqu ... Yiqiniso, kulokhu kuzoba nokukhulumisana okuncane nezinye izingane, kodwa ungakwazi ukuthatha kubantwana bezingane kusuka kumbuthano wakho.
Ukuzethemba
Akekho umama enkulisa. Futhi lokhu kuyasiza ngisho nasezintweni ezinganeni, zingashadile futhi ziphelile emndenini. Bazobona ngokushesha ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu oyogcwalisa izifiso zabo, hhayi wonke umuntu oyozijabulela.
Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuhlukanisana nomama usuku lonke kungukucindezeleka okukhulu. Ubuntwana obuhlala emndenini, bunikeza umuntu umuzwa wokulondeka, ukuzethemba ngemuva kwayo yonke impilo yakhe. Phakathi komama nabantwana kunomzwelo wokubambisana okukhethekile ngokomoya.
Ukwengeza, ukunikeza ingane enkulisa esencane, cishe uyakwazi ukuthola isiphetho sabazukulu bakho. Ezinye izazi ze-psychologists zikholelwa ukuthi ukuthi sinezizukulwane eziningana zabesifazane kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila ezakhula emakhaya nasezinkulisa, ezinsukwini eziyisihlanu nezinsuku ezandisiwe, zinciphisa umqondo wazo wobazali, futhi manje zibheke imfundo yengane yabo ngaphandle komndeni ukuba ibe yedwa kuphela weqiniso.
Umjikelezo wokuxhumana
Kukhona othisha enkulisa. Ukuxhumana nabo, ingane izofunda ukulalela nokuqonda okufunwa ngabazali kuphela, kodwa nakwabanye abantu abadala. Lokhu kuhle ukulungiselela isikole.
Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ufuna ukuba athathe izindinganiso zakho, imibono yakho empilweni, ukopishe inkulumo yakho, ulingise imikhuba yakho, futhi ungathathi njengomama omunye omncane, uthisha uMarivanna, ohlala naye ensimini usuku lonke, hhayi phuthuma ukuxosha isikhwama esihlahleni.
Ukulungiselela isikole
Ensimini, izingane zilungele isikole. Lapho umculi uhlanganyela ekuculeni nasekudansa nabo. Kumodi yosuku, isikhathi sokudweba nokudweba sisabelwe ngokukhethekile. Kodwa hhayi wonke umama angahlabelela futhi aqoshwe, uzothola isikhathi nesifiso sokudansa nomntwana bese udweba. Emasimini amaningi kukhona ochwepheshe wezinkulumo. Izingane zeqembu elidala zifundiswa ukufunda nokubala.
Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukujwayela kubonisa ukuthi izingane "zekhaya" zinezinkulumo ezithuthukisiwe, i-vocabulary ezicebile, ngokuvamile zifundeka kangcono, zibhekwa futhi zibhaliwe kunezingane "zensimu", ngoba kuwukufunda nokubala ukuthi abazali bayacindezela lapho behlanganyela nezingane zabo. Futhi kumakilasi omculo nokudweba, kukhona izikole zakuqala zokuthuthukiswa, ama-studio okudala kanye nemibuthano.
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Yisiphi isibonelo sezemfundo zasenkulisa esiseduze nawe - zikhethele wena. Into eyinhloko ukuthi abazali manje banokuzikhethela: ingane inganikezwa ensimini eminyakeni emithathu, noma ingaba emihlanu, i-enkulisa ingaba isifunda, futhi mhlawumbe yangasese, futhi izingane zasekhaya zikhona amaqembu amaningi ezingane ahlukene, lapho ungathola khona ukuthuthukiswa, futhi uthole abangane.
Kungcono ukulinda
Nge-enkulisa kuyodingeka ulinde, uma:
Qala >> Ingane inezinkinga zokuthola ukugula emikhiqizweni yokudla evame kakhulu - ubisi, ukolweni ... ekudleni okomile kwezinhlanzi ze-aquarium, izimpaphe zezinyoni ... Akukhona ngoba nje ezinkulisa eziningi kunezikhala eziphilayo, futhi akukho imenyu ehlukile kuye ngeke ukupheka. Abagulayo abanesifo sofuba banezimpendulo ezikhethekile zokuzivikela ngegciwane lesandulela ngculaza. Umzimba wabo uveza ama-antibodies amancane "emnandi" phakathi nemikhuhlane, enikeza ingculazi engapheli egciwane elidlulisiwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngesikhathi sokugula ezinganeni ezithinteka emithonjeni yokulwa nemithi, kukhishwa ama-antibodies okwenza ngcono ukubhekana nezifo.
>> Uvame ukuba nomntwana ogulayo. Khona-ke kumelwe siqale siqonde izizathu zezingqanda zakhe ezihlala njalo.
>> Ingane ixhala ngokweqile, ingavumeli ukuba unina ahambe isinyathelo esisodwa, esaba abantu abangabazi, ubumnyama, akafuni ukuba yedwa ekamelweni. Ingane enjalo kufanele iqale ixoxe nabanokholo kwengqondo.
>> Ingane isivele inezimo ezimbi zokuhlukana nonina: ilele esibhedlela, isinda esahlukanweni sabazali, ukufa komunye umuntu oseduze.
Futhi kusukela ekubukeni kwezempilo?
Yini engcono - inkulisa noma ubuntwana obuchithe ekhaya? Udokotela wezingane, udokotela wezesayensi yezokwelapha, uprofesa uVladimir Tatochenko ukholelwa ukuthi azikho izingxabano ezinkulu ezibhekiswe enkulisa. Kodwa izinzuzo ezingenakubalwa "zobungane obuhlelekile" zingabhalwa ohlwini.
Qala >> Enkulisa, izingane ziphila ngokuvumelana nombuso. Ngesikhathi esifanayo badla, beka amahora abahamba ngawo, balale emini. Ekhaya, umama ongavamile noma ugogo uphazamisa ukubaluleka kombuso.
Qala >> Enkulisa, ukudla okunomsoco kulinganisela ngokweminyaka. Lapho, izingane zithola inani elidingekayo lamaprotheni, amafutha kanye nama-carbohydrate. Futhi akukho okudla okumnandi okubangela ukukhuluphala noma igastritis. Futhi badla kahle, bebuka abangane babo. Futhi ekhaya, izingane zivame ukudla ngokukholisa, zidla ukudla okuncane (ugogo ulungiselela kuphela lokho umntwana akuthandayo) noma yakhelwe amalungu omndeni omdala.
>> >> I-Sadovskie "izingane zithola yonke imishanguzo enqunyiwe ngokwekhalenda lokugoma. Futhi kubazali bezingane "zekhaya" ngezinye izikhathi izingane kufanele zigijime ukuze zibaqinisekise ukuthi bafundise ingane.
>> Futhi ngisho nokuthi izingane enkulisa zivame ukugula, kuhle. Ingane eqenjini ihlangana nenani elikhulu lamagciwane amasha abanye abantwana abalethwe ensimini kusukela emindenini yabo. Kodwa ukuzivikela ngemuva kokuthi i-SARS idluliselwe eminyakeni eminingana edlule, ngakho-ke, ngokuzijwayeza ama-virus asakazeke kakhulu ekuqaleni, i- "садовец" izogula kancane esikoleni.
Umbono wakho
- Ngikholelwa ukuthi ingane kufanele inikezwe enkulisa. Mina ngokwami ngakhulela ensimini, futhi ngangiyithanda kakhulu. Izingane zami nazo zaya enkulisa, futhi ngenjabulo. Kodwa i-kindergartens ngokwabo, engabanika yona, yayinhle kakhulu. Ngangithanda ukuthi babesebenzisana nabantwana lapho, bahlale befundisa izinkondlo, futhi kwakubonakala ukuthi kwabasiza ukuba bahlakulele ... Indodakazi kaDasha yahamba ngisho nezinsuku ezinhlanu-ngasebenza, ngisho nasebusuku. Kodwa, yiqiniso, sazama, lapho bekukhona ithuba, ukungayithathi kuphela ngezimpelasonto, kodwa futhi phakathi nesonto. Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uma ingane ikhula eqenjini, kungcono kuye.
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