Kukholi.
Isevisi ebuthweni yisikhathi esibucayi empilweni yomfana, futhi ukusekela kwakho kuye kubaluleke kakhulu. Yiyo nje indlela yokwenza ngayo, uma kubhalisiwe ngisho nezintambo ezikhethiwe? Ungaphelelwa ithemba: kwezinye izingxenye zempi kukhona ukufinyelela kwi-inthanethi, futhi uma indawo yensizakalo eduze kwedolobha lakho, ungamvakashela. Imibuzo emide kubaphathi akudingeki ibhale - thola ukuthi umfana ukhululekile, bese ufika endaweni yokuhlola - uzobizwa ngokuthi. Uma ungenangqondo, futhi ngaphambi kwenkathi yezempi ngenyanga enyangeni, awuzange uzwe ngisho ne-intanethi, sebenzisa indlela evivinywe futhi evivinyelwe - bhala izincwadi komunye nomunye, bese uthando luzoqiniswa kuphela kude. Dweba izithombe ezimnandi, ufake imvilophu yesithombe, uthumele amanothi ambalwa noma izingqikithi eziningi mayelana nothando. Isiyalo esinzima sishintsha isimo sengqondo sokuphila kwabantu, hhayi njalo kangcono. Ukuvimbela lokhu kungenzeki, zama ukuzikhumbuza kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze angazizwa enesizungu futhi ephila ngothando ngawe.
Ukuze uthole ulwazi.
Ushiya ukutadisha kwelinye idolobha noma ngisho nezwe. Akukhona nje ukuthi leyo mfundo ibaluleke kakhulu kunakho, kwakukhona usongo langempela ukuthi uzohlangana nomuntu onolwazi oluhle kakhulu lwesiFulentshi, futhi uthando luzodlula kude. Ungafaki umhawu ekude futhi ungahambi kahle ngaphandle kwesizathu. Awufuni ukuthi alahlekelwe ithuba elinjalo ngenxa yentukuthelo yakho? Mhlawumbe, umfana nje akazizwa ethanda ukuhlukanisa, nje ukuthi uyazi ukuthi ngaphandle kokuphila kwakhe komuntu kunomsebenzi futhi kungcono imfundo, amathuba amaningi okuphumelela, futhi ngothando kude nawe ngandlela-thile uphatha - uqinisekile nje. Uma ushiya, kusengcono nakakhulu. Kunzima kakhulu kumfana ukuba aqonde ukuthi ukhathazekile ngekusasa lakho siqu, futhi ngeke ujabule usuku lonke.
Ukuphumula.
Uqinisekile ukuthi abangane bakhe / izihlobo / abazali bakhe bamenza ahambe cishe ngamandla, kodwa iqiniso lokuthi bayothatha ilanga ebhishi kwenza igama "baphoqelelwe" kunokungabaza. Ukuphumula - akuzona njalo okufana neyendabuko yokubhuka, ngakho-ke othandweni ekude udinga ukuqhubeka ukholelwa. Iqiniso lokuthi akabizi zonke imizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu futhi akakhonanga ukuthi ufa ngenxa yesithukuthezi kubuye kube nokuhleleka kwezinto - uyaphumula, futhi akahlali esitokisini! Ukuhlukaniswa okunjalo kuzothinta ubudlelwane, kuphela uma uzongcolisa isimo sakhe sengqondo ngokuhlambalaza nokuthukuthela, bese uthando lungadlula.