1. I-alfabhethi yomndeni iqala ngesimemezelo esithi "thina".
Ngamunye womlingani kufanele afake "I" wabo futhi bonke baqonde, benze futhi bakhe izimpilo zabo esikhundleni se "WE". Ukuqaphela lo mthetho kuzokwenzela ngokujulile impilo yomndeni ngenjabulo, ukuqonda okufanayo, injabulo.
2. Shesha ukuphindaphinda okuhle.
Uma wenze umsebenzi omuhle, usheshe ukwenze okuhle kumngane womshado, kumndeni. Kuyogcwalisa injabulo hhayi kuphela labo labo okuhle okwenziwayo, kodwa futhi owenza okuhle.
3. Yeka intukuthelo.
Ukubusa okuhlakaniphile - ungasheshi ukuthululela intukuthelo, ucabange, uqonde isimo, uqonde futhi uthethelele oshade naye.
4. Kunoma yisiphi isimo sokuphikisana, ungamangaleli oshade naye (y), kodwa bheka isizathu kuwe.
Ukubusa kwengqondo nokujulile kakhulu kwengqondo. Ngomqondo weqiniso, kokubili ubudlelwane bobulili bomshado kanye nezimo ezikhonjiwe, bobabili bahlale bebeka icala, futhi uma kwenzeka okungekho emthethweni lapho omunye womshado ozolahlwa khona, khona-ke umhlabathi wokungalungi kungenzeka walungiswa omunye umlingani.
5. Isinyathelo ngasinye esilinganiselwe silingana nezinsuku eziningi zenjabulo, isinyathelo ngasinye kude nomndeni, kumlingani - kuya ezinsukwini eziningi ezinzima.
Emikhayeni emisha, ngokuvamile kwenzeka ngokuphambene - lo mbhangqwana uxabana, futhi akekho kubo ofuna ukuhamba phambili, elinde omunye ukuba akwenze. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi zimbi nakakhulu: ukwenza ngesimiso esithi "ungenzele into embi, kodwa ngizokulimaza," njengoba bethi "izinyo ngezinyo." Konke lokhu kuholela ekungqubuzaneni okukhulu emndenini.
6. Izwi elihle lihle, kodwa isenzo esihle singcono.
Yiqiniso, yonke indawo isenzo esihle singcono kunegama elihle. Kodwa ebuhlotsheni bomndeni, ngezinye izikhathi igama elihle lisho okungaphansi kwesenzo esihle. Ngendlela, hhayi owesifazane kuphela "othanda izindlebe," nendoda idinga ukuzwa ukuvunywa kumfazi, indumiso futhi, yebo, ukuthi iyona eningi kakhulu.
7. Ukukwazi ukuthatha indawo yomunye, kepha kufanelekile ukuma yedwa kulokhu.
Isibopho sezenzo zomuntu siqu, ukwamukela ukunqotshwa komuntu, ukungalungi komuntu yikhono elingalutholi ngokwayo, kumele libeke ngokubekezela nangokuqhubekayo kusukela ebuntwaneni.
8. Lowo ongakholelwa yena akakholelwa.
Ubuhlobo bomndeni bwakhiwe ngokuthembelana. Kudingekile ukuhlakulela isifiso sokulondoloza leli themba, ukulilungisela.
9. Yiba umngane wabangani bakhe (abangane) bakhe, bese abangane bakho beba abangane bakhe.
10. Akekho othanda ukuthatha umamazala nomamazala, kodwa balungele ukuthanda omama ababili.