Ngakho kungani amantombazane akhetha ocebile futhi omuhle?
Ingabe konke kukhona namuhla? Yebo kukhona! Kodwa kubonakala sengathi abaningi bahlambalaza ngokweqile, behlambalaza amantombazane nabesifazane banamuhla ngenxa yokuhaha, ukuqonda nokucindezela.
Ngokuqinisekile, abathandi bemali yangaphandle babehlala njalo futhi yonke indawo, kodwa ngokuthuthukiswa komnotho wezwe lethu kanye namathuba okuthola imali, izinombolo zabo zingakhula ngokusemthethweni.
Ingabe akuyona into engathandeki futhi engcolile kumantombazane amancane ukuba abe nomuntu ofanelekayo, othembisayo, ocebile? Sizozama ukucabangela lo mbuzo kuzo zonke izinhlangothi.
Namuhla, izwe lethu livule amathuba amaningi okukhulisa izinga lezemisebenzi kanye nemali emihle yomuntu ngamunye. Ngenxa yalokhu, kwakukhona uhlobo lokuncintisana phakathi kwabameli besilisa - abazobonisa kangcono amakhono abo engqondo, abanenhloso enhle, abazovuka ngokushesha "emanzini" futhi bazuze okunye. Yiqiniso, ukuncintisana okunempilo okunjalo kusiza ukwandisa inani lamadoda acebile. Futhi intombazane, okwamanje, yenza iziphetho zakhe: ngubani othola ngaphezulu, usebenza kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, lokhu kulungele kakhulu inzalo ezayo ezayo.
Phela, wonke umama wesikhathi esizayo ezingeni elingenakuqhathaniswa uzama ukuhlela ikusasa elihle izingane zakhe. Ifuna ukubanikeza hhayi kuphela okudingekile, kodwa futhi ukuqinisekisa ukukhuliswa okuhle nokuthuthukiswa. Ngaso leso sikhathi ezingeni eliphansi, umama uzama ukumboza ngemuva ngaleso sikhathi, uma kwenzeka kungazelelwe - uzofa noma agula kakhulu. Ngemva kokushada nendoda ecebile neyithembisayo, unikeza izingane zakhe inomshuwalense ngekusasa - ezifanelekela ukusinda nokuphila.
Kulokhu konke kulandela isiphetho esisodwa: intombazane ikhetha umuntu ocebile, eqondiswa umkhuba wemvelo wokubeletha kwekhwalithi yezingane zakhe.
Isifiso sokunikeza izingane zabo ikusasa elihle akuyona kuphela into ephoqa amantombazane ukuba akhethe acebile futhi afanele. Isizathu sesibili ngumkhathi wokuphila kwanamuhla.
Njengamanje, wonke abezindaba - i-TV, uveza ngentshiseko ukuphila okucebile, okunethezeka nokuhle. Iningi lezinhlelo, izihloko emaphephandabeni nasemaphephandabeni zinikelwe kwiCinderellas yanamuhla, eyathola izikhulu ezicebile, ezihle, nezibukwayo kumadoda abo; abesifazane abasha abathandekayo abashintsha amanye ama-oligarchs nabanye kanye namantombazane abo ubuhle babo obuvula iminyango yabo ekuphileni okuhle nokungakhathazeki. Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuthi ukuzwa kwentombazane encane enhle kuqala ukwakha ngaphansi kwengcindezi yalokhu konke ukukhathazeka okushisekayo okuyingxenye yabezindaba. Uqala ukukholelwa ukuthi la mantombazane ayengcono kunaye, ukuthi ufanelwe hhayi kuphela umuntu ocebile kodwa omuhle. Ngempela, ingcebo yakhe ithembisa ukuphila okuhle, okunethezeka nokungakhathazeki, futhi umngane omuhle, okokuqala, enomona kwabanye (ikakhulukazi phakathi kobulili obuhle), akusizihlazo ukuvakashela indawo yokudlela, indawo yaseshashalazini kanye nezinye izindawo zomphakathi, futhi okwesibili, indoda enhle ikhona i-genotype engcono kakhulu. Ngako-ke, amathuba okuzalwa kwezingane ezinhle kakhulu, okubalulekile nakowesifazane.
Kukhona esinye isizathu sokuba amantombazane akhethe umyeni ocebile futhi omuhle. Ezweni lanamuhla, amantombazane ngokwabo aba ngokwanele ngokuzimela (ukukhululwa sekuyisikhathi eside bephuma ngaphandle kweNgilandi futhi njalo ngonyaka indawo yayo iyaba ebanzi). Bakuthola kahle, ngokushesha futhi ngempumelelo baphakanyisa izinga lezemisebenzi, hhayi nje ngenxa yedatha yabo yangaphandle, kodwa namakhono engqondo. Ngamafuphi, amantombazane amaningi azimele ngokwezimali, angakwazi ukuzinakekela. Ngakho-ke, kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuthi kubonakala kubo - indoda kufanele ibe ilungile noma ingcono. Ngakho-ke, izicelo zamantombazane ziyadlulela. Lokhu kuvamile, kulungile. Ukuqonda kwendabuko yesigamu esihle akukakanciphisi ekuziqhathaneni kwabesifazane: indoda kumele ibe ngumkhulumeli, ihlombe elithembekile, elinamandla kuzo zonke izici. Uma ngabe ngifinyelele okuningi, uma ngiphumelele, nginokuhlakanipha futhi ngihle, khona-ke umngane wami, ngendlela enengqondo, kufanele abe sezingeni lami, futhi abe ne "isithasiselo" - njenganoma imuphi intombazane noma owesifazane oye waphumelela impumelelo ethile empilweni yakhe.
Noma kunjalo, iningi lamantombazane liphuka ngomyeni ocebile futhi omuhle. Kodwa akulimazi ukuphupha futhi awukwazi ukukuvimbela, ngaphandle kwalokho, amanye amaphupho nezifiso angagcwaliseka, uma, empeleni, kulokhu iphupho lizozama futhi lenze konke okulungile. Okubaluleke kakhulu, khetha umuntu ofanele. Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kuyadingeka ukuthola ukuthi kungenzeka yini amadoda avelele abacebile. La madoda angena ezinhlobonhlobo ezimbili.
Esikhathini sokuqala, laba bangamadoda abacebile, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa noma yimiphi imizamo: bazuze njengefa, bathola ngenkohliso nokuba, njll. Lolu hlobo luziqhenya ngomcebo walo. La madoda akhetha izimoto zezemidlalo ezimnandi (njengePorsche, Ferrari, Jaguar noma iMartorghini), izingubo zemikhiqizo edumile.
Esikhathini sesibili, amadoda abheka kakhulu kunesihlobo sokuqala. Ababonisi ingcebo yabo. Laba bantu baye benza inzuzo yabo, ngokuvamile ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo wengqondo. La madoda akhetha izimoto eziphezulu nezokuhlonipha (imikhiqizo yaseJalimane neJapane). Bakhetha ukungabambi, kodwa izingubo eziphezulu nezambatho. Uhlobo lokuqala lwamadoda acebile luyatholakala ikakhulukazi kuma-casino, ezindaweni zokudlela. Futhi zingatholakala kwi-complex elite sports. Kodwa uhlobo lwesibili lokuthola nokubamba lukhuni kakhulu, ngoba basebenzisa cishe sonke isikhathi sabo emsebenzini.
Into ethakazelisayo kunazo zonke ukuthi lezo zombili izinhlobo zamadoda zingatholakala endaweni yokubukisa noma esitolo. Le ntombazane izobe ikwazi ukujwayelana nendoda ecebile, ibuza imibuzo embalwa ngalabo noma eminye imikhiqizo yezimoto. Ukuzingela kudingeka ulungiselele kahle. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele uvakashele i-beauty salon enhle futhi usebenzise imali ehloniphekile, kodwa lokhu kuwufanelekile, futhi uma usebenzisa iseluleko esifanele, ungathola umyeni ocebile.