Ukuvela kwengane kuyisivivinyo kwabashadile abaye baba abazali abasha. Kumelwe babhekane nezinkinga ezintsha, bajwayele izindima ezingajwayelekile futhi baqaphele umthwalo okhulayo. Imifudlana nokungaqondi kahle yizindlela eziningi ezihamba phambili endleleni. Yiziphi izingozi ezithinta izingxabano "ezinyangeni zokuqala" nendlela yokubhekana nazo?
Ukusatshalaliswa kwemithwalo engalungile kuyiphutha elivamile kumama omncane. Bakhathazeka ngomntwana, bathatha yonke inkathazo ukuba bamnakekele, basuse umyeni wakhe kunoma yisiphi isenzo. Lokhu kungabangela umuntu ukuba ahlukumezeke, angaqondi kahle, futhi emva kwalokho abe ngumkhuhlane kumntwana. Ungamangaleli umfazi ngenxa yeziphambeko namaphutha - uzama ngobuqotho ukusiza. Kubalulekile kuphela ukuyiqondisa ngomusa ngendlela efanele.
Ukukhathala ngokuvamile kuvusa abazali abangenalwazi ukucacisa ubuhlobo: ukucasuka, ukusola kokungabi nandaba nokukhathazeka kukhulisa ukwesaba okuvamile. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma ingaba isimiso sokuxhumana nomntwana nokusabalalisa kwemithwalo yemfanelo - kuyokuvumela ukuba usebenzise isikhathi sakho namandla ngamandla.
Ukubukwa okuhlukile ekunakekeleni nasekufundiseni nakho kuyisikhubekiso. Imibuzo ejulile mayelana nokudla, ukulala okuhlangene, izindlela zokubuyiselwa kufanele zixoxwe endaweni ekhululekile, uzama ukuthola izixazululo zokwehlisa izinto.