Indlu ishesha kakhulu, kodwa ukukhala, ukukhala, ukukhala kuzwakala ekamelweni labantwana ... Futhi ngokuqondile ngaleso sikhathi, lapho unquma ukuqala enye indaba ephuthumayo. Yebo, kungani abantwana bengakwazi ukudlala ndawonye okungenani isigamu sehora ngaphandle kokuxabana okukhulu nezinyembezi ezivuthayo? Nakulokhu, kufanele usebenze njengejaji futhi uhlukanise abahlukumezi abampofu. Noma mhlawumbe kungcono ukungayinaki impikiswano elandelayo, bavumele ukuba bazikhethele yona?
Abafowethu nodadewethu
Ake sicabange ukuthi kungani izingane zivame ukuphikisana futhi zilwa, kungani omunye noma omunye ezama ukunqoba wena futhi uzuze ukuzwelana kwakho. Ukuthi umona wesintu ujwayelekile. Ezinye izingane zikwazi ukunqoba lo mzwelo futhi zithole indlela enokuthula yokuxazulula izingxabano. Ezinye ziletha izinkinga eziningi ezimpikiswaneni zabantu abadala, ezivela ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene.
Phawula ukuthi ingane endala ihluke kanjani kumntwana omncane ngokuziphatha kwakhe. Umdala ufuna ukubeka phambili. Emva kokuvela komfowenu noma udadewabo omncane, kufanele abelane ngothando nokunakekelwa kwabazali abaye bafika kuye yedwa. Ngawo wonke amaqiniso kanye nezinkohliso, uzama ukuphinde abuyele esimweni se-main. Omncane, kunalokho, kunzima ukuhambisana nomdala. Ngokujwayelekile kuba okuphambene ngokuphelele. Osemncane bafuna ukuba ngcono lapho abahlulekayo behluleka khona. Engathandi ukubekezelela isimo sebuthakathaka, uvame ukuvusa izingxabano. Ukuvela kwengane yesithathu kuvame ukushintsha izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu emndenini.
Abazali babheke umntwana njengengane yokuqala. Ziyakuthinta, zikhokha futhi zivumela okuningi kunabantwana asebekhulile. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abahluphekile kakhulu bangumntwana ojwayelekile, owayesanda kumncane kakhulu. Kusukela kumdala yena ulala njalo, kanti intandokazi emndenini isivele "ihamba phezu kwezithende", ngoba abantu abadala bahlale behlangothini lwakhe. Indlela lapho kuhlale khona izingxabano nezinkinga akuxhomeke kuphela kwinani labantwana kanye ne-oda lokubukeka kwabo. kancane umehluko yobudala ngabantwana, kumunyu bekhalela sizovele izinyawo zakhe abazali ukukhathazeka. Okunye okubalulekile futhi wranglers kancane phansi. kuvela izingxabano okuningi njalo futhi sina phakathi kwabantwana bakwa-abantu bobulili obufanayo, kodwa mfowethu nangokuthi dadewethu uphatha lula kakhulu ukuthola ukuba nolimi olulodwa olwaziwayo. Ca s abaxokozeli esisuka - kungcono izingane bobulili obufanayo kanye umehluko eneminyaka engu eyodwa iminyaka emibili.
Ngokuvamile abazali abazifuni lokho, bavusa izingane ukuba zihambisane nezingxabano.
Kubo bonke odade ngamacici. O, yeka isaga esihlakaniphile! Kuyadabukisa, akunakwenzeka njalo ukuyilandela ngokugcwele ... Abazali abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi izingxabano ezingaphezulu nokuhlambalaza kungagwenywa uma izingane zinikezwa amathoyizi afanayo, futhi zinike amaswidi ngokulinganayo. Eqinisweni, konke akulula kakhulu. Izingane ngeke zifunge kaningana, kodwa uma nje ungahlanganyeli phakathi kwazo izipho kuphela, kodwa nemizwa yakho. Ukudumisa nokuhlambalaza, ukugqugquzela nokujezisa zonke izingane ngesilinganiso esifanayo, akufanele kube nezintandokazi. Dumisani kahle. Ngesinye isikhathi, ngabazali abangazange baqaphele, bakha ukuphikisana phakathi kwezingane. Uvame kangakanani ukuqhathanisa izingane komunye nomunye, udumisa isithunzi senye futhi ulahla ukushiyeka komunye? "Bheka udade wakho omncane, ukuthi udla ngokushesha kangakanani, kahle, uhlakaniphile nje! Futhi wena, njalonjalo, uhlala umlomo wakho uvulekile futhi ubalekile, "- emva kokusho okunjalo, ingane izwa sengathi ibubi kunodadewabo nokuthi ayithandi kakhulu. Zama ukugwema ukuqhathanisa okungenangqondo, ngoba omncanyana akasoze abe yikhophi yomdala , naphezu kokukhuliswa okufanayo.
Izinkinga zingase ziphakame ngisho nalapho ingane ekhulile ihlelekile uma kuqhathaniswa nomncane. Kusobala ukuthi umdala uyohlala enemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi. Noma kunjalo, qinisekisa ukuthi ukugcwaliseka kwabo kwakungaphansi kwamandla wengane hhayi ngemali yezinto azithandayo. Ungamphoqeleli umdala ukuba ahlale ethwala umfowenu noma udadewabo omncane. Izingane ezindala zifuna ukudlala nabangane babo "akukho mthwalo," ngakho bayakwazi ukukhipha ukunganeliseki kwabo nabancane, bebacasula. "I-karapuzes iphindiselela nge-sobs elikhulu nezikhalazo zazo zonke izintambo.
Yenza ngokufanelekile
Kulungile kanjani ukusabela lapho kunqatshelwa okungenangqondo? Okokuqala, ungalokothi uzikhuthaze. Uma umntwana ehambisa umlayezo wokuthi umfowenu omncane wehlisa ifoni yakho e-aquarium ngezinhlanzi, mtshele ukuthi ujabulela ukulalela indaba "yokuxhaphazwa" kwakhe siqu nokuthi izindaba zomfowenu azikuthandi neze. Vumela izingane ziqonde ukuthi awunayo bahlupheke, uma bezoletha inkathazo komunye nomunye.
Sizoba yiziphoyisa
Ngenxa yalokho okukhona ukuxabana? Isikhathi esiningi kakhulu se-banal yisitokisi esingabelwe izingane. Izingane ezihlukumezayo zibhekana nokuhlekwa usulu, ukuhlekwa usulu, ukungabi nabulungisa noma ukukhohliswa. Yini okufanele umuntu omdala ayenze uma ama-fidget amancane aphinda ephakamisa izingxabano ezinkulu? Behave diplomatically. Zama ukungabandakanyeki empikiswaneni, bukela izingane ezivela ngaphandle, mhlawumbe zizobhekana nokulwa futhi ngaphandle kosizo lwakho. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukudumisa izingane ngemuva kokuthola indlela yokuxoxisana nomunye nomunye. Khumbula ukuthi umsebenzi wakho wukuthi, okokuqala, ubeke ukuhlukumezeka bese uzolile izingane. Okwesibili, udinga ukubatshela indlela yokuziphatha kahle kulezi zingxabano, futhi kufanele - ungenzi ngaphandle kwazo. Futhi-ke kuyoba nokuthula endlini!