Ingabe uthanda imisebenzi yangaphandle kanye nezinkampani ezinomsindo? Noma ngokuphambene nalokho, ekupheleni kosuku lokusebenza bayajabula ukuthi uya ekhaya, lapho kuphela umyeni wakho kanye nekati lakho elithandayo elinde wena? Ingabe "i-owl", "lark" noma "ijuba" -i-arhythmic? Eziningi zezici zethu ziboshwe ngokuqinile ezintweni eziphilayo.
Izici eziyinhloko ezicacisa isisekelo semvelo somuntu nomthelela wakhe ebuhlotsheni bomuntu siqu - ububele, ubulili kanye nobudala.
Umehluko yobudala
Lapho sisebancane senza abangane kalula, sixhumana nezinkampani ezinkulu, sisekela oxhumana nabo abaningi. Phela, umhlaba uthakazelisa kakhulu! Futhi kukhona okuningi okumele ufunde! Ngakho-ke, ubudlelwane bomuntu siqu kanye nomthelela kubo ngezinto eziphilayo njengesisekelo somuntu ngamunye, kuhle.
Njengoba sinobudala, sisuke sithandwa kakhulu ngokuphathelene nalabo ababajwayele abasha kanye nobuhlobo obusunguliwe kakade. Sivame ukukhetha ukuthi ubani ongayikhuluma naye futhi ngayiphi indlela. Ngabo osebenza nabo - ukukhathazeka kancane, uma kuvela igama elingenakwenzeka kuzoxhomeka emsebenzini wethu. Ngabangane abadala abaye bashintsha isimo sabo sezenhlalakahle - ngokukhetha, uma kunjalo kukhona into ongayikhuluma ngayo.
Ukuba sakhulile, asizuzi nje kuphela ukuhlangenwe nakho nokuhlakanipha, kodwa, ngeshwa, silahlekelwa ijubane lokuphendula. Futhi izazi zengqondo kulesi sihlobo nazo zahlukanisa uhlobo "lwesifazane" nelithi "owesilisa" lokuphendula emlayezo.
Abesifazane namadoda
I-biology yezocansi, yebo, ithinta kakhulu indlela esixhumana ngayo. Indlela yokwakha ubuhlobo bomuntu siqu. Kulokhu, ukukhulumisana "owesilisa" nowesifazane "kubonisa. Uma umngane engakabizi izinyanga eziyisithupha - kumuntu lokhu akukasi yisizathu sokuthi "impi" nethi "ukuguqulwa." Futhi owesifazane - isibonakaliso sezinkinga ezikhona ebuhlotsheni kanye nesizathu sokuthi "ukuhlushwa" ngezwi, uma intombazane ishayela.
"Ngaphula isilonda ngenxa yakho!" - isikhalaza owesifazane ngokuthuka ngezwi lakhe. Indoda izomnikela yona ukuze ihlaziye lonke ubude bokwephukile noma (ngesaba) lizokwenza imali ukuvakashela i-manicurist. Intombazane izocasuka "ngaphandle kokubambisana", i-pohahat noma impela-ingokomzwelo iyathokoza ngamazwi athi "Vumela lokhu kube yinkinga enkulu kunazo zonke ezokwenzeka kuwe kuleli sonto!"
Izazi zengqondo zisebenza namakhasimende abo bobulili bobabili ziye zaqonda isikhathi eside ukuthi isisekelo sezinto eziphilayo zomuntu nomthelela wakhe ebuhlotsheni bomuntu siqu. Ebudlelwaneni nomuntu, kungcono ukusebenzisa imiqondo eqondile, ukusebenzisa kahle izincazelo zesichazamazwi. Ukucaca ngokwemibono yakho kanye nomyalezo wakho.
Ngakho-ke, amadoda asabela ngokubuhlungu kakhulu "emaqenjini" aqondiswa yiwo wesifazane. Futhi kunzima abesifazane ukuba babone ukuntuleka kokunakekelwa okudinga kakhulu kubo - hhayi ngebhizinisi (ukuletha, ukuthola, ukulungisa, ukulungisa), kodwa ngamazwi. Abesifazane abanakho imizwa evela emadodeni abo, ukusekelwa okuvezwe ngamazwi, ukuthinta, amathoni, imizwa ngesimo sengqondo sabesifazane ...
Yebo, nezinhlobo zobuhlobo bomuntu ngokwahlukana zihlukile ngokuhambisana nesisekelo semvelo somuntu ngamunye, futhi ithonya lakhe likhulu kakhulu. Uhlobo lwama-"wesilisa" nolwasebesifazane oluthinta ama-psychologists - hhayi okungenangqondo, futhi ngisho nokujabulisa ukukhululwa kwale mibono, akekho oshintshile.
I-choleric ne-melancholic, i-sanguine ne-phlegmatic. Futhi futhi "ama-owund", "Yesenin" kanye nezinye izinhlobo zobuntu
Umuntu uhlukile ukulinganisa. Ukuchaza ngokucacile umehluko phakathi kwabantu kulula kakhulu ngosizo lwazo zonke izinhlobo zokuhlukanisa. Ngakho kwakukhona abantu abanezimpawu ezihlukahlukene, abantu besikhathi esihlukile sosuku nokunye. Kodwa ukuchaza ukuthi kungani abangane bethu bejabula ngokusitshela emabhayisikobho, kodwa sifuna ukuba yedwa, kungani omunye umyeni ejabulile futhi ezokuzijabulisa, kanti enye idabukisayo, kusalokhu kunzima.
Kuyini okuyinhloko - ukuzithoba okudala "ukulandela" izici nezici eziphilayo, noma izimo ezakha isimo sengqondo? Kunzima ukusho ngokungaqondile. Kodwa bheka izingane. Ngisho nangesikhathi lapho umzimba wabo ukhona kuphela kubo kanye noMama - indawo yonke exhasa umsebenzi wakhe wokuphila, ezinye zizindla, ezinye ziyingozi, ezinye zingenasiphelo. Ngakho-ke, i-biology yenza umsebenzi wayo, futhi thina sasihluke ekuqaleni - kusukela ekuzalweni noma ngisho nasekuqaleni.
"Izinhlobo" ezahlukene zihambisana kanjani?
Phila ndawonye futhi wakhe ubudlelwane obuningi kubantu abanemimoya ehlukene ngezinye izikhathi kunzima. Ikakhulukazi uma bengomkhaya owodwa, futhi baphoqeleka ukuba bahlanganyele nsuku zonke. Kodwa ngokunakekelwa ngokucophelela komunye nomunye, usuku ngalunye olucabangela izinto eziphilayo, ngakho-ke ukuhlukana okuyisisekelo komunye nomunye, sikwazi ngokugcwele ukusebenzisana ngempumelelo. Ngaphandle kokungena kwi "abathandwayo abathandayo" nokuhlonipha umuntu ngamunye, singakwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane bethu usuku nosuku ngokuphumelelayo - ukuze sizuze futhi sijabule.