"Nginesizungu!" Intombazane encane enhle, egqoke kahle ingathola konke noma ubani. Ukubukeka okubangela ukuba abe novalo, futhi uma ehleka, kubonakala sengathi ilanga liyiphendula ngokumomotheka, libheke ngemuva kwefu, izwi lakhe lifana nokukhala kwezinsimbi. Unomuntu, futhi akekho oyedwa, unentombi, futhi akekho owodwa, unomuntu ozoxoxa naye, kodwa uyedwa. Futhi kuphakama umbuzo: intombazane enjalo ingaba kanjani yedwa? Amagama amabili abonisa futhi akhulume ngomuntu ngendlela ebonakala ngayo. Bakhombisa wonke umphefumulo womuntu, kuphela okudingayo ukuqonda incazelo yale nkulumo. Bonke abantu bezinga elithile bodwa, noma mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi isizungu sidluliselwa kumuntu kumuntu , njengomkhuhlane noma igciwane? Uma kunjalo, ingabe kukhona ukwelashwa kwesizungu? Noma ingabe unesizungu ongenamkhawulo?
Ubumnene buyinto engokwenhlalo kanye nengqondo emphakathini okungekho noyedwa wethu ongenamzimba, lokhu kuyimimoya yomuntu. Ukuba nesizungu kungaba kokubili okuhle nokubi. Ukuziqhenya kuyinto yedwa, lapho umuntu ezwa ekhululekile ehlukana naye kanye nemicabango yakhe yedwa. U-Aristotle onengqondo enkulu futhi ohlakaniphile wathi "lowo othanda ukuhlala yedwa, kungaba isilo sasendle noma uNkulunkulu." Ngiyathokozisa ngedwa, kodwa angizibheki njengesilo sasendle, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu uNkulunkulu. Wonke umuntu angathola i-charm enesizungu, lokho kungaphuma ekuxoxweni kwabantu, futhi uhlale nemicabango yakhe yedwa, ukuze aziqonde yena nezifiso zakhe ngaphezulu. Ukuzihlukanisa kungukubonakalisa okubi kwesizungu, lapho umuntu engenawo abantu abaseduze naye nemizwelo emihle.
Ukuba nesizungu kuvame kakhulu emadolobheni amakhulu, lapho abantu bexhumana khona ngokungafani, njengokuthi "siyabonga, unjani?" Futhi konke, ukuxhumana kuyeka, nombuzo "wenza kanjani?" Ubuzwa nje ukuthi kube khona into ongayisho emhlanganweni, hhayi nje thula. E-movie "Mfowethu 2", lapho uBodrov efika eMelika futhi ehlangana nesifebe saseRussia lapho, uthi eMelika wonke umuntu ubuza ukuthi "ungubani", kodwa empeleni akekho owakhathalelayo nakwezindaba zakho. Empeleni, ngingasho ukuthi eRussia into efanayo, wonke umuntu ubuza umbuzo othi "wenza kanjani?", Nakuba bengakhathazeki ngempendulo futhi abakhathaleli.
Futhi-ke, ukuze sithole ukwethembela nobungane, asihlale sinesikhathi esanele, sisebenza kuphela ngombhalo othi "siyabonga, unjani?". Ukusheshisa kubantu abathintekayo, siphonsa le nkulumo kumuntu esihlangana naye kulokhu okuhamba phambili, futhi ngokushesha sidlule ukuze lowo muntu asinaso isikhathi sokusibuza umbuzo ofanayo, hhayi ukuthi uphendule lo mbuzo.
Kungenzeka ukumisa nokumisa lo muntu, bese uthi "siyabonga, unjani? Ake sihlangane kulobubusuku, futhi uzongitshela konke okufana nawe, lapho ukhona, sizokhuluma, ake sikhulume. " Futhi lapho uhlangane nalomuntu, mhlawumbe wawuyokwenza isenzo esihle ngokugcwalisa isizungu sakhe, noma mhlawumbe angakusiza ukuba ususe isizungu. Sasiba nini lapho singenangqondo? Sizixosha ekhoneni bese siba nesizungu, siphoqa abanye ukuba bafanane. Mhlawumbe kudingeka siqale ngabantu, ngubani ozoqala ukucabanga ngathi?
Isizungu lapho ufuna ukuzwakala nokuzwa. Uzama ukusho okuthile futhi, uqaphele ukuthi awulaleli, uyeka ukukhuluma, qala ukufuna umuntu okuqonda ngaphandle kwamazwi. Utshelwe okuthize, kodwa awuzwa, ngoba umatasa ngezinkinga zakho futhi ukhathazekile ukuthi awuzwa. Umuntu ofanayo umatasa okhuluma ngaye ngokwakho. Futhi ake ucabange, umhlaba wonke uhlalwa ngabantu abanjalo abakhuluma, futhi abangazizwa. Wonke umuntu uthi, kodwa azizwa, ngoba zona ngokwazo zithi, kodwa azizwa. Futhi-ke, izwe lonke lihlanganisa ngesikhathi esisodwa ukukhuluma, kodwa hhayi ukulalela abantu abancane.
Ngempela, wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi uyedwa, ngisho noma kukhona umuntu oseduze. Makube umngane noma umama, noma umzalwane noma umngane, akubalulekile. Uma kukhona izikhala ezingenalutho emphefumulweni wakho, futhi uze ugcwalise lesi siphaphu ngento ethile, uzozizwa uwedwa. Phela, esikhathini sethu umuntu okhulile uthola kunzima ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nesizukulwane esincane, ngoba izithakazelo ezedlule azihambisani nezithakazelo zanamuhla. Noma mhlawumbe kunzima ukuthi umuntu athole ulimi oluvamile nabantu abakuzungezile. Noma umuntu unesizotha esincane, yingakho esaba ukuxhumana nabantu. Ekuphileni kungaba khona konke, akunakwenzeka. Futhi isizungu ngokuvamile kuholela ekucindezelekeni.
Ukuba nesizungu kungaba okucacile futhi okucacile. Isizungu esicacile siboniswa ukungabi nokuxhumana kwabantu, lapho umuntu enesifiso sokuxhumana nabantu, kodwa akanalo ithuba. Futhi ngokucacile, yiyona evamile kakhulu uma umuntu ehaqwe ukuxhumana, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uzizwa eyedwa, ngoba laba bantu abakusho lutho kuye futhi bangakwazi ukushintshwa kalula ngabanye. Usizi olunjalo luvela eqinisweni lokuthi umuntu ukholelwa ukuthi akekho okwazi ukumqonda, nokuthi akekho umuntu onjalo oqonda ukuthi uyini, futhi bakholelwa ukuthi uma kungenjalo umphefumulo ohlobene, ngakho-ke, kubaluleke ngani. Ngakho-ke, umuntu uzilahla isizungu, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuveza ukusola okunjalo, ngoba abantu abahlukunyezwa yilolu hlobo banesizungu.
Ukuba nesizungu kuyisicefe salowo nalowo kithi, wonke umuntu ufuna ukukhombisa ukuthi abodwa, kodwa emphefumulweni, empeleni, sonke sodwa sodwa kwenye ingxenye. Njengoba wazi, ngifuna ukunikezela lesi sihloko enesizungu! Isizungu singaba umngane wethu konke ukuphila kwethu, angeke asishiye futhi angeke asishiye, uhlala ekulungele ukuthatha omunye umuntu osondelene naye futhi othandekayo, ulungele ukunweba isandla sakhe noma ukufaka esikhundleni sakhe, kuphela ukuxhumana naye kunzima kakhulu kithi futhi kubi. Isusa kithi zonke izinto ezinhle ezikulo, sinikeza ngokubuyisela emakhazeni kanye nemicabango ecasulayo mayelana nesikhathi esedlule, samanje nesikhathi esizayo.
Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kuyoba kuhle ukushiya empilweni, abangane, izihlobo, futhi uvalelwe endlini yakhe, ngifuna ukungena kuwo - ngedwa. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuzondeka kunika futhi kulungile, kanye nalo ungakwazi ukuqonda izintambo zokuphila kwakho, ucabange ngemicabango, noma ujabulele inkampani yakhe, ulele embhedeni nge-foam, noma ufunda incwadi. Uzungu uzokukwenza ube inkampani enhle kakhulu. Ngithanda ukuthukuthela, ngiyajabula ngakho, nokho ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ukuthula kuqala ukucasula okungenani kunomsindo omkhulu. Ngisho noma uvula umculo ngokugcwele, noma i-TV, uzobe uzwa izwi lonesizungu, ngoba nguwe, izwi lakhe - lena yimicabango yakho ehamba ekhanda lakho futhi ungayeki ukuphindaphinda "Ngingedwa" futhi akukho nqubekela phambili Amadivayisi awunakuwaqeda. Njenganoma imuphi umngane noma intombi, kuvame ukuzonda futhi ufune ukumthumela endaweni ethile kude futhi ugijimele ezandleni zabangane bangempela abaphilayo, futhi hhayi esimweni esingokomoya somuntu siqu.
Ngemva kokuthinta isihloko sosizi, ngacabanga, nokuthi abaculi baveza kanjani isizungu? Uma izimbongi nabalobi bekwazi ukuveza imizwa yabo ngamazwi ahlanganiswe emisho, ngabe abaculi benza kanjani? Ngabe sengikhumbule "isikwele esimnyama" esidumile saseKazzimir Malevich, mhlawumbe wachaza yedwa? Phela, isizungu asimbozwe ngemibala ekhanyayo. Ukulondeka kuyinto edabukisayo, isondeza eminye imidwebo engezansi nokudweba emibala emnyama. Mhlawumbe, uKazimir Malevich wazama ukudlulisela "isikwele sakhe esimnyama" ngomdwebo wakhe, isizungu sakhe?
Ukuxazulula inkinga yesizungu akulula kakhulu, okokuqala udinga ukunquma ukuthi ngubani onganeleyo ukuxhumana, noma ngubani osilahlekile, futhi uma, lapho sinqume konke lokhu futhi sinqumile, kudingeka siphumelele ekusesheni, kodwa akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukunquma , ngubani kanye nalokho esikusolayo. Umuntu uyisidalwa esinjalo kangangokuthi ngezinye izikhathi akazi ukuthi yini eyidingayo ngenjabulo ephelele. Futhi ukuthola kunzima nakakhulu.
Funda kuzo zonke izinto ujabule, funda ukuvula yonke into ekuqondeni kwakho, ibe yindawo enhle kuwe. Isizungu akusona into embi kakhulu engenzeka. Isizungu sinakho, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka kithi. Isizungu sinathi, siyingxenye yethu, futhi sizama ukukuqeda, kufana nokukhipha ingxenye yakho. Kulowo muntu le ngxenye ikhona, futhi kumuntu omncane kakhulu. Ukuba nesizungu kuyinto engapheliyo, ngeke siphumelele, kepha kudingeka senze isondlo sokuzivikela sonke isikhathi, ukuze singahlali kithi.
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