Ngokwemvelo, iphunga lamafutha, okokuqala, iphunga elimnandi nelithandekayo. Emva kwakho konke, cishe zonke izintombi ziqala ukuphupha ukuthi kuvela kuye ukuthi amanothi amnandi, anenga futhi alula amafutha avela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kumele futhi aphendule amakhanda kumadoda amaningi, futhi ajabulele ukucabanga kwawo okungenakuphikiswa. Kodwa ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani iphunga lemimoya ngendlela efanele, ukwenza isinqumo esifanele ukuze umphumela ube yinto efiselekayo ngempela?
Kusobala ukuthi iphunga elinjalo kuzodingeka ligcizelele zonke izici zalo zangaphandle, ezikhangayo, futhi zijabulise umnini wayo. Ngokunjalo, amanzi angasese ayeseyinto ethandwa kakhulu, eyakhelwe phezulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane abaningi kakhulu banquma ukuvakashela kokubili izitolo zezimonyo nezidakamizwa ezihlukahlukene ekusesheni okukhulu kwesokudla, ukunambitheka kwabo. Yize kudingekile ukuqonda ukuthi akulula ukuthola iphunga, akulula ukuthola, futhi akunakwenzeka ukukhetha amakha, okuyinto ngokuyinhloko kubhekwa imfashini. Phela, izinto ezihlukahlukene ezinhle, ezokuthengisa, ezivame ukuzibonakalisa futhi zikhanyise ezikrinini ze-TV zethu, zingaholela kalula ekungcoleni okujulile. Futhi ukuze ukwazi ukwenza kahle, kuzodingeka ukuthi isimo sibe nokuzola, sikhululekile, nokuthi zonke ezinye iziphunga ezibonakalayo nezingavamile azikho. Kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi akufanele ukwenze lokhu ngokusheshisa, njengoba le nqubo ngokwayo ingathatha isikhathi eside kakhulu. Ngakho kungcono ukucabanga ngokucophelela.
Ukungabi nolwazi noma isipiliyoni. Okokuqala, lapho le ntombazane ingakaze ibe nalesi simo ngaphambi kokukhetha ukunambitheka okulungile, kuzodingeka ukwazi imithetho embalwa engaqinisekisiwe. Ngokufanayo, ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo sokuya esitolo esithile, ungafafazi ngezinhlayiya ezihlukahlukene ezimnandi, noma uzame nezinye izimonyo ezinamakha. Futhi amanzi amanzi yangasese azophazamisa kakhulu futhi angenakuqhathaniswa. Kuyoba ngcono uma owesifazane onjalo eyoba nesikhathi esithile. Emva kwakho konke, uma kungekho umbono ocacile futhi ocacile wephunga elidingekayo, kungadingeka nhlobo, hhayi izinsuku ezimbalwa. Phela, ochwepheshe abaningi bangaqiniseka ukuthi kuphela ngosuku oluyokwazi ukuqonda kahle, ukuzwa kuphela amafutha amathathu. Futhi konke okunye akukwazi ngisho nokubonwa. Ukuze ube nombono wokuqala, oqondile wemimoya enjalo, kuzodingeka uqhube kancane kancane emgqeni othize. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iphepha lingakhuphuka kakhulu, ngoba ukunambitheka okufanayo esihlakalweni esivela kuso kungasheshe kuphume. Futhi ngeke neze iphunga ngendlela okufanele ibe ngayo. Yebo, uma iphunga elinjalo selifikile kakhulu emphefumulweni wakho, awudingi ukugijima ngokushesha, kungcono ukuliphinda futhi, kodwa emva kwesikhathi esithile. Yilokho kuphela ukwazi ukuthi iphunga lizoshintsha kanjani usuku lwakho lonke.
Amanothi aphezulu, aphakathi, aphansi. Ngemuva kokuba intombazane ivule isembozo ngokwawo ngamabhodlela afanayo, iphunga elimnandi lizophuma ngokushesha, lapho ochwepheshe abaningi bangabiza khona amanothi angenhla. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amanzi angasese azohlala enesimo esifanayo, le ndawo. Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi amanothi anjalo ngeke ahlale isikhathi eside kakhulu, cishe umzuzu nje. Kodwa yibo abadala okunye, umqondo ovele ulungile kakhulu wemimoya ngokwawo. Ngemuva kwalokho, okuningi kuzoxhomeka ezintweni zesikhumba senkosikazi ngokwayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, cishe yonke imimoya ingasabela ngokuhluke kakhulu kwezinye izinto. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, amanye amanothi aphakathi avela. Kodwa lokhu kunambitheka okunomusa nangomnene okuzohlala isikhathi esingangehora. Kodwa amanothi aphansi - cishe okumele abonwe yibo bonke abakuzungezile, uma owesifazane onjalo enquma ukuthola iphunga, ikakhulukazi, ukulikhetha kahle, kwenye noma amanye amafutha. Konke kuncike ekuthandweni kwakhe.
Iphunga elifanelekayo. Izindlu eziningi zethempeli zilungele ukuhlinzeka ngezihlobo eziningi kakhulu ezinjalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane abaningi abazi ukuthi yini okufanele bayikhethe kangcono. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi kuzodingeka ukuthi kunqume ukuthi owesifazane onjalo uzosebenzisa kanjani iphunga elinjalo. Kulungile ukuhamba, noma ukuhamba ehhovisi, kungcono ukunikeza okuthandayo kuma-aromas alula kakhulu. Yebo, amanothi angokwahlukana kakhulu futhi ahluke kakhulu kusihlwa angase afanele, isibonelo, njengomkhankaso endaweni yokudlala, noma endaweni yokudlela ethile, kuphela okuthandayo nomthandekayo wakho. Uyokwazi ukujabulela iphunga lakho eduze kwakho.
Okungaphezulu, kube ngcono. Kukhona omunye umbuzo othakazelisayo futhi ongunaphakade - bangaki ama-flavour empeleni azodinga intombazane. Ngempela, okukodwa kuphela okuncane kakhulu. Mhlawumbe yingakho kufanele sithole abambalwa abanjalo. Nakuba okungenani, ngisho namathathu, ekuqaleni kungase kube ngokwanele. Nakuba kukhona umbuzo: uzodinga ukwenzani nabo? Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezikhathi eziningi ezihlukene, kanti ngamunye kufanelekile ukuqoqa iphunga lakho. Ngakho ungakhathazeki ukuthi imimoya enjalo ingalahlekelwa ikhwalithi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Phela, intombazane enjalo ayikwazi ukuyisebenzisa. Nakuba ekuqaleni lokho kungabaza kungenzeka.
Ingxoxo ngesibuko. Ekuboneni kokuqala akuqondakali ngokuphelele, akucaci ukuthi ubuhlobo obunjalo bunjani kunesihloko esingaphakathi njengesibuko. Nakuba abaningi bezokwelapha bekwazi ukukhomba ukuthi ngezinga elingaphansi kwengqondo, noma yikuphi owesifazane oqala ukukhetha amafutha afanayo, kuye ngokuthi kubukeka kwakhe, okubonakala sengathi kunjalo. Ngempela, kungokwemvelo ukuthi uma iphunga lingenjalo, isimo sengqondo sokukhonana nomuntu onjalo singashintsha. Yingakho kuyoba ngcono uma le nkosikazi izocacisa ukuthi i-flavour ekhethekile izoba yiziphi izinto ezibonakalayo. Ikakhulukazi, lizokwazi ukukhetha iphunga elifanele lomhlobo othile wesilisa wayo.
Khetha ngokuhlakanipha kwakho iphunga lakho eliyingqayizivele, elilodwa futhi eliphelele.