Imiphumela yethonya eliqhubekayo lokuphuza utshwala ekuthuthukiseni izingane ngokweqile kwezwe liyesabeka ngempela. Kusukela ekuboneni kwengqondo, izingane zithuthukisa ama-psychopathic, izinhlobo ze-asocial zokuziphatha. Umkhuba wokuthi ingane enjalo esikhathini esizayo iyoba ngumuntu oyisigebengu noma ogula ngengqondo iphezulu kakhulu kuneyezinye izingane. Yilokho ukuphuza ngokweqile kuholela abazali, kungani kungabi nje kuphela abahlupheka, kodwa izingane zabo nabazukulu babo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi utshwala uzuzwe njengefa futhi amathuba okuthi ukuphuza utshwala ezinganeni kuzoba ngaphezulu kakhulu - ngokungangabazeki. Yimuphi umqondo wokudakwa ngokweqile? Lesi yisilonda esibuhlungu sokuphuza utshwala, okuholela emiphumeleni emibi kubo bobabili kanye nabantu abazungezile. Ukuphuza utshwala kubhekwa njengokugula komndeni, ngoba akuthinti kuphela udoti ngokwakhe, kodwa futhi namanye amalungu omndeni, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nangaphezu kwakhe. Kunoma yikuphi, ukuphuza ngokweqile akudluli muntu ongenacala. Inethando yotshwala emntwaneni inezinhlobo ezithile, ingalimaza ngokwezinto eziphilayo, uma kwenzeka abazali bethatha utshwala ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane. Futhi, ukulimala okungenakugwenywa kwengane kubangelwa ingqondo, okwenza ukuba abe nokukhathazeka kwengqondo nokuziphatha, okuholela ekucindezelweni nasekukhungathekeni kwe-neurotic.
Mhlawumbe, abaningi babonakala bengekho emiphumeleni enjalo, futhi bona ngokwabo abazibheki njengodakwa. Lokhu akusilo, ngisho "okudakayo kokugcina", njengoba sibabiza, akazi ukuthi yena unjalo. Ayikho into efana nokusebenzisa kabi utshwala, ngoba uma usho ukuthi "ukusetshenziswa okungalungile", okungukuthi, kunemiphumela emibi kangakanani, uma kwenzeka utshwala, asikwazi ukuthola enye incazelo engasho ukuthi "ukusetshenziswa okuhle" ". Utshwala lulimaza kunoma yiliphi inani lalo, futhi ayikho into efana nesilinganiso sokusetshenziswa kwayo, kunesimo sezenhlalo sokuthi ngamaholide ungayiphuza utshwala, futhi ungadakwa. Ukusebenzisa utshwala ngisho nangamanani amancane, usuvele ulimaza ingane yakho. Uma elinye lamalungu omndeni libhekene nokudakwa ngokweqile, isimo emndenini kuba yinto engenakwenzeka, ngoba ukuphuza utshwala kushintsha umuntu ngokwakhe, kwenza uhlamvu lwakhe lubi. Kukhona izingxabano, izingxabano, amahlazo, ukuhlukunyezwa nokuhlukunyezwa kwabazali. Lokhu ngeke kuholele ekuziphatheni kwengqondo kuphela, kodwa futhi kuzoholela ekuthuthukiseni izingane ezingokwenyama. Ingane ayikwazi ukuthuthukisa nokusebenza, ukuthanda nokwazi ngokwayo endaweni lapho bobabili noma omunye wabazali bahlushwa utshwala futhi kanjalo bashintshe ngaphansi kwethonya lakhe.
Kunezimo lapho abantu abanesisindo sokudakwa ngokweqile "banezingane ezijwayelekile". Ngakho-ke, ezinye izidakamizwa, ngokungangabazeki, zikholelwa enhlanhleni yabo nokuthi iqiniso lokuthi zikhona izingane ezijwayelekile, kanti-ke, ukuphuza ngokweqile akuthinti nabo nganoma iyiphi indlela. "Kungani ngingaphuzi, uma ngiyazi ukuthi abangani bami noma abangane bami banezingane ezijwayelekile, akukho okwesabekayo okuzokwenzeka kuzo," abanye bacabanga. Kodwa lokhu akulona ubufakazi bokungabi nabungozi kokudakwa ngokweqile, kufanele futhi siqaphele iqiniso lokuthi liyazibonakalisa ngokuhambisana nezinye izici. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lezi "zingane ezivamile "ngesikhathi zikhula ngokushesha noma kamuva zizobonisa ukwephulwa nezinkinga ezinkulu ezinkampanini zemizwelo nezomuntu siqu.
Ukuphuza ngokweqile kwabazali futhi kuholela ezinkingeni ze-somatic, izifo ezihlukene. Ezibalo zezwe lethu zifakazela ukuthi abantwana abanezizukulwane ngezizukulwane bazalwa bengenakukwazi ukusebenza, umsebenzi wengqondo, ukucwaninga, bacabanga ukuthi babi kakhulu kunesizukulwane sabo sangaphambilini, kanye nokuhlukunyezwa kanye nezimo ze-pathologies zenzeka kaningi. Futhi konke lokhu kuchazwa ukuthi utshwala nesizukulwane ngasinye sithandwa kakhulu, futhi ukusetshenziswa kwayo kuyisiko. Singcwatshwa olwandle lwezinkolelo zenhlalo ngenxa yokuphuza utshwala, futhi thina ngokwethu asibulali kuphela impilo yethu, kodwa futhi impilo yethu yezingane zethu esizayo. Ngokuba injabulo njalo namahlaya afihliwe yikusasa elimnyama kwezizukulwane zethu, ukuhlazeka komuntu. Abantu bazibulala kanye nabantwana babo ngaphakathi, futhi into ehlukumezayo lapha yibugovu babo nokuzivocavoca-ukuthuthukiswa komphakathi. Kusukela kulokho sinamaphesenti angama-40-60 ebantfwadakayo abhekana ne-oligophrenia kanye nokulahlwa kwengqondo. Izingane zihlola kahle isimo, azikwazi ukuyihlaziya ngendlela efanele. Imizwelo ingenasici, izenzo azihambisani nomphakathi. Izinkinga ezifanayo ezifana nazo zingachazwa nokuthuthukiswa okusheshayo kwesistimu yenzwa yomphakathi. Uma sikhuluma ngemiphumela engokomzwelo-engqondweni - abantwana besidakwa banomthelela kakhulu, banomhawu owedlule phakathi kwabo, bavame ukuqoqa imizwa emibi.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwezinkinga ze-neuropsychological kanye nempilo yengane ngokuqondile kuxhomeke ekutheni unomndeni ophuza utshwala. Ukusebenzisa utshwala, ungacabangi nje ngawe, kodwa nangabantwana bakho bekusasa. Cabanga ngokuthi wena futhi akekho omunye ozobe enecala lezinkinga zabo, ingabe ungakwazi ukuthwala lo mthwalo yonke impilo yakho? Phela, ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukucabanga nokuyeka, ukuqoqa amandla akho, izwe, izihlobo zakho kanye nezingane ezizayo.