Ekuqaleni, sizocabanga ngalabo ababhekwa njengabantu abaphumelelayo. Lo mqondo obanzi ngokwanele awubandakanyi izinkanyezi ezithandwayo ze-movie nabamabhizinisi abacebileyo. Umuntu ujabule futhi uphumelele kuphela, uma umsebenzi efunwa ngumchwepheshe, emndenini ohlonishwayo futhi othandekayo, unabangane nabangane abaningi, futhi umbono wakhe uyabaluleka futhi kudingekile kumbuthano wokukhulumisana kwakhe. Khuthaza ingane yakho kusukela esemncane, indlela yokuziphatha kahle emphakathini nasekhaya.
Ezweni lanamuhla, umuntu ophumelelayo ngumuntu ozwelayo futhi onakekele izidingo zalabo abazungezile abajwayele ukuziphatha. Ukuze ukhulise ingane ephumelelayo kusuka emntwaneni, umuntu kufanele aqaphele ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izinto zomuntu kanye namathoyizi ahlale ehlelekile, izingubo zihlanzekile futhi zihlanzekile, futhi izandla zihlale zihlanzekile. Ekuqaleni, lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ngamahlaya namahlaya, njengokungathi ngesimo somdlalo. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lungisa umntwana ngalezi zakhono, kube njalo. Awukwazi ukukhulisa ingane ephumelelayo ukuze angayinaki izifiso nemizwa yabanye abaseduze naye.
Omunye angavuma ukuthi intombazana encane ngeke ikhale ngokumemeza ukuthatha idonsa intombi, futhi umfana omncane ngeke aphonse isihlabathi ezinganeni. Futhi lo mqondo udinga ukuhanjiswa kumntwana, ucacise abanye abalingiswa bezinganekwane njengesibonelo: "Ngempela, uyindodakazi yenkosikazi, futhi amakhosazana angabi abahahayo, ahlale ehlukanisa. Mhlawumbe, kuphela ama-grandmothers-hedgehogs amabi ayingozi futhi ahaha, futhi akekho owakuthandayo ngalokho. " Kulo mdlalo udinga ukubandakanya ingane ngaso sonke isikhathi, vele uxhumane nefantasy yakho, ukuze i-hero-tale hero iqaphele futhi isondele kuye.
"Awukwazi" futhi "ungakwazi"
Kancane kancane kunqatshelwe futhi uvumele kabanzi, futhi lapha asikhulumi ngemisebenzi eyingozi yengane. Uma ingane yakho ifuna ukuqonda ukuthi ungavula kanjani i-TV usebenzisa i-remote, noma ufuna ukucindezela izinkinobho kwikhibhodi yekhompiyutha, zama ukunaka futhi uchaze ingane ukuthi konke kusebenza kanjani. Hlala eceleni kwayo phambi kwesikrini sokuqapha, vula idokhumenti entsha ku-Word, futhi ubonise ukuthi uma ucindezela okhiye abathile, bese kukhishwa kwesikrini kuzovela izinombolo nezinhlamvu. Chaza ukuthi inkinobho enkulu ebomvu nemicibisholo ku-console isho ukuthini nokuthi uma kudingeka badedelwe. Ngempela, izingane zethu kufanele zibe nobuchwepheshe ku "wena", zikhula zizungezwe inqubekela phambili kwezobuchwepheshe.
Kufanele kuvinjelwe ngokufanelekile. Chaza ukuvinjelwa kwakho ngemininingwane. Isibonelo, awukwazi ukudonsa indwangu yetafula, ungabeka konke okukusetafuleni. Izitsha zizophulwa futhi kuzoba khona ingilazi yonke indawo. Futhi akuzona zonke izicucu zeglasi ezingasuswa, bese ungaba unyawo phezu kwazo bese ulimala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma izimbali nokudla kuwela, bayobe bengcolile iphepheni. Phela, ingane ekugcineni ayikwazi ukucabanga ngemiphumela uma iphula ukuvinjelwa.
Futhi leso sithombe, oyidonsela kuye, sizokwenza umqondo ocacile kuye. Kancane kancane, uzobe emela imiphumela yazo zonke izimo, futhi izinyathelo eziningana zizobala izenzo zakhe. Khuthaza ingane nganoma yisiphi isithakazelo. Futhi ukuze ufundise umuntu ophumelelayo, udinga ukuxhumana nengane, kusukela ekuqaleni kweminyaka encane. Uma ukhuluma nengane, udinga ukunaka indawo yengane, uma uhlabelela izingoma bese utshela inganekwane, udala isisekelo sokufunda ngokuphumelelayo esikhathini esizayo. Ukuthuthukiswa okuphelele kwengane kuhlanganisa inkumbulo, amakhono okukhuluma, isilulumagama. Futhi uma ingane ikhula, ungayiqedi "kungani" futhi "kungani". Funa izimpendulo zemibuzo ehlukahlukene naye, manje kukhona ama-encyclopaedias amaningi ezithakazelisayo zezingane, izincwadi ezihlakaniphile nezimibalabala ezihlokweni ezihlukahlukene ezithengiswayo.
Ingane, njengesiponji, ikhumbula futhi ithola ulwazi olusha, futhi wena maduzane uzomangala ngolwazi lwakhe. Thuthukisa amathalenta wengane yakho ukuthi unayo. Isibonelo, uqaphele ukuthi ukhumbula amagama angaphandle kalula, ekubuza ukuthi yiluphi ulimi oluzwakalayo noma leyo ngoma. Thenga naye imidlalo yekhompyutha efundisa ulimi, isichazamazwi seNgisi nesiRashiya sabantwana ngokubhalwa kwamagama nezithombe. Mhlawumbe ingane yakho ngeke ibe ngumhumushi oqeqeshiwe, kodwa esikhathini esizayo uzokwazi ukufunda izilimi kalula, kuzoba lula ngaye, futhi kube nokuphila komuntu ophumelelayo kuyofika ngendlela efanele.
Abazali kufanele babe ngabokuqala ukubona izithakazelo kanye nokuthambekela kwengane futhi bahlanganyele kulokho okumthandayo. Akukho lutho olubi uma izintshisekelo zakhe zishintsha kaningi, namhlanje uthanda into eyodwa, kusasa kuhlukile. Isikhathi sizofika futhi uzokwenza isinqumo, futhi uma usiza kulokhu, uzokwazi ukubeka isisekelo esihle kakhulu sempumelelo yakhe.
Ungakhuphula kanjani umuntu ophumelelayo kusuka kwengane? Sebenzisa lezi zeluleko futhi uzokwazi ukukhulisa ingane kahle futhi umsize abe umuntu ophumelelayo ekuphileni.