Kuxhomeke ekuvumelaneni komunye nomunye, ubudlelwano emndenini, umthethosisekelo wezocansi, indlela yokuphila nokunye. Uma kumadoda, ubudlelwano bobulili nonkosikazi wakhe buyathakazelisa futhi bukhazimulayo ekuqaleni, esiteji sokuqala, bese kuba besifazane ngokuvamile kwenzeka ngokuphambene. Ubulili buletha injabulo enkulu emva kokufunda umlingani. Uma owesifazane efunda ukuzwa indoda yakhe, ukuthola kuye okungokoqobo futhi engalingisi, njengabanye, i-orgasm - indoda kakade ngalesi sikhathi izama ukuthola izinzwa ezintsha. Umphumela uyisondo esingavamile ngaphakathi komndeni. Ukushada ngokobulili kuyadingeka emibhangqwaneni enomthethosisekelo ohlukile wobulili. Ukuzizwa komuntu wesifazane kuvuleka ngezinye izikhathi, futhi kwenzeka ukuthi wenqaba ukuya ocansini nomyeni wakhe, ebhekisela ekukhathala. Ngakho-ke, ucansi olungavamile emndenini akuyona nje "iphutha" lamadoda. Khumbula ukuthi owesifazane owenqaba indoda ocansini uyisongo ekuchumeni komndeni wakhe. Cishe bonke abantu banjalo bahamba kalula ekuphingeni futhi lokhu akuyona ukubonakala kokuziphatha, kodwa isidingo esingokwemvelo nokuzikhethela kwengqondo yesilisa.
Inkinga yokukhulelwa okungafunwa ikhathazeka owesifazane ngesikhathi esisondelene. Amadoda embhedeni womndeni akhathaleli nhlobo ngokukhulelwa kwezingane, ebheka ukuthi uyabaningi besifazane. Abaningi abathandi nhlobo ukuthi yikuphi ukukhipha isisu umkakhe okwenziwe. Ngakho-ke, kokubili abesifazane abashadile nabangashadile, umbuzo wokuthi yiziphi izindlela zokwelapha ezitholakala ngezocansi ezingavamile kuwukuqala ngokobulili.
Enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuzivikela yikhondomu. Kodwa amadoda akhetha ukuyisebenzisa ngaphandle kwekhaya, ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi. Phela, ngokombono wabo, "umngane we-rubber" unciphisa izinzwa. Futhi ekhaya, ukuzwa kakade okwanele. Abesifazane, ngenxa yamadoda abo, ukulimaza izithakazelo zabo, baqhubeke nabo, benqabe ukusebenzisa ikhondomu.
Eminye imibhangqwana enezifiso ezingavamile zobulili eziphazamisayo ziphazamise ukulala ngokocansi. Kodwa lokhu kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuvikela, futhi ngokushesha noma kamuva "ihlaba". Kukhona umbono ophazamise ukulala ngokobulili futhi awuphephile empilweni yamadoda, ngoba ingabangela ukungabi namandla okuqala. Futhi-ke, uvele nje "eze" izinzwa ezifunayo ezinhlangothini zombili, okusho ukuthi kuyadingeka okunye okudingekayo ngokobulili obuvamile.
Ngakho-ke, yiziphi izitho zokwelapha ezitholakala ngezocansi ezingavamile. Ungasebenzisa indlela yekhalenda. It isekelwe ekulawuleni ukuvuthwa kweqanda lakho siqu. Owesifazane ngamunye uyazi umjikelezo wakhe wokuya esikhathini futhi angakwazi ukubala kalula usuku lapho iqanda liphuma emzimbeni (izinsuku eziyisikhombisa noma eziyishumi emva kokuvuthwa). Umbuzo owodwa wukuthi umyeni wakho uzodinga ucansi ngalolu suku. Ngokusho kwedatha yezokwelapha, indlela, kanye nobulili obuphazanyiswayo, abubonakali ngokusebenza kahle
Ngaphandle kwezindlela zemvelo ezikhulunywe ngenhla, kunezindlela zokuzivikela kwamakhemikhali kanye nemishini. Ngaphandle kwekhondomu njengesivikelo somshini, kokubili ubulili obuvamile futhi obungavamile, uma kungekho ukuphikisana, ungasebenzisa idivayisi ye-intrauterine. Lokhu mhlawumbe kuyisithiyo esihle kakhulu. I-Navy yanamuhla ingakuvikela ekukhulelwe okungafuneki kanye nemicabango ngakho mayelana neminyaka eyishumi. IUDs ingaba yethusi, iqukethe isiliva-equkethe kanye ne-progestin. Lezi zinsuku nazo zisebenza njengama-hormonal. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ucansi olungavamile, ngesikhathi esithile empilweni, lungaba njalo. Futhi lokhu ngeke kulethe injabulo kuphela, kodwa futhi "inhloko" entsha. Kubonakala ukuthi ukuphumelela kokusebenzisa i-intrauterine spirals kungukuthi abesifazane abangu-100 abavela ku-0.1 kuya ku-0.8 ukukhulelwa. Lezi izinkomba ezinhle kakhulu! Ngenxa yokusebenzisa i-intrauterine idivayisi, okulandelayo kwenzeka: kokubili ukuhamba nokuqina kwe-spermatozoa kwehla, inqubo yokusabalalisa amaqanda iyashesha, isikhathi sayo sokuphila sinciphisa. Into ephawulekayo yukuthi uma yonke i-spermatozoa efana neqanda iqhwa, lizoxoshwa emzimbeni ngenxa ye-IUD.
Njengesivikelo samakhemikhali ngezocansi ezingavamile, i-spermicides ilula kakhulu futhi isebenza kahle. Ziyiziphilisi zangasese, ama-suppository (suppositories) noma ama-creams futhi afanele ukusetshenziswa okukodwa, okukodwa. Isibonelo sokusetshenziswa kwamaphilisi singasebenza njenge-benzalkonium chloride. Ihlinzekwa imizuzu emihlanu ngaphambi kokuba ucansi luqale, ukuvikelwa kuvela emahoreni amathathu kuya kwangu-4. Lesi sidakamizwa sitholakale ngesimo sekhrimu enokufaneleka kwamahora angu-10. Ukhilimu uyisifo se-antiseptic, awunawo umonakalo emlandweni we-hormonal wesifazane kanye ne-microflora yesistimu yokuzala. Isidakamizwa siphinde samukelwe ukuba sisetshenziswe ngamabele okukhulelwa nokulahla. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi noma imuphi umuthi ojojelwe ngaphakathi kwesifazane, kanye nokugeza ngamanzi nesepha, kungabhubhisa umsebenzi we-Benzalkonium chloride.
Njengomkhuhlane wezocansi ezingavamile, ungasebenzisa izidakamizwa ze-Nonoxynol-9. I-suppository yama-vaginal, ejojelwa ngaphakathi kwesiswini ngaphambi kokuqala kobulili. Ikhandlela kufanele ihlume futhi ihlakazeke ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Isidakamizwa sinaso i-antimicrobial, i-antiviral, impahla ye-antifungal. Uma kungenzeka kungenzeka isenzo sesibili, ikhandlela elisha kufanele liqaliswe.
Isidakamizwa esiphuthumayo nesiphumelele kakhulu esivimbela ukukhulelwa okungafunwa yi-Postinor. Ingasetshenziswa emva kokulala ngokobulili okungalindelekile, kungakapheli amahora angu-24. Ngokuqhubekayo kuba engasebenzi. Ekupheleni kwamahora angamashumi amane nesishiyagalolunye, ukusebenza kahle kwehla ku-85%. Leli remedy linamandla kakhulu, linomthelela we-abortifacent ngisho nangokuqala kokukhulelwa. Uma unquma ukusebenzisa le divayisi, bese ulandela ngokuqinile izincomo ezichazwe ezimisweni zokusetshenziswa. I-Postinor isetshenziswe kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umjikelezo wesimeni ungubani, okungukuthi, nganoma yiluphi usuku. Umthelela wokukhulelwa nokukhipha umuthi usekelwe kokuqukethwe okuphezulu kwe-hormone levonorgestrel. Isidakamizwa asisetshenzisiwe kaningi ngenyanga.
I-Postinor yaziwa kakhulu ngabesifazane abaningi nakudokotela. Sekusetshenziselwe iminyaka eminingi. Manje kukhona izinto ezintsha zalesi senzo ngezakhiwo ezithuthukisiwe. Isibonelo, Susa. Iqukethe ne-levonorgestrel, kodwa ungayisebenzisa ngemva kwamahora ayisishiyagalolunye nesithupha emva kocansi olungalondekile. Njengomsoco wokubeletha ophuthumayo ngemuva kokubeletha ngezocansi ezingavamile, ungasebenzisa i-Ginepristone, isenzo sakhe esisekelwe ekuvimbeleni i-progesterone.
Lapho ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ze-hormonal, ukubonisana nodokotela kuyadingeka!
Noma yiliphi owesifazane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili bakhe buvame kangakanani, kufanele abe nayo emkhakheni wezezidakamizwa wakhe (ngokungabikho kokuphikiswa kwezokwelapha futhi uma kungenjalo ifakwe yiNavy) njenge-gonadal obeschalochki. Kodwa isisindo esisodwa sezidakamizwa ze-hormone sizolimaza kakhulu kunokungenelela kokuhlinzekwa ngendlela yokukhipha isisu.