Izibango zothando ngude

Ungowakho, ama-roses avule enhliziyweni yakho, ufuna ukucula nokumemeza ngenjabulo yakho. Kodwa nansi inhlanhla: yena ngokwakhe ngeke akwazi ukucula - uhlala kwenye idolobha noma ngisho nakwelinye izwe. Noma mhlawumbe ngakolunye uhlangothi lomkhulu omkhulu. Ngenxa yokuthi awukwazi ukukhuphuka nomngane wakho othandekayo, wabelane ngezinjabulo nezinsizi zosuku oludlule, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi akahambanga, ukukhwabanisa kwenkathi nokunye okuncibilikisayo kusephefumulweni! Iminye imihlangano iyakwazi ukuguqula impilo yethu. Ngingasho ukuthini, uma lowo ophethe amaphupho enjabulo kuye aphile kude! Ubuhlobo obunjalo bungenza ukwazi ukucabangisisa ngezinguquko ongazange uzihlele. Ubuhle bobuhlobo
Ngenxa ye-imeyli, i-e-mail, ixoxa nge-ICQ ne-Skype, njalo njalo izingcingo zefoni kukhona umbono okhohlisayo owazi konke! Izinto zisebenza kanjani empilweni yakhe, yiziphi izinkinga ezikhathazeka ngaye, ngubani wabangane bakhe onosuku lokuzalwa, yiziphi izinhlelo zokuhlwa ... Nokho, kukho konke lokhu ungabona eyodwa enkulu "kodwa": ezinhlelweni zakhe akekho wena. Nakuba ethi kude nomuntu othandekayo konke akuyona into emnandi futhi akuyona neze injabulo. Mhlawumbe, kunjalo, kodwa akuwenzi kube lula kuwe!

Intombazane ephelile ifuna ukuba naye: hamba, ubamba izandla, uzwe izwi lakhe, uzizwe uhlaziye u-kisses futhi ukhonta ... Esikhundleni salokho, uchitha ubusuku bodwa, uphupha usuku lapho ekugcineni uhlangana khona. Uqale uqaphele ukuthi ubheka umona ngombhangqwana ojabulayo, ubanga futhi uvuma ezitebhisini esitimeleni. Kuyadabukisa ikakhulukazi ngoMgqibelo woSuku lwabo bonke abathandi: ubheka ngephutha izinhliziyo, amaphostadidi, amabherethi we-teddy namanye amathinti amnandi angathanda ukumnika wona. Uma usengakwazi ukuchitha lolo suku ndawonye, ​​khona-ke kuyoba umcimbi ongalibaleki! Kodwa ngisho nasezikhathini ezinhle kunazo zonke, ngeke kube nenhlanhla enhliziyweni: ngemva kwakho konke, maduzane indoda ethandekayo izophinde ibalekele kuwe amakhilomitha amaningi, futhi abangane bakho abathembekile bayophinde babe ucingo kanye ne-intanethi.

Qaphela, umhawu!
Kukhona umbono wokuthi ubudlelwane bomshado "kude" yiwona ohlala phambili kakhulu. Uma lowo okhethiwe ehlala eduze, ngabe ngabe usuvele ubiza izikhathi eziyikhulu futhi wabuza ukuthi uhamba nobani, nokuthi kungani engazange athathe naye ebhasini noma adlale amabhiliyade. Futhi esimeni samanje, udinga ukuba nesikhathi sokusho into ebaluleke kunazo zonke - ukuthi kubi kangakanani ngaphandle komunye nomunye. Ngakho-ke akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzoqala ukuveza ukunganeliseki. Futhi ngakho inyunyana ibonakala iphelele!

Kodwa uboshelwe ingozi, ilungele nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sokuhlukanisa izinhliziyo zakho, ngumhawu. Akazange abize usuku owavuma ngalo noma akazange athumele incwadi ngesikhathi? Mhlawumbe uhlangana nomunye - ucabanga ngokushesha ... Kodwa izinsolo nokuhlambalaza ziyakwazi ukubhubhisa noma yikuphi, ngisho nothando oluqine kakhulu.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi umuntu kufanele athole okungenani abathintekayo abayishumi nambili ngosuku: ungakwazi ukuphumula izinwele zakhe, ukumbamba amahlombe akhe, uthathe ngobumnene isandla sakhe, uthinte isifuba sakhe emahlathini ... Ngemva kokuthola ingxenye edingekayo yothando, ngeke afune ukucinga indawo yayo ngakwesokunene. Kodwa ungakulinda isikhathi esingakanani uma ungekho? Ngokushesha uzodinga uthando nozwela. Futhi ngalesi sikhathi kungcono uzame ukuba eduze kwakhe.

Ukubekwa kahle kwabathandekayo
Omunye umgodi yi-idealization yomlingani. Uma umnumzane ehlala kude, futhi ikhalenda yemihlangano yakho ilinganiswa emasontweni, uma kungenjalo ngezinsuku, ungakwazi ukuqeda kalula "umfanekiso okhanyayo" ngokuyinika izimfanelo ezingekho ngempela. Usukudumala okukhulu, lokho akusho ukuthi okhethiwe wayebi nakakhulu, cha! Imifanekiso nje eyakhiwe ngeso lengqondo lokuzikhandla yayingavumelani neqiniso. Kodwa uma uzama ukubona izimfanelo ezinhle zomunye nomunye, injabulo yakho iphephile.

Ulungele ukuhambisa?
Ngokuvamile, isimo sendawo siyisithiyo sangempela. Phela, awukwazi njalo ukuvela othandekayo ngamamayela kuye. Ngokushesha noma kamuva, uma ubuhlobo bakho businda kuloluhlolo, kufanele ujoyine. Kodwa umbuzo uwukuthi: ubani ozokuthuthela kuye? Uma umuntu wakho ebona ithemba lobuhlobo bakho edolobheni lenu - kuhle. Kodwa uma kufanele uthuthele eRussia? Ulungele ukushintsha indlela yakho yokuphila ehleliwe futhi uhambe edolobheni ongajwayelekile noma kwelinye izwe? Ngempela, edolobheni lakithi kukhona abazali, abangane, umsebenzi, futhi kufanele uthuthele endaweni engavamile, engajwayelekile ... Akuwona wonke umuntu okwazi ukuhambisana endaweni entsha, ngisho nomuntu othandekayo ohlinzeka ngokusekela nxazonke.

Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, impendulo efanele inganikwa kuphela ngenhliziyo yakho. Kodwa uma kuphelile kwakho kukhona umuntu owawujika, ujabulele umuzwa womlingo bese uzama ukungacabangi ngezinkinga ezingenzeka! Uthando lwangempela luzovivinya ibanga - njengazo zonke izinto.