Izizathu eziyinhloko zokuhlukaniswa kwabantu noma kungani ubuhlobo buphela ngaphambi kokuba baqale?
Emetro / ibhasi / emgwaqeni.
Uhamba, ngokuzumayo uyambona bese uthanda ngaso leso sikhathi. Kuphela kuncike kuwe, lolu thando luzophela ngokushesha. Emva kwakho konke, awuthathi amathuba ngokusondela kumfana ngala mazwi: "O, oh, Vasya, ingabe lokhu?" Ngiyaxolisa, ngiphutha! "Noma:" Futhi uma encwadini yakho yile nkondlo? " Ngifika ekuhlolweni futhi ngifuna ukuphinda ngibuyele. "
Ngomngani.
Konke kungabhubhisa amahloni, ngokungaqondakali, ubungane bomdala bunjengokumanga umfowenu. Kufanele upholile phansi kancane, futhi unganciphisa isikhathi esithile ukukhulumisana, ukuze kamuva ubheke omunye nomunye ngokubukeka "okusha". Futhi ungamnika umdlalo: isibonelo, ukuhlangabezana nabantu abangajwayelekile ngokuphelele.
Ngemuva kosuku lokuqala.
Ngemuva kokuthi uhlezi ngokuphelele e-cafe, wanyamalala, nakuba ubuzobe usulungele ukuhamba othandweni. Noma lokhu ukulahlekelwa okwesikhashana - linda izinsuku ezimbalwa, bese uzithola ngokwakho, cela okuthile kungathathi hlangothi bese ubheka ukusabela. Noma wayethukile nje, ngoba wabona ukuthi uyintombazane engathí sina, ilungele ubuhlobo, hhayi nje kuphela into ebophezelayo. Noma wonke amahora amathathu wamtshela ukuthi ufuna ingane noma ukuthi uyayithanda kanjani ifilosofi kaKant.
Ngemuva kosuku lwesithathu.
Izinsuku ezintathu zanele isikhathi sokuqonda uma kungumuntu wakho noma cha. Uma usuvele uzibophezele ukuthi ungowakho, kodwa akaphindiseli, uthando esimweni esinjalo alukwazi ukufezwa, ngoba kufanele ukhethe ama-aphoyintimenti amasha, ubhale kuye, ube yi-obtrusive ... ngakho-ke kumbuthano ononya.
Amaminithi nama-pluses wokuhlukanisa.
1. Awusenayo umuntu ongakwazi ukuhamba naye isikhathi eside ngaphansi kwesibambiso kuma-puddles ekwindla. Kodwa ungavame ukubonakala "ekukhanyeni" futhi udlalwa ngothando ngothando nabantu abasha, phakathi kwabo kuzoba khona umuntu ozobeka izinjoloba zenjabulo kuwe ngenjabulo.
2. Ngemuva kokuhlukanisa, isikhathi esingenayo sihlala kuze kube phakade. Kodwa ungakwazi ukudweba usuku lwakho ngomzuzu futhi wenze izinto eziningi - isikhathi manje sesanele ngisho nangalokho okude ukulibala isikhathi eside.
3. Izinguquko zokufakelwa azikusizi, futhi aziphuculanga. Kodwa ungakwazi ukukhala ngokuphephile zonke izinyembezi, bese udla ama-chocolate ayishumi futhi u-polenteynichat nje.
4. Awufuni ukwenza noma yini, ungazitholi ubhala izinhlobonhlobo zeyunivesithi, ngemuva kokuthi uhlukanise ngokuthi "cha", Izifundo zizobe zilinde, kodwa ungathola ithalenta elithile lobuciko ngaphakathi kwakho. Isibonelo, bhala indaba mayelana nobuhlobo bakho - nokuthi ekupheleni, yebo, bekuyilolu thando lwakho olusha nolumnandi kakhulu.
5. Ngemva kokuhlukanisa abantu, ukuthanda kwabo kuyashintsha ngokuphawulekayo. Awukwazi ukugqoka lezo zinto azithandayo, uhambe ezindaweni ohamba ngazo, futhi ulalele umculo ayewuthandayo. Kodwa ungakwazi ukuqoqa zonke izinto bese unikeza umngane noma izintandane, shintsha isitayela, uvula izindawo ezintsha, uthanda umculo omusha futhi ube nomphumela omuhle futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukhululekile futhi uvulele impilo entsha.
6. Awujabuli. Kodwa manje unesipiliyoni esibalulekile esingaguqulwa sibe umqondo obaluleke kakhulu: konke okwenziwe, konke kube ngcono, zama nje ukuhlaziya izizathu zokuhlukanisa. Ngemva kwesikhashana uzojabula ukucabanga: "Yeka ukuthi kuhle kanjani ukuthi siphule! Ngiyambonga ngakho konke, kodwa manje ngizizwa ngithulile futhi phambi kwami yonke iminyango ivulekile. "
7. Uyesaba ubuhlobo obusha. Kodwa unethuba lokuqonda into ebalulekile - uthando kumele lukhule.
UKsenia Ivanova , ikakhulukazi indawo