Lokhu, kungakhulumi isizukulwane esincane, phakathi kwalapho ungazwa khona amagama amabizo ka-class kuphela wezilwane, kodwa nezinto, amathoyizi, kanye nemicimbi yemvelo. Kungani sinikeza iziteketiso zethu ezithandekayo ezinhle? Awukwazi yini ukubonisa lonke uthando ngokubiza ngegama?
Izazi zemiqondo zithi zonke lezi ziqongo zethu ziyisibonakaliso esihle kakhulu sobuhlobo bocansi kanye nokulungiswa kwamandla phakathi kwabalingani. Ngempela, singakwazi ukuhlukanisa omunye nomunye ngenxa yamagama abazali asinike wona. Kodwa amagama acindezelayo - leli yiphasiwedi yokudlulisela ensimini yakho siqu. Ngokuqondene nabanye, njengoba bakubiza, unquma, okukuvumela ukuthi uzibize u-Irochka, kanti omunye u-Irina Stanislavovna kuphela.
Ngokuphathelene nokwaziswa ngamagama amnandi namagama okuzijabulisa kubathandekayo, emphakathini asetshenziswa kuphela imibhangqwana enenkinga ebuhlotsheni babo. Ukubizela "amabhinki" emphakathini, bazama ukubonisa ukuthi konke kuhle futhi azikho izinkinga, nokuthi isimo esisha sibafanisa ngokuphelele. Kodwa eqinisweni - kungumgogodla nje, hhayi oqinile kakhulu.
Abase-Partisans bafihla amagama abo okuvela ezweni elingaphandle, ngoba bakholelwa ukuthi izwe lihlanganisa nje injabulo yabo.
Izincazelo zamagama okuqamba amagama
Kuqala ukubuka kungase kubonakale ukuthi zonke izigameko ezifanayo zifana futhi zinezincazelo ezifanayo, ezicindezelayo. Kodwa! Kuvela ukuthi "pupsik" nelithi "udlunkulu" zihluke kakhulu. Ukuze uqonde injongo owanikezwa ngayo isiteketiso, sizobe sihlaziye isigaba sabo.
"Kusukela ebuntwaneni"
Ngezinye izikhathi siba yizifakazo ezingobufakazi bezimo ezingenangqondo, lapho umfazi ebiza umyeni wakhe ukuba abe "umntwana". Lokhu-ke, kungalungiswa ukuthi sonke sithanda izingane, izidalwa ezinomsoco nezingenabungozi. Ngakho-ke, siqhathanisa amadoda nabantwana. Sithini lesi sifiso esingenacala ?
Futhi lithi ngesifiso sokubusa lo muntu. Iningi labesifazane lihamba ngokungazi, kanti abanye, bazama "ukumshayela umuntu ngaphansi kwesithende". Ngokuvamile, abafazi benza lokhu ngoba bazizwa benesibopho somntwana omkhulu. Emva kwakho konke, kuyadingeka ukuyidla, futhi ugeze bese uyibeka embhedeni. Ngakho-ke, esimweni sezinombolo zokuzijabulisa zezingane, abesifazane banikeza, bazizwa umthwalo wemfanelo womama "wengane".
«World of Animals»
Mhlawumbe, izifanekiselo ezivela ezweni lesilwane - lokhu kuyinto evamile kakhulu. Ukuqamba okunjalo kusetshenziswe kaningi "ngamajuba athandekayo", ngendlela, leli gama elivela ku-opera efanayo. Ngokungafani nezwe labantwana, kunezilwane eziningi esilwaneni. Ngakho-ke, ungabiza othandekayo oyedwa kanye no-heckgehog we-heckgehog nezinkomo zasendle, ngokuya komoya womlingani.
Ezinye imibhangqwana zigoba uhlangothi oluvumelekile futhi zibize ezinye izintambo, ama-plateypuses, izingwenya, okuyinto ngokwayo ibukeka imnandi kuphela ekuboneni kuqala. Ungakhohlwa mayelana nokuphila ngokocansi, ngoba amagama amabizo angeke akwazi ukujabulisa umlingani wakho, esikhundleni salokho. Futhi kule ndawo kunenkinga ngokungafani nokuphindaphinda. Amantombazane amaningi kanye namantombazane angacabangi ngalokhu, uma sitshela umlingani ngokuthi "u-hare", siwulinganisa nalo lonke "u-hare". Futhi ukuba njengomunye umuntu akafuni nhlobo, futhi ngokujwayelekile, kungani beza nalezi zinombolo zokuzijabulisa, uma sezivele zifana namagama.
Amathoyizi
Abamele lo mnyango bavame ukubizwa ngokuthi "amadokodo" noma "amantombazane". Umqondo wokuqamba igama ungaphandle kobuhle bangaphandle, ngoba amadonki asuke adalwe kahle kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, uma ubizwa kanjalo, kufanele uchitheke. Inkinga yilokhu. Amadola akuwona nje amanani amahle, kodwa nalabo abafile. Ngokuvame kakhulu kubonakala njengento enhle, okuyinto enhle ukukhombisa izwe elizungezile, futhi nomzimba ubuhle. Ngokujwayelekile, lamantombazane akhetha amadoda acebile futhi athenge "amadololi" awo izindlu ezinhle nezingubo.
"Impahla yangasese"
Abesilisa nabesifazane abaningi bathambekele ekukhetheni konke okusemandleni futhi okufanelekile ngokomthetho, njengomshado. Ukuze unqume inani lomnikazi wesilisa wakho, landela silulumagama sakhe ngawe. Uma esikhundleni sokukubiza ngokuthi "kuhle" uthi "okuhle" noma uma kunokuthi "othandekayo" - "othandekayo wami" - lokhu kusho ukuthi indoda yakho ayisetshenziswanga ukwabelana futhi ngoba unayo, ungowakho kuphela yena.
UTanya noma uTanya?
Imibhangqwana eminingi ayiqondi ukuthi kungani kufanele inikele ngamagama okuzijabulisa abathandayo. Bakhetha ukusebenzisa igama, okuphezulu endaweni yokucindezela. Izazi zengqondo zithi kukhona ukuhlukaniswa konke kwezilinganiso ezithinta incazelo futhi kubonise isimo sengqondo somuntu okhuluma naye.
Isibonelo, izilinganiso "-echka" nethi "-ochka" - iTanechka, Allochka, Vanechka, zibonisa inhlonipho, inhlonipho nangobungane ngomxhumanisi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinhlobo ezinjalo zamagama nazo zisetshenziselwa ukuhlelwa okusemthethweni lapho ziveza khona isimo sengqondo esihle.
Ngokuvamile, izazi ze-psychologists zithi ukutholakala kwamagama okuqamba amancane kubudlelwane kuyadingeka. Bashintsha izimo zengqondo kwimodi efanele engcono. Futhi, izazi ze-psychologists zigcizelela ukuthambekela kokuthi, ngokuphindaphindiwe nangokwengeziwe ukuxhumana komlingani womunye nomunye, ukuthuthukiswa okuthembisayo kokuphila kwabo kanye nomshado ojabulisayo. Esimweni esihlukile, lapho inani lezinsizakalo liyehla, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ubuhlobo bupholisa phansi, futhi abalingani bakhathazekile.
Isibonelo, eMalaysia, umbuso, ukuba uhambele inani lokuhlukanisa izakhamuzi, wabakhuthaza ngokuthandana ukuthandana, ukuhlonipha, futhi ukucindezela futhi ukubiza ngothando, ukuqoqa amagama amasha.
Ngakho-ke namhlanje sibiza ngokuthi "izimpawu" futhi "onogwaja" hhayi ngoba zifana nabo, kodwa ngoba siyabathanda. Futhi uqhathanise nezilwane esizithandayo kakhulu. Nakuba isikhathi sokuqhathanisa sisezingeni elifanayo, ngoba uma umuntu ekhulele kakhulu embhedeni, ubizwa ngokuthi "i-tiger yasendle", futhi uma engekho, iwukuthi "i-tiger cub". Kodwa amadoda angacasuli ngisho ne-tiger cub, ngoba akuwona wonke umuntu onokufutheka kweSpain eshisayo, omunye umuntu futhi ozolile, ocansini olinganiselayo.