Ngokuvame kakhulu ukukhathazeka kulahlekile ngenxa yokunyamalala kwendabuko ebuhlotsheni. Isibonelo, kwakusithakazelisa ukuthi indoda ilandele into yakhe yokufisa, futhi emva kwesikhashana ngemuva kokunciphisa okukhulu kunokwenzeka ebangeni eliphakathi kwakhe nowesifazane wayo, kuholela ekulahlekelweni kwesithakazelo esithile sokuncintisana kanye nokuguqulwa kobudlelwane obuvela eholidini ukuya ezinsukwini zamasonto ezimpunga. Kulesi simo, umphakathi wesifazane unxusa odadewabo ukuba bazame ukwandisa leli banga. Isibonelo, kaningi ukuhlela amaqembu wezinkukhu namaqembu ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza komuntu wakho, noma nje ukuhamba izintombi zakho ebusuku. Ungazama ukulala emibhedeni ehlukene - nalokhu kungaba nomphumela oyifunayo.
Veza kumuntu ukuthi akayena intombi yakho, okufanele azi kahle yonke imicabango yakho nemizwa yakho - ungahlanganyeli imibono engafanele mayelana nobuhlobo bakho naye (yenza nje ngaphandle kwengxoxo engadingekile). Awudingi ukwazisa isigamu sakho sesibili mayelana naleso sinyathelo osithathayo (ngaya eshaweni, uye esitolo, njll) - ake angazi ngawe yonke into encane ngawe futhi ngeke axwayiswe ngazo zonke izenzo zakho. Imfihlakalo eyengeziwe!
Ayikho indlela engaphumelela kuyoba inhlangano yokudla okuzumayo okuthandanayo ngokuqhubeka kokumema kohlobo lwe-striptease noma umdanso ohlangene. Futhi isimo esidingekayo sibeka ukungabi khona kwazo zonke izinhlobo zemibono nemibono, okungukuthi, uNkulunkulu akwenqabela, izosaphaza kulobu busuku. Ngokuvamile, ukuqhubeka kokuhlwa akufanele kube "njengokujwayelekile". Bonisa umcabango wakho embhedeni! Kwanele ukuphinda okuphindwa njalo ebusuku! Dlala emidlalweni ekhethekile yokudlala indima, futhi ngiyaqinisekisa ukuthi bobabili bayothanda.
Futhi manje ake siphendule umbono wezazi. Bathi ukukhangwa kwangaphandle kwendoda nowesifazane kuzokusiza ukugcina uthando ngaphakathi kobudlelwano. Ngokombono wezengqondo kanye nongcweti, ukukhanga ngokocansi nokukhanga ngokomoya okusekelwe kulokhu kukhanga kwenza abantu bakhohlwe ngakho konke okuhlangenwe nakho futhi bahambe ngendlela enothando. Kuyintando ebuhlotsheni obuthanda uthando olude nolunamandla. Ezimweni ezithandekayo zothando, amadoda nabesifazane bakhohlwa ngabanye kanye nokushiyeka kwabo, kulula ukuthethelela noma yiziphi iziphambeko namaphutha. Akuzona yini izulu?
Ngeshwa, yonke indawo intsha iyangena ekhanda into efanayo: ukukhathazeka nokuthanda imfucumfucu kuholele emiphumeleni engathandeki kanye nobuhlobo bobulili obuyingozi. Futhi kubalulekile ukuqonda nokuthanda kumuntu umphefumulo, futhi kungabonakali. Kodwa-ke, akekho kulaba "othisha" abafundisi abangaqineli ukuthi uthando luyisisekelo senhlalakahle namandla okubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane.
Futhi okwamanje, ososayensi benza ucwaningo, futhi bathola amaqiniso athile amaqiniso mayelana nomthelela wesifiso kumuntu. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, umuntu, ehlala ejabule njalo, uzama ngokucophelela ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuletha ubuhlobo obuseduze. Futhi umuzwa wesithando ukwandisa umsebenzi walezo zincenye zobuchopho obangela imizwa yokuthokoza nokuziphatha okuhle. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umsebenzi wezingxenye zobuchopho obangela ukwesaba nokucindezeleka kunciphise kakhulu.
Indima ebalulekile idlalwe ngentshiseko ekufezeni ukuvumelana kwangaphakathi kwabantu. Futhi-ke, akekho ozophikisa ukuthi uthando luhle kakhulu luvusa isifiso sobulili.
Ngeshwa, ukufutheka, njengokuthanda othandweni, kungavamile ukuthatha iminyaka engaphezu kuka-2-3. Futhi ngokuvamile leli gama liyancipha kakhulu. Yebo, lokhu kuyimvelo, ngoba izifo eziningi zegazi kufanele zigcine lesi simo. Kodwa-ke, ukugcina isifiso akuyona nje efiselekayo, kodwa futhi kuyadingeka, ngoba, njengoba kushiwo ngaphambilini, lokhu kuyisizathu esihle sokuba nobuhlobo obuqinile.
Ngokusho kososayensi, emva kokukhathazeka, njengomvuzo, kufanele kube nomthando, umkhuba kumngane. Kodwa okunamathiselwe kunciphisa amandla.
Ngenhla kunikezwe amathiphu ambalwa ukuthi ungagcina kanjani ukukhathazeka ebuhlotsheni bomuntu nowesifazane. Kodwa lokho kwakungokuhlangenwe nakho kwesinye isizukulwane. Ososayensi bakholelwa nokuthi injini enkulu yekhanuko i-adrenaline. Futhi iseluleko sabo: zama ukuthola le adrenaline kaningi - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhambo oluya ezindaweni ezingaphandle, noma ukuhlanganisa isibhakabhaka esibambene, kodwa lokhu kufanele kube ngenye indlela ukuvula wena nomphefumulo wakho womuntu. Futhi ungakhohlwa mayelana neseveli ebuhlotsheni.