Izindandatho, mhlawumbe, ziyingxenye ebaluleke kunazo zonke ekuphileni komuntu, ikakhulukazi amantombazane, imihlobiso. Futhi-ke, imicabango yabesifazane ayinakukwazi ukuxhuma nalezi zinhlobo ezihlukahlukene ezinkolelo ezahlukene. Ngakho-ke, yikuphi kulezi zithelo okuyizinto ezithandekayo kakhulu?
Ngaphambi kukaKristu ... Noma yisiphi isifundo somasiko nempucuko eqala nabakhileyo ezweni elivundile loMfula iNayile ... Icala lethu alifani neze, futhi abaseGibithe bangasho lokhu okulandelayo. Ukukhala kwabo kwakuyisibonakaliso sokuqhubeka nokungapheli, ngakho-ke akumangalisi ukuthi yibo ababaxhuma emshadweni. ERoma lasendulo, lesi siko sanqunywa ukuba singaphuli, futhi sanikela nge-mite entsha: le nsizwa yayizofaka indandatho ekhethiwe yensimbi, njengesibonakaliso sokungazizwa kwemizwa yabo. AmaGreki akanezela kulokhu ukuthi umshado ungcwele futhi ungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwethu, ngakho-ke akungabazeki ukugqoka indandatho yokuzibandakanya ngomunwe ongaziwa - eqinisweni, lapho, ngokombono wabo, liyi-arter of life.
Ngalesi sikhathi, isintu siyancipha ukuba siphume "nolimi lwamasongo". Ngakho-ke, ugqoka uhlobo luni? Ngokuvamile, konke kuxhomeke ngokuphelele esimweni somndeni wakho. Uma inhliziyo yakho isivele ikhethile into yokububula, ibuye iphinde ibhale eminwe. Ezinsukwini ezandulele, kuphela ukuthi wakwazi ukugcina ukubaluleka kwakhe ngokugqoka indandatho: amaKatolika agqoka indandatho yokuzibandakanya ngakwesobunxele sabo, kanti ama-Orthodox aphezulu kakhulu.
Uma indawo engcwele ingenalutho, futhi unelisekile kakhulu ngayo, funa indandatho encane, ngoba kuzodingeka uyigqoke emunwe wakho omncane. Uma ngabe ungumuntu ezindabeni zothando, ubukhulu bezinkinga kufanele bube ngaphansi: indandatho ifakwa emunwe ophakathi. Kodwa ngomunwe wenkomba, abesifazane akufanele bahlolwe, ngoba ungase ungaqondwa kahle: abanye bangase bacabange ukuthi okungenakuqondakala kubantu abavamile odinga umlingani othokozayo ...
Kodwa isayensi yezemimoya inika iminwe futhi ifaka incazelo ehluke ngokuphelele. Umunwe omkhulu, ngokuvumelana nemigomo yesundu, uxhunywe no-Mars futhi indandatho igqoke kuwo ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukufutheka kwawo okunamandla ukuze wenze umhlaba usondelane ngokwengeziwe, futhi ubuhlobo nabantu buvumelana. Kodwa-ke, izazi zengqondo zisho ngokuzwakalayo ukuthi imicabango yomuntu onjalo ayilona ihlanzekile ngokuphelele futhi ithatha umsebenzi wayo wokuqinisekisa esikebheni sezocansi. Kodwa kumunwe wenkomba indandatho iyoba ngumthombo wazo zonke izibusiso: futhi uzoba nenhlanhla, futhi kuwe, futhi uzothola ukuhlakanipha, yiziphi izinto ezingeke zikhuphuke intaba yakho! I-Ipsihologi kule akhawunti ayithuli ngokwabo ku-rag. Ingabe ukuthi uzokhokhwa lokhu ngenxa yokuntula induduzo, kodwa kunokuba awuyikuzidela ngenxa yenjabulo? Uma kunjalo, uyakholelwa ... I-ringic finger finger nayo ibonisa ukuphakama nokuphishekela ingcebo. Indandatho emunwe omncane izokungezela kuwe, ukuguquguquka ngokomzimba nokukhuluma kahle. Yiqiniso, izazi zengqondo ezihloniphekile zizokubiza ngokuthi umuntu ongathembeki, othembele kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lwe-adventure, ukukhohliswa, ngaphezu kwalokho, bazokwengeza ngentshiseko yakho yokuzikhandla kuyo yonke into ukuze uyinqobe.
Lesi sikhathi ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza kwezengqondo. Ama-Palmist athi ngisho nokukhetha lokho okushiwo yile ndoda, kufanele iphathwe ngesizathu: i-speciesmetal ngayinye ithatha amandla athile futhi iyakwazi ukuvusa izenzakalo ezithile empilweni yakho. Kulungile, iphutha eliyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu - futhi into enjalo engabalulekile ingaba isayensi yonke! Futhi ngenxa yokukhuthazela okungaphezulu, umuntu akumelwe akhohlwe ukubopha konke empilweni nokuphulukisa kwezifo-okwenziwe yizintendeni.
AmaSlav nawo akhange ahluleke ukuqeqesha ingqondo yawo ekuthuthukiseni umcabango nokunikeza indandatho incazelo engacishe ingcwele. Ikakhulukazi, emshadweni, indandatho eyodwa kuphela ayanele: awudingi ukubandakanyeka kuphela, kodwa nokubandakanyeka. I ring yokubandakanya kufanele ibe eqinile futhi ngaphandle kokunciphisa, bese impilo yakho izohamba kahle, ngaphandle kwemigodi. Kodwa ngokuzibandakanya ukhetho luyanweba: nansi konke kunambitheka nombala wakho. Yiqiniso, kwakungenzeka ukuthi uyigqoke ngaphambi komshado, futhi ngemuva - kuphela ezimweni ezikhethekile, iholidini, bese kuthi, ngenkathi ingasusi umshado. Ngaphambi komshado, nangemva kwalokho, akukho ndoda yomshado womunye umuntu okufanele uzame wena - UNkulunkulu makwenqabe ukuthi uzokhipha inhlanhla yakho, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, nempilo, yebo, insizwa yenkampani ingaba mnandi. Kodwa uma ungenayo ngisho nesikhathi sokuzama kuso, yehlisa - ngakho konke, bhala-icala liye laphela, khansela umshado, ukushayela izivakashi kude - maduzane futhi, kuzodingeka sihlukanise. Uma ngabe usuvele unesikhathi sokubonisa ngomunwe wakho, kuzomele udinga ukuwusebenzisa, futhi emva kokuqeda, ushise ngamazwi athi "Ukushisa, umlilo, zonke izinkinga zami nezinsizi." Futhi yebo, enye imininingwane - awukwazi ukuvumela noma ubani avele indandatho yakho emunwe wakho - futhi umlando oshiwo ngenhla uzophindaphinda ngokuthunjwa kwenhlanhla, impilo, umkhwenyana nomkhankaso wesibili ehhovisi lika-registrar.
Uma bengashadile, ungabamema ukuba bathinte indandatho yakho: isibonakaliso esihle, khona-ke bayoba nomshado. Ingabe kukhona intombi engashadile? Kuhle! Kufanele anike ibhokisi elingenalutho emasongweni. Yini, ingabe kukhona omunye ongajabuli? Kakhulu kangcono. Hamba naye ukuze ubambe isixha somshado, umkhuba wokuzilibazisa futhi uhlose ngokunembile: obani amandla amakhulu - amasongo noma izimbali? Thola ukuthi enye yezintombi "ishada."
Ungaphila kanjani?
Ngakho-ke, usuqedile nalo lonke leli bhola eligciniwe. Yini manje? Phila ngenjabulo, gcina indandatho njenge-apple yeso lakho, ungalilahli futhi ngeke usizi. Usuvele ugubha umshado wesiliva? Nika ingane emithonjeni - ngisho noma egubha isiliva yakhe. Uke wahlala waba ngegolide? Kukhona namanje abazukulu, ake ioni ijabule. Ngentshiseko yomuntu empilweni yakho yomshado unganikeza ukuthula nokuzwana esizukulwaneni sakho esizayo. Futhi ukuze ungakhathazeki, ungaxhumana naye izindaba zomndeni, ukuze izingane-abazukulu bangatshela. Futhi abazukulu, uma unesikhathi.