Esikhathini esedlule, ingane ingamshaya ingane emathini ngisho nasezikoleni zemfundo. Kuze kube manje, e-US, izingane zingabopha abazali bazo uma zishaya inzalo. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi umlenze owedlulele, futhi emva kwakho konke sifuna incazelo yegolide. Asikwazi ukuletha ifomula elungile kubo bonke abantwana, ngakho khumbula ukuthi zonke izingane zihlukile nokuthi yini ezoyithinta insimu eyodwa, ingashukumisa kakhulu ingqondo yengane enye.
Yiqiniso, isibonelo sokukhulisa ngokuvamile sithatha. Futhi ukhetho ezimbili: noma yenza okufanayo nabazali bethu, noma kunoma yikuphi okwenza kanjalo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubona ubuntu emntwaneni. Ngisho nangomntwana oneminyaka elilodwa ubudala, okubonakala sengathi uyangqubuzana, usevele eqonda okungaphezu kwalokho ongakucabanga.
Udumo oluvela kubazali
Dumisa futhi ukhuthaze izingane kuzoba njalo. Ukudumisa kuyisisusa, kodwa uzizwe. I-Narcissism eschechenoku ayitholanga injabulo. Bonisa ingane ukuthi uyaziqhenya ngaye. Kodwa udumise u-nestolko uqobo lwakhe, bese isenzo esinazo. Asisho ukuthi: "Kakayats kahle!", Kodwa "Udwebe butterfly enhle kakhulu! Wenzé! ".
Imidlalo kufanele ibe wuddiness. Isimiso - sizoya emakilasini athuthukayo bese ngizokuthenga i-candy - engumsuka wecala. Ingane kufanele ifune ukuya lapho. Lesi akusona isikole. Yebo, futhi esikoleni lokhu akufanele kuvunyelwe, ngoba lokhu "umsebenzi" wengane yakhe. Futhi kumelwe sisondele kusuka ngaphesheya. Kubalulekile ukukhuthaza izingane. Isibonelo, vuma ukuthi emva kokuthola isikhathi esithile samamaki amahle, ingane izokwazi ukuthola lokho ayifunayo. Nikeza okunye. Yithi, lapha futhi manje ungamthenga ibha, kodwa uma efika phezulu, uzothola ikhekhe lonke. Lokhu kuphakamisa isifiso sokuba ngcono.
Ungenza futhi okuphambene nalokho. Uma ingane ingagcwalisi imisebenzi yakhe, okuyiminyaka yobudala, ibonakala kuwo wonke umuntu, kumele ubonise ukuthi abajabuli, bayathukuthele. Tshela ukuthi ulindzele okuningi futhi uyaqiniseka ukuthi uyakwazi, umphumela onobuhle kakhulu. Futhi, ungamangaleli ingane, khuluma ngezenzo zakhe noma ukwehluleka.
Uma ujezisa, ungasebenzisa okuhlukile. Awunakubuka i-cartoon, ungaphumi namadoda ohambahamba, awukwazi ukuthenga ithoyizi (lokhu akusebenzi kulabo abathengi owathembisa okuthile).
Ungaphenduki ukuhlanza ekujezisweni, ngaphandle kwalokho ingane ingabe isenqika ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole, umlumbi uhlotshaniswa nento engalungile.
Ingane encane ehlukumezekile futhi engaphumeleli ekunciphiseni ingafakwa esihlalweni futhi ivunyelwe ukupholisa isikhathi esithile. Ungakhulumi naye futhi ungamnaki, ngoba kuzothatha isikhathi esincane futhi nje ukhathele ukuhlala lapho. Ungazama ukufaka ekhoneni, kodwa kungcono nje ukukunika eyodwa. Bambalwa ngempela izingane ezizithandayo.
Izindlela zokujeziswa
Akudingeki ukuthi, siphikisana nokujeziswa ngokomzimba. Kusukela ku-slap papa, akukho lutho olungashintsha, futhi ingane engenasisekelo izoba nesinye isizathu sokukhala nokuqaphela ukuthi lowo onamandla angashaya.
Ngesikhathi sezingxabano, ingane ingadinga ukuxhumana ngokomzimba. Mthathe ngesandla noma umcindezele. Lokhu kuvame ukukhathazeka kakhulu. Tshela umntwana ozinzile ngoba udabukile ukubona lokhu nokuthi akazukufeza into enjengale.
Kukhona indlela ebizwa ngokuthi "One-two-three". Uma unikeza ingane ithuba lokuba uqaphele ukuthi usuphelile. Mtshele ukuthi unesikhathi sokuyeka ukuzulazula noma ukuthatha amathoyizi, noma uqale ukwenza izifundo. Futhi uma cishe cishe amathathu engenzi lokho okucelayo (lokho akudingayo), isijeziso sizolandela. Uma ingane iqonda futhi ilungisa, mtshele ukubonga futhi ungakhathazeki ukuqonda ngalokho okwenzekile.
Cabanga ukuthi yisiphi isijeziso ongakugwema. Isibonelo, uma ingane ihlala ithatha izinto ezingase zifinyelele kuyo, ungamane uwathathe noma uzinike indawo yokudlala ngokushintsha izincwadi zakhe kanye namathoyizi ezitsheni ezansi. Uma unikeza ingane ukuba uzame ukuzidla nge-spoon, cingisisa ngokwengqondo ukuhlanza, futhi ungesabi mayelana nesobho elichithekile. Wena uthisha, ube nesineke.
Ungakhuthaza ingane ikhono elisha, kodwa hhayi ngesidingo esingokwemvelo. Ingane engafuni ukudla, akufanele uthole iphunga lokudla isidlo se-borsch. Ungayithola, ngoba i-borscht izomnika amandla namandla futhi i-candy izomnika amandla amakhulu. Umkhankaso ophumelelayo ebhodweni yisikhathi esijabulisayo nesizathu sokudumisa umntwana, ebona ukuthi wenza konke futhi ama-leggings akhe awamanzi. Ithoyizi entsha ngeke kudingeke lokhu. Uma kungenjalo kuzodingeka uthenge izikhuthazo ezinqoleni zangasese.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kwenzeke kuwo wonke umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ubudala. Ungamjezisi ingane ngoba engenzi lutho. Buza ukuthi uzoba nesikhathi sokwenza kamuva, mhlawumbe usekhathele noma ecasulayo. Kulo mzwelo, thina ngokwethu asizingeli umsebenzi.
Ingane cishe iminyaka emibili ingachaza ukuthi kungani engavunyelwe endaweni yokudlala ngesikhathi semvula, kuphela ukuyenza ngemisho emifushane nokuphazamisa okufunayo. Kodwa ingane endala ayikwazi kuphela ukutshela mayelana nokuguquka okumanzi, mayelana nemikhuhlane nezinto, kodwa futhi ukuxwayisa ukuthi angaya emanzini ahlanzekile, kodwa uma kunezingane eziningi ezikhanyayo, uzohlala ekhaya.
Thola isizathu sokudumisa, ngisho nalapho kubonakala sengathi zonke izingane zakho azikho. Msize ukuba abe nokuzethemba ngokwengeziwe. Amagama ajabulisayo afuna ukuzwa konke ngaphandle kokuhlukile, ikakhulukazi izingane ezivela kubazali.
Ungajezisa, ungavumeli ukuziphatha, kodwa kufanele uchaze ukuthi endlini yakhe uyathandwa futhi noma ngabe kuyini, uyayamukela ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Kubalulekile ukwazi futhi akunakwenzeka ukuzenza. Ungalokothi uphepheke ekudumeni futhi lokhu kuyinto evamile ngokuphelele.
Konke ukujeziswa nokukhuthazwa kufanele kukhishwe futhi akuhambisani kuphela nesimo, kodwa futhi nesimo sengqondo somntwana. Ngabantwana abaningi, ngisho nokusebenza kakhulu, ungavuma, kukhona nalabo abadinga igama eliqinile nesenzo. Kumelwe siziphathe ngokuqinile, kodwa uma lokhu kuwukuziphatha kuphela kunomthelela, yiba njalo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi kufanele kube nokukhuthazwa okwengeziwe.
Sifisa ukukuthola izindlela ezifanele zokukhuthaza nokujezisa izingane zakho.