Kukhona ngempela ingozi: ingane encane ikhula kaningi ikhula ingenangqondo, ifuna, ibugovu. Kodwa-ke, ake ucabange, enye ingozi: ukuhlukanisa, inkani, inkohlakalo kuyenziwa ezinganeni ezilahliwe uthando lomzali, "ezingathandeki" futhi "ezingathandekile".
Kuze kube maduze, odokotela bacebisa: ungajwayele izandla! Kuyoba yinto enhle! Ngeke ukwazi ukwenza noma yini kamuva! Kodwa ucwaningo lweminyaka yamuva luye lwabonisa ukuthi izingane eziyazi kuphela isikhalazo kanye ne-arna yazo, zikhula kakhulu, kamuva ziqala ukukhuluma, ziyagula kaningi. Incazelo ibuye itholakale ngalokhu: ingane iyancipha ngokuzwakalayo kwenhliziyo yomama. Ososayensi bazama ukuhlola lokhu: babhala ukushaya kwenhliziyo kwabesifazane abaningana kule tape, futhi bafaka leli rekhodi eduze komntwana okhalayo. Ngendlela engaqondakaliyo, omncane wayehlukanisa ukushaya kwenhliziyo yomama phakathi kwabanye futhi wagxila phansi, wayeka ukukhala.
Nokho, akunakwenzeka ukugqoka ingane ngaso sonke isikhathi ezandleni zakho! Futhi akudingekile. Lapha wathathwa ngamathoyizi: uyabhaqa nge-rattle, eshaya isipuni, egoqa ibhola ... Ungenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Kodwa ungalindeli kuze kube yilapho umdlalo ugijima kuye, kuze kube yizinkezo nezindiza ziqhube phansi bese kubhonga. Kubalulekile ukumbamba umzuzwana bese uthatha umntwana ezandleni zakho, uhambehamba egumbini naye, ubonise ukuthi kwenzekani ngemuva kwewindi ... Kuhle kumama wami emathangeni, ezolile! Umoya waba ngcono, amandla aphinde athola, manje ungadlala kancane kancane.
Ingane kumele izwe ukuthi ivikelwe uthando lomama kusuka kuzo zonke izinselele, ukuthi umama uzohlale eqonda, asize, asindise. Lokhu kubalulekile kuye ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Futhi-ke ngaphezulu ...
Ngiyazi ukuthi awunaki amandla okusondeza ngokwengeziwe okumnandi, uchitha amahora esitofu, zama ukubeka ingane yakho izingubo ezingcono ... Futhi udlala kakhulu nendodana yakho noma, indodakazi? Ukutshela izindabakwane zebusuku? Ingabe uhlabelela ama-lullabies? Phela, amathoni amathelevishini noma amathrekhi aqoshiwe abhalwe kwifilimu ayishintshi ukushisa okuphilayo, ukuxhumana ngeso lengqondo, ugogo wakhe: izindaba, uthando lomama - konke okuvela esikhathini sangaphambili kwakungumnandi wobuntwana ...
Odokotela-i-psychoneurologists, ngeshwa, manje bayaziqaphela kakhulu izifo ze-neuropsychic ezinganeni zasenkulisa, abafundi bamakilasi amancane. Esinye sezizathu zokuthi lokhu kuyisisindo somzwelo, ngokomoya, ukungabi nokuxhumana nabazali, ukungabi nokuhle, okulula, nokwazi nokuthethelela.
Ingane enesabekayo idinga ukubekezela okukhethekile, akulula. Kodwa awukwazi ngisho nokukhula imbali, isihlahla, isihlahla ngaphandle kokusebenza nokubekezela! Indlela yokukhulisa umuntu, uma ufuna ukuba abe nomusa, ophana, ozwelayo, ovulekile, ebuka umhlaba ngokucophelela nangenjabulo?