Ngokuvamile, ukuqonda kusho ukuthi isamba semininingwane, kodwa akunjalo ngempela. Kunalokho, ukuhlakanipha kuhlobene nokukwazi kwengane ukufunda izinto ezintsha. Futhi njengoba ehlanganyela ekufundeni umhlaba kusukela ekuqaleni, izenzo zabazali kufanele nazo zifaneleke. Mhlawumbe uzomangala, kodwa, isibonelo, ukuthi othisha ababiza ngokuthi "ukuzalwa nokubhala" kuncike ekutheni abazali bafunda kangaki izincwadi ezinganeni zabo zisencane. Futhi hhayi lokhu kuphela ... Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yengane esemncane - indaba yokushicilelwa.
Imizwa yokuqala
Ingane yengane ishukunyiswa ngokushesha yizo zonke izinzwa: Uzwa ukufudumala komama, uthanda ukunambitheka ubisi, uhlangabezana nokukhanya kosuku, ubona izindawo ezikhanyayo zamathoyizi, uzwa imisindo eminingi engavamile, iphunga. Embuzweni wokuba khona kwezinhlakanipho ezisanda kuzalwa, ososayensi baye baphendula ngokungahambisani kahle, ikakhulukazi bekhomba isimo esicabanga ukuthi abantu basabela kanjani. Umuntu omncane wazi kanjani izwe? Umzimba omkhulu wolwazi ngumzimba wonke wengane, ikakhulukazi umlomo. Ocebile ukuzwa kwengane, kuphakama ukuhlakanipha kwakhe. Okwamanje, ufunda umhlaba owuzungezile ngomzimba wakhe omncanyana futhi uzinike isikhathi sakhe ngalokhu, ngaphandle kwezinqubo ezibalulekile zokusinda - ukulala nokudla. Umzimba wakhe ungalimaza, futhi, ngokuzalwa nje, usuyazi ukuthi ubuhlungu buphi. Angakwazi ukuzwa into efana nokwesaba lapho umama eshiya ekamelweni, futhi, ngokuzalwa nje, usuyazi ukuthi yini esabayo. Ukuba uvalwe kahle, ufuna inkululeko, futhi, ngokuzalwa nje, usuyazi ukuthi ulaka luni. Ingane ifunda umhlaba ngokomzwelo, igxile ekuzweleni kwangaphakathi. Konke akudingayo manje umuzwa wenduduzo nokuphepha.
Ukutholwa kokuqala
Ingane ikhula, futhi into yokuqala ozoyiqaphela ukuthi cishe izinyanga ezimbili kamuva wafunda ukuqonda nokubamba ithoyizi. Konke okuthunjwa isundu sesana kufundiswa ngokushesha ngomlomo. Izingane zilandela idoli elihambayo, futhi, ngezinye izikhathi, likwazi ukuhlela izindlela zalo ukuze "zithole". Isibonelo, engakwazi ukufinyelela into enomtshisekelo, wenza ukutholakala okukhulu: uma udonsa ishidi lapho ithoyizi lilele khona, kungaba ngezandla zakho. Izenzo ezinjalo zomsunguli omusha zibhekwa ososayensi njengendlela yokuzalwa kwengqondo. Enye yentuthuko kanye nentuthuko - ingane ayiqapheli nje umama wayo, yena ngendlela yakhe yothando uyamncenga: "izimpungushe", ibonisa injabulo yakhe, ukumomotheka nokukhamuluka kwemisindo nemilenze.
Izenzo zabazali
• Vumela ingane ukuba izwe, ilalele, ibheke, iphunga, uthinte futhi uzame ngomlomo neminwe izinto ezihlukahlukene. Masizwe iphunga lokupheka, imvula yasentwasahlobo, umdlalo oshisayo, i-rose blooming, amazambane abilisiwe, ishaja esidlule. Ngokuvamile, qaphela ukuphepha.
• Ungesabi uma ingane idonsa ithoyizi ye-raber, i-pacifier, umunwe, i-rattle emlonyeni wakhe. Ngakho-ke uyazithoba lapho engekho unina, okwenza lezizinto "iphini lesikhashana". Ochwepheshe beze beza negama kubo - "izinto zesikhashana." Kuyinto eyenzeka ukuthi i-bunny endala, enamathele emntwaneni ibaluleke kakhulu kunokudlala amathoyizi amasha.
• Hlalani nisondele, kuhle uma nithwala umntwana wakho nge-kangaroo noma nge-sling. Kulesi sigaba, ukuthintana ngokomzimba nomzali kusebaluleke kakhulu, ngoba ingane izwa izwe lonke ithole! Uma efudumele futhi ekhululekile, futhi umama useduze - lokhu kukuvimbela ukukhathazeka.
• Khumbula ukuthi ingane ngempela "iyayithatha" izwe eliyizungezile. Lalela ndawonye nomculo oyithandayo, vumela u-dapin bass nomsindo omama we-soprano umsindo, vumela ingane ukuba izwe ukufudumala kwesigama sikagogo wakhe, izwe isambatho sokugqoka izingubo zakhe zikamama futhi ibambelele emagatsheni angamapulangwe esihlahla. Konke okujwayele ingane kuyakha umhlaba wakhe, uzinzile futhi uvikelekile.
Izwe lomsosayensi omncane
Ingane yayinezinyanga eziyisithupha ubudala, futhi ukugxuma ekuthuthukisweni kwayo kuyabonakala ngamehlo. Impumelelo enkulu yengane - wafunda ukuhlala. Ukuhlala kungathola okuningi, kufinyeleleke kakhulu. Okwamanje, umntwana unesithakazelo kwinani elikhulayo lezinto, futhi nje ukukhishwa kwesithakazelo kunesithakazelo esincane. Kubalulekile ukuthi lizwakala, likhanyise, lidlale izingoma. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungabeka amathoyizi komunye nomunye, ubophe izindandatho ezintikeni, engeza ama-cubes, uqhathanise ubukhulu bawo nemilayezo. It is occupied by the subject ngokwayo, okuyinto ufunde ngokucophelela ngazo zonke izindlela ezikhona: uyathanda, udonsa ngezindlela ezahlukene, uletha amehlo, ubeka ikhanda, knock on odongeni, uphonsa, ubukele ithoyizi ngenzalo futhi ukulalela imisindo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo - qaphela - uthola injabulo engavamile emisebenzini yakhe. Ngokusho kwengqondo, manje ingane "isosayensi ebhokisithri yakhe", ngokucophelela, ngokudala ngokucophelela nokudala (!) Ukufunda isihloko esingavamile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane imemezela ngokuzwakalayo umsindo, ngezinye izikhathi idala ulimi lwakhe. Lesi sifundo sinomthakazeliso kangangokuthi uvame ukukusho kuphela umsindo ngenxa yenjabulo, futhi futhi uphinde uzwe umsindo wabo.
Izenzo zabazali
• Nikeza ingane indaba ehehayo kakhulu yokutadisha. Thenga amathoyizi enemibala ehlukene, ubujamo, ubukhulu. Kuyinto efiselekayo - ukuzwakala. Cabanga ngokuthenga amaphiramidi, ama-cubes, isikhunta, ama-matryoshkas, amabhodi we-Séguin, izinguqulo ezihlukahlukene ze-lego enkulu kakhulu. Manje ukuthuthukiswa kokucabanga kuzokwenzeka ngokucabangela kwendawo, ukwakhiwa, ukutadisha ifomu. Uma ithoyizi ingane efundwayo iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, ungadlala ndawonye: bonisa ukuthi, isibonelo, ungavula amasondo. Kodwa uma ingane iziqagele - lokhu kuyisinyathelo esikhulu ekuthuthukiseni kwakhe. Manje, uma enesithakazelo sokudlala, angashiyelwa kuye okwesikhashana.
• Phakathi nezifundo ungaphazanyisisi umntwana, ungamphazamisi, vumela ukuba athuthukise ngokugcwele umdlalo wakhe - lokhu kungukuqala kwamakhono okudala wengane. Uma ithoyizi ifundiswa ngokugcwele futhi iphakanyiswe ngokucophelela, qaphela "isimo sezenhlalo" somntwana esihlosiwe: "Futhi udonsa udla kanjani i-kasha?".
• Khuluma njalo nomntwana, funda izinkondlo kuye. Ungagxili kakhulu ezinganeni njengasezincwadini ezinhle-ngezinga elithile lokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kuzokwakhiwa isisekelo sokukhuluma, ukubhala, nokuthi yikuphi omunye othisha okuzobizwa kamuva ngokuthi "i-innate literacy".
Isikhulumi esincane
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ekuthuthukiseni ingane ukubonakala kwenkulumo. Lokhu kwenzeka emva kwezinyanga ezingu-9. Ekuqaleni le nkulumo ifana ne-babble, kodwa inenjongo kakhulu. Ukukhuluma izwi ngokuphelele kumntanzima kunzima kangaka-futhi kunqunyelwe engxenyeni yegama, okuyinto, njengoba umthetho, igcizelelwe. Umshini ubizwa ngokuthi "mash"; i-spoon - "lo", ugogo - "ba" noma "baba", banike - "yebo", njll. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wonke amagama asungulwe ingane angabi nezincazelo eziningana: isibonelo, "lo" - i-spoon, i-puddle, lotto, isepha. Lolu hlobo lwelulwimi luqondwa kahle ngumama okhathalela ingane. Futhi ngenkathi esebenza "njengomhumushi", wonke umuntu uyaqonda kahle lokho okudingekayo kumntwana. Okunye okuphumelele konyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwengane kuhamba - ngezinyanga ezingu-12 ingane iqala ukuhamba ngaphakathi kwesikhala ayinikezwe yona, kuqala ngosizo lomzali, bese ngokuzimela. Le ndlela yokunyakaza ivula amathuba amakhulu, ukwandisa umhlaba wangaphandle ekamelweni eliseduze nengqondo engenakunqunywa kwengane.
Izenzo zabazali
• Landela ingane. Ingabe umntwana uyathanda amanzi? Thenga amathoyizi athambileyo, ibhola, ama-cubes - konke okugeza. Kuhle ukunikeza amaphuzu akho ngomunwe wakho wokugeza - ukugeza kuyoba injabulo enkulu kumntwana.
• Ingane ithanda ukuqoqa nokuhlukanisa amathoyizi - xhuma konke okukhethwa kukho: bhaka ikhekhe - makabe nomklami ovela enhlama, unqume i-apple zibe izingxenye eziningana - ngaphambi kokuba umklami "we-apula".
• Uqaphele yini ukuthi ingane iqhuma, ithanda ukuhamba? Yakha "izindawo zokudlala" ezihlukene, ikhono lokuhamba ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene: ukushayela emagumbini egumbini, ematithini ahlanjululwayo, ukuvinjelwa kancane, ukufinyelela ibhola noma izinsipho zensipho, ukukhuphuka phezu "kwezintaba" zezingqimba ezivela embhedeni, gxuma ku "jumper".
• Uma ingane ilalela umculo, umsindo - yilalele "ukuhambisana nomculo" wengane: yihlabelela, funda izinkondlo, uphakamisa ukulalela umsindo wezinsimbi ezihlukahlukene zomculo, izinyoni eziculayo. Ungakhohlwa, ukubeka ingane ukulala, uhlabele ingoma, tshela inganekwane, ufake i-CD enomculo omuhle. Mhlawumbe manje ingane ayiqondi ngokugcwele incazelo yendaba, kodwa isivele iyayazi, ukuthi "iyazi" kanjani imisindo yomculo.
• Ungakhohlwa: into ebaluleke kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umuntu, futhi encane ikakhulukazi, ukunganaki. Mhlawumbe manje ingane yakho yenza ukutholakala kwayo okuyingqayizivele, futhi injabulo yakho, ukuqhosha kwakho kuye kanye nenjabulo yokukhulumisana naye yisidingo esikhulu, esibalulekile sokuthuthukiswa kwakhe.