Izinguquko empilweni yomfazi emva komshado

Abathandi kaningi babonakala sengathi abakhethiweyo bahle ngaphambi komshado.

Ukungaphumeleli kwabathandi ngokuvamile kuboniswa ngabazali bomthandi, kodwa lokhu ngokuvamile akusizi ngalutho.

- Dodakazi, uphethwe isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka kusuka ekulweni kwezidakamizwa. Kungani udinga it!

- Mama, ngokwanele! Sekuyisiqingatha sonyaka kusukela ekhishwe.

Abangane baqaphela ukuhluleka, kodwa bakhetha ukuthula kuze kube umshado, nabathandi abanenhlanhla ngeke babuze, ngoba bacabanga ukuthi bazimisele kangakanani. Ngemuva kwalokho, bakhetha ozobhapathizwa kakhulu, futhi abakhathaleli ukuthi abanye bacabangani?

Iningi lamishado, ngokuvamile labo abangenalo ulwazi lomndeni, bacabange ngempilo emva komshado, cishe njengompilo oyipharadesi ozobakhona ngemva komshado.

Ngokombono wabo, uma bethandana, lokhu kungenxa yokuphila, ukuthi imizwa enjalo phakathi kwalabo abashade abangezinyanga zokuqala zokuthandana izohlala kuze kube phakade. Ukuthi akekho ozozihlukanisa, ngoba uthando lwabo luzonqoba zonke izithiyo.

Emiphakathini eminingi engajabuli kakhulu, kodwa bachaza lesi simo nesimiso esijwayelekile ngokwabo ukuthi laba bantu abashadile ngothando, futhi akukho lutho olunjengalokhu olungenzeka kubo.

Futhi manje umshado osalinde isikhathi eside wenziwa! Siyakwamukela ezweni lomndeni wangempela lomndeni!

Izinguquko empilweni yomfazi emva komshado zibonakala kakhulu!

Izwe, lapho kukhona izingubo eziningi ezingcolile, lapho amasokisi nezicathulo zihlakazeka khona noma kuphi, lapho "izinto ezihlukile" zingekho. Izwe lapho kulula kakhulu ukulimaza hhayi ngezwi kuphela, kodwa nge-glance.

Izwe lapho abakuthandayo kakhulu bengaba yizitha, futhi indlu, ngemva komshado, iphendulela empini yangempela.

Dumisani labo abanokwanela nokuqonda okwanele ukuthi bangangeni ezingeni lobuhlobo obunjalo.

Kodwa nokho, ngisho nasemndenini ogcinwe kakhulu, ngezinye izikhathi umcabango ungena, kodwa u-love wangaphambili uhambe kuphi, imizwa yangaphambili yahamba kuphi? Mhlawumbe senze ukukhetha okungalungile, futhi sivumele umuntu ongalungile empilweni zethu? ..

Akanayo ubulili okwanele, kodwa yena ulala ocansini okuningi. Usekhathele kakhulu, ikhanda lakhe libuhlungu, bese libuyela emuva.

Futhi nansi izinguquko empilweni yowesifazane emva komshado.

Ufuna imoto entsha, kodwa akafuni imoto, kodwa ufuna ijazi elisha.

Ufuna ukuvakashela abazali bakhe, futhi uyamzonda uninazala. Uzobukela ibhola, futhi uyisiboniso se-TV oyintandokazi, futhi angifuni ukuvuna nganoma yiluphi uhlangothi.

Njengoba ikhandlela liphuma, imizwa yobudlelwane obuseduze iphela, inika indlela yokuziphatha evamile. Futhi manje, lokhu akusisekho ama-madly amabili athokoza, kodwa abantu ababili abahluke ngokuphelele abacabanga ngendlela ehlukile futhi benze izinto ngokuhlukile.

Ngaphambili babumbene olwandle luthando, kodwa manje yonke into iyashintsha - amagagasi okuphila kwangempela awathatha kusukela komunye nomunye waya ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene.

Manje kungenzeka ukuthi banqotshwe okwamanje futhi bayazi kahle impilo yokuphila, noma babalekele futhi bahambe bafuna abalingani abasha ukuze bazame ukuthola injabulo nomunye umlingani.

Noma mhlawumbe bazokwenza umsebenzi omningi futhi basebenze kanzima ukuze bafunde ukuthi bathandana kanjani ngempela, izinguquko empilweni yowesifazane emva komshado zazingaphansi:

- uma umyeni ephuthuma emsebenzini wakhe ekhaya, ngoba umkakhe othandekayo umlindele,

- eya ekhaya uthenga izimbali kumkakhe othandekayo,

- umkakhe ulindele ukubuya komyeni wakhe othandekayo, eholele ekubukeni okuhle,

- Umfazi ulungele umyeni wakhe ukudla okudliwayo, hhayi nje ngamaholide kuphela.

Ukufeza lokhu, kuzodingeka ukuthi ugcine isikhundla esinjalo: "Sizohlonipha izithakazelo zomunye nomunye"

Uma okhethiweyo wakho eqinisekile, othandweni lwakho ngaye - ubona umhlaba "nge-pink", futhi uzama ukukuthanda kakhulu, nokuthandwa ngawe nobuhlobo abuguquki kuwe.

Uthola imiphumela engcono emsebenzini noma ebhizinisini. Uzimisele ukusekela wena nomndeni wakho.

Uma kungekho uthando olulodwa, futhi abashadile bazizwa bengamukelekile, ngeke nje babe nokuphila komndeni kodwa ngeke bahambisane nomsebenzi.

Futhi ngokujwayelekile uma uthi kunzima ukuthola - kuyakwazisa kakhulu!