"Kuphela njengemikhumbi olwandle"
Le ndlela ihilela ukuphazamisa ukuthuthukiswa kwesimo sokungqubuzana ngokukhipha enye yamaqembu noma ukuhlukanisa amaqembu aphikisanayo ngosizo lwabangaphandle. Isibonelo, ukuqonda okulungele ukulwa nabantu abavuthayo noma izinyathelo zesehlukaniso.
Ekuboneni kokuqala, lolu hlobo lokuxazulula impikiswano lusebenza kakhulu, njengoba lungakwazi ukuyeka ukuxabana ngokushesha. Kodwa futhi, lokhu kuzoholela ekuqhubekeni okungenakugwemeka kokungqubuzana, okungase kuphinde kuphume ngemuva kokuthola ithuba lokuqala. Ngakho-ke, abantu abazimisele ukulwa bazocabanga ngezindlela zokujezisa abahlukumezi babo esikhathini esizayo noma emva kwesikhathi esithile, futhi indoda nomfazi, ngisho nangemva kokuhlukanisa, ngezinye izikhathi kuzodingeka bahlangane uma bexhunywe nezingane ezivamile. Futhi uma behlukana bengabi nabungane kakhulu, imihlangano enjalo ngeke ibalethe injabulo ekhethekile.
Ukuthula, ubungane, ukuhlafuna
Umphumela wokuthula wezingxabano kusho ukuthatha isinqumo esithinta izintshisekelo zombili amaqembu aphikisanayo ngokuqondene nemiphumela engafanele noma ehlangene.
Ukuqala kwanoma yikuphi ukungqubuzana kuhlale kungumlomo, futhi uma uhlangothi oluhluleka ukukholisa isitha sokufaneleka kwalo, lokhu kuholela ekuqhubekeleni phambili kwezingxabano, isibonelo, ekulwa. Ngakho-ke, inkhulumomphendvulwano yindlela enokwethenjelwa kakhulu yokuxazulula izinkinga zokuqonda phakathi kwabantu nabantu. Ngenxa yocongechunge ngokwalo, ukuxazulula izingxabano ezivele kubonakala kuyindlela ephumelela kakhulu, engakaze iphuze kakhulu ukubuyela kuyo.
The Justice of the Peace
Amacala aphikisanayo angafaka isandla sesithathu, lapho umantshi, abadala noma iqembu elingathandeki lingenza khona, ukuxazulula izingxabano ezivelele. Kwezinye izimo, ukuxoshwa kwamandla angaphandle kungabuka komunye wezinhlangothi eziphikisanayo ngenhloso yokusekela amandla kokufaneleka kwabo nokucindezelwa kumphikisi.
Ukulwa
Ukuxazulula izimo eziphikisanayo ngokusebenzisa ukusetshenziswa kwamandla kulula futhi imiphumela iyabonakala, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuzithethelela.
Ngemuva kwalokho, uma kuphazamiseka iqembu labantu abavela phakathi kwabo, kungabe sekuphela ukulwa, kanti uma ingxabano isesimweni sezwe, ke le ndlela yokuxazulula inkinga ibonisa ukusetshenziswa kwamandla ahlomile kwamazwe womabili kanye nemiphumela yezenzo ezinjalo.
Umzuzu omuhle wale ndlela yokuxazulula izingxabano ungowodwa - lokhu kungukuphela kwengxabano lapha futhi manje. Kodwa lokhu kuyisipho nje se-iceberg, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi uhlangothi olulahlekile luzokwamukela indima "ohlangothini olungalungile". Isisulu esingakapheli esimweni sokuphikisana ngeke sishiye imizamo yokwanelisa ukuziqhenya kwakhe okuvimbekile futhi ukuzama ukubuyisela isikhundla sakhe esilahlekile akunakwenzeka ukuba ashiye. Umphumela omuhle kule ndlela yokuxazululwa kwempi, njengombuso, awusebenzi kahle futhi uzoletha inkathazo enkulu enhlangothini ephumelelayo futhi izofuna amandla nezinsiza ukugcina ubuqiniso bayo esikhathini esizayo.
Ukulwa nomuntu wesithathu
Indlela enobudlova yokuxazulula izingxabano ezibandakanya omunye wezinhlangothi ekusekeleni kwesithathu amandla akuyona into ejwayelekile kakhulu emphakathini wezenhlalakahle, ngoba cishe njalo kusho ukuphulwa komthetho. Kodwa, nokho, lesi senzakalo sikhona. Isibonelo, iqembu eliphikisayo lingasicela usizo ezicaleni zobugebengu ukuqeda isitha.
Themis
Ukuhlaziywa kwezimo ezingqubuzanayo ngosizo lwamacala omthetho kunamaphuzu amahle futhi angalungile. Impikiswano evelele izoxazululwa ngokuhambisana nomthetho otholiwe. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi isinqumo esilungile ngokuqondene nenye yezinhlangothi. Njengoba kungekho mithetho ekhona ekwazi ukumboza zonke izici zobungane bomuntu ngendlela ephelele. Izindlela ezinjalo zokuxazululwa kwezingxabano azisoloko zixhomeke ekusebenzeni kwamalunga wabameli kanye nombono womphakathi.
Inkantolo Yokubambisana. Isixazululo sokungqubuzana siphathiswa ngale ndlela kumuntu wesithathu, ogunyaziwe umbono wakhe ozoqiniswa futhi wamukelwe yizinhlangothi zombili. Esikhundleni somlamuleli, umuntu noma iqembu labantu lingenza.
Noma iyiphi impikiswano iphela ngokushesha noma kamuva. Kodwa ukunqoba empini, kanye nokunqotshwa, akuyona imiphumela yaso kuphela yokugcina.
Ukunqoba kokubili.
Kuyinto engavamile ukuba omunye wezinhlangothi eziphikisanayo, aqaphele ukuthi akunakwenzeka umphumela omuhle kubo, wenza imizamo "yokumnyama" umphikisi ebusweni bomphakathi noma ukuthatha ezinye izenzo zokulimala okuqondile noma okungaqondile.
Ukuncintisana.
Lo mphumela wenkinga yokuphikisana ubonisa ukuqedwa kwawo okuphelele kakhulu. Amaqembu azama ukufika esinqumweni, umphumela wawo awuphuli amalungelo kanye nesimo sezinhlangothi eziphikisanayo.