Kungani abantu abadala nabo bathanda izindabakwane?

Kusukela ebuntwaneni sizwa izindabakwane. Siyafunda futhi sitshele abazali, sibheka amathonti amakhulu nama-movie. Khona-ke sikhula, kodwa abaningi bethu baqhubeka bethanda izindabakwane. Yebo kunezinkolelo eziningi, njengezingane zonke, kodwa akuzona zonke ezivuma, ikakhulukazi abameleli bobulili obunamandla. Kodwa yini ngempela esiyitholayo? Ngenxa yokuthi ngisho nokuba abantu abadala, sisaphila ukuthanda izindabakwane?


Ukungabi nokuthandana

Abesifazane abaningi badinga inganekwane, ngoba empilweni abanayo abanothando olwanele. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, bangase babe nabathandekayo ababazisa futhi bayabaluleka, kodwa ukubamba kwakhe imizwa kubangelwa ukungabi nothando emshadweni.

Amantombazane ahlala yedwa athanda nokufunda inganekwane futhi ubuke izithombe namabhayisikobho. Yiqiniso, uhlobo lwabo oluyintandokazi yizindaba zokuthanda. Kungani? Ngoba ngenxa yemisebenzi enjalo, abesifazane baqhubeka bekholelwa ukuthi imizwa yangempela neyempela ikhona. I-Tembolee, ekuhumusheni kwezintshumayelo zanamuhla, amaqhawe amnandi nezothando abanjengabantu bangempela, abangahlala betholakalayo. Yingakho, ngenkathi efunda futhi ephequlula inganekwane, abesifazane bazifudumala ngokholo othandweni ngokujwayelekile nasemadodeni ikakhulukazi. Ngokusekelwe kubuntu obuhle, badala izithombe futhi bazicabange ngokwabo. Njengoba zonke izindaba zezingane zilotshwe ngabantu abadala, ngokuvamile ziba nefilosofi ejulile, esingazibonanga ebuntwaneni. Kodwa amantombazane asekhulile angakwazi ukuqonda ngokugcwele futhi aqaphele ukuthi yiliphi uhlobo lokubheka umlobi, ukuthi yini ayefuna ukufundisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezindabeni zezinganekwane konke kwenzeka kalula futhi kalula, izikhulu zihlala zithola amakhosazana awo. Futhi abesifazane abaningi banesithakazelo: ningenzi lutho, futhi futhi - futhi nishade nomhle kakhulu, ohlakaniphile, onothando futhi ngokuvamile, indoda enhle. Amatheksthi ayimithi emihle kakhulu kusukela kulezi zinkimbinkimbi, ngoba ezindabeni zezinganekwane bangathola uthando lwabo.

Ukuzijabulisa

Ngandlela-thile, hhayi kuphela labo abangenalo uthando abangatshela inganekwane. Bathandwa futhi yizivakashi zangempela kanye nezivakashi. Kumele kuqaphele ukuthi izindabakwane kuphela ezingabizwa ngokuthi inganekwane, ezichazwe njengezinganekwane. Isibonelo, amafilimu amaningi adventure, ngokubanzi, angabhekwa njengezinganekwane, ngoba konke kuphelile kahle, abalingiswa banamakhono angaphezu kwamandla angaphandle, bagubha ubungane, ukusekela kanye nothando. Izindabakwane ezithandwayo ezifana nalabo abangenayo i-acuity eyanele empilweni. Laba ngabantu abayeke ukuyeka izifiso zabo zangempela, ngenxa yamarobhothi, ngenxa yokwesaba okwezinye izinto njalonjalo. Ngakho babheka izindaba ze-adventure ze-adventure, bezihlanganisa nabo abalingiswa abakhulu balawa ma-epic. Izenzakalo ezinhle kakhulu zihlala zijabulisa. Kuzo azikho indawo yezinsuku ezifanayo nokuphila okuphazamisayo. Lezi yizici eziyinhloko eziheha abantu ezindabeni ze-adventure zezinganekwane. Abaningi bangasho ukuthi ngokuphumelela okufanayo umuntu angathanda yonke indaba mayelana nokuzijabulisa. Kodwa lokhu akulona iqiniso ngempela. Ngokwezinganekwane kuphela, konke kuphelela njalo. Lapho, akekho olahlekile, akafi, akalimazi abanye. Yingakho sikhetha izintandokazi ezingamanga, ngoba azikho indawo yokudabuka nokudumazeka, ukubuka esikrinini noma ukufunda incwadi, sikhokhiswa kuphela ngokuhle.

Ubuhlobo Nobusathane

Esinye isizathu sokuthi kungani abantu abadala bethanda inganekwane, ukungabi nobuhlobo bangempela nobuqhawe empilweni yabo yangempela. Abantu bafuna ukuthola lokho abangenakunikwa abanye. Yingakho bebhapathizwa emphefumulweni wezinganekwane. Ayikho indawo yokukhokha. Uma kukhona inkampani yabangane, bonke bazokuma omunye komunye kuze kube sekugcineni. Ezindaba zezinganekwane, akekho othengisa noma ubani. Ngisho nokuzibophezela, ngenxa yalokho, abantu bayazibona amaphutha abo futhi bacele intethelelo, bahlenga izono zabo. Abalingiswa bezinganekwane baqotho kakhulu futhi banomusa kunalabo esihlangana nabo empilweni yangempela. Amatheksthi avumela abantu ukuba bangalahlekelwa ukholo lwabo ebuhlotsheni bangempela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubonakala sengathi baqonda ukuthi lokhu kungumlando wezinganekwane kuphela. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, izindaba ezinjalo zenza ngokungazi lutho, zigxile emcabangweni wokuthi abangane beqiniso bekhona, bangalokothi bahluleke futhi bangaboni. Ngenxa yalokho, abantu baqala ukufuna abangani emfanekisweni nokufaniswa kwamaqhawe wezinganekwane, futhi lokho kuyisici, bavame ukuthola abantu abanjalo nje, ngoba bazizwa ukuthi banjani abantu abadinga.

Ngokuqondene nobuqhawe, abantu abaningi bafuna ukusindisa abanye noma ukuzilondoloza. Kodwa empilweni yangempela lokhu akunjalo njalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, empeleni, zonke izitha nezinkinga zimbi kakhulu kunezinganekwane. Ngakho-ke, kuba lula kubantu lapho bezihlanganisa ne-knights-tale knights kanye namakhosanazana abonga amakhophi womunye nomunye, abonise ubuqhawe nokunye okunjalo. Siyabonga ngezinganekwane, asiyeke ukukholwa into enhle, ekhanyayo, enomusa, ngokuyisimangaliso ukuthi kuzokwenzeka okufanayo kithi ngelinye ilanga. Yingakho kuhle kakhulu uma abantu abadala bethanda izinkondlo, ngoba inganekwane ibapha amandla okuphila kanye nethemba ukuze kube ngcono.