Isifundo 1: Ukuqeqesha kokuqala
Unayo puppy encane, ojabulela ukuphila, ufunda umhlaba futhi ubonise uthando lwakhe nokubonga kuwe. Kodwa, ngaphezu kokudla okunempilo nokuhamba kahle, ingane ngayinye idinga ukukhuliswa kahle.
Kuhle kakhulu, uma usuvele ucabangile ngokuqeqesha ingane. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi ababelethi noma abangani abenezinja, bayamangala imibuzo yakho mayelana nokuthi uzoqala nini ukuqeqesha, futhi weluleke ukuba ungasheshisi futhi unike ingane injabulo encane yobuntwana. Ingabe kunjalo? Uma sikhuluma ngokuqeqeshwa njengendlela yokuthuthukiswa kwamakhono ayingqayizivele enja nokuphendula okucacile emiyalweni yomnikazi - akungabazeki, kulungile.
I-puppy eneminyaka engu-2-4 inzima kakhulu ukugxila kwisenzo esisodwa isikhathi eside. I-kid ishesha kakhulu ithola ukhathele futhi ishintshe kunoma yikuphi ukushicilela okuvela ensimini yakhe yombono.
Sizocabangela izinja zokuqeqesha nokuqeqesha ngezindlela ezehlukene njengendlela yokukhetha umdlalo ohlangene. Uma, ngosizo lwemisebenzi elula futhi ethakazelisayo, uchaza i-puppy ekhuluma nawe kuhle, futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, akuyona into esabekayo, ngakho-ke ngokubuyako uthola uxhumano oluhle kakhulu nenja yakho. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukubeka isisekelo sobudlelwano obujwayelekile phakathi komnikazi nesilwane.
Izifundo zokuqala zenzelwe i-puppy emkhatsini wezinyanga ezi-1 nezinyanga ezingu-4.
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi iphutha elikhulu kanye nesizathu sezinkinga eziningi ebuhlotsheni phakathi komnikazi nenja yisifiso sethu sokuthi "senze" inja. Ngokuvamile, abanikazi bavumela izilwane zabo ezifuywayo zonke izinto, baqondise lokhu kuziphatha ngombhalo: "Ungelungu lomndeni wethu, futhi siyamthanda." Ngenxa yalokho, bathola u-tyrant ongalawuleki osebenzisa ngokugcwele imvume yokuzikhethela izinhloso zabo.
Ngakho ngubani umholi?
Ngakolunye uhlangothi lwemali isimo se-okuthiwa "alfalider", esithathwe ngabanikazi abalalela iseluleko somqeqeshi noma "wesifazane" onguchwepheshe. Ngezinye izikhathi lesi simo sengqondo enjaweni sakhiwa ngokufunda izincwadi ezincane zokuqeqesha, okuncoma ukubeka ukulawula okunzima phezu kwenja nokubonisa ubukhulu bayo nsuku zonke. Izinja ezikhulayo emindenini enjalo zingaphansi kokucindezeleka njalo futhi ziyesaba umnikazi, okuvame ukuthi kungenxa yokuthi amalungu omndeni akhala futhi ahlukumeze abanye abantu noma izilwane.
Ukuze ugweme amaphutha angalinganiselwe ekuqeqesheni izinja ngezindlela ezahlukene futhi ukwakha ubudlelwane obuvamile, obugcwele nenja yami, ngincoma ukuthi uhambisane nemithetho elandelayo. Le nja iyabona umndeni njengomhlambi, futhi noma yikuphi ukuzama ukuyihlakulela ngaphandle kokuzama "ukucabanga njengenja" ngisho kancane, kubangela izingxabano. Izinja ziyizidalwa zomphakathi ezikuphi okuyizinto ezibalulekile ezifana nesakhiwo sepakethe, umholi kanye nokubusa okubaluleke kakhulu. Noma kunjalo, lezi zincazelo ziningi kakhulu kunalokho, kubonakala ekuqaleni. Ungazitholi "i-alpha syndrome" futhi ukhumbule ukuthi ukubusa kuningi ngokuhlonipha umholi kunokwesaba, futhi kungavamile ukuboniswa ngosizo lwamandla angokwenyama. Isakhiwo somhlambi asikwazi ukumelelwa njengesiteleka esilula esinqunyiwe. Esikhathini sokuqeqeshwa kwethu sizozama ukusiza umnikazi ukuba abe negunya le-puppy, elizobe lifuna, lihle futhi lihloniphe.
Amagama abalulekile
Ukuze siqonde kangcono uhlelo esizokwakha izifundo zethu, ake sibheke emigameni emibili esondelene kakhulu futhi ngezinye izikhathi ihlotshaniswa nathi njengendlela efanayo. Kodwa umehluko wabo oyinhloko ubaluleke kangangokuba uzokuvumela ukuba ubukeke ngokuhlukile ebuhlotsheni ne-puppy yakho.
Isigunyaziso - igunya lokujabulela, elifanelwe nokuqiniseka okungekho emthethweni.
Isigunyazo - esekelwe ekulaleleni okungenakuphikisa, amandla, ukucindezela.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi manje kuzo zonke izigaba zokuqeqesha nokuqeqesha isilwane sakho isisekelo sobudlelwane bakho siyoba nokuthembela okungenasisekelo, ukuqonda nokuhlonipha.
Okumnandi
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale, ubuke amaphuzu abalulekile.
Ngokuqinisekile uzodinga ukwelapha okumelwe ulungiselelwe kusengaphambili.
Ukuthakazelisa kuyizinhlayiyana ezincane ezimnandi zokudla okuthandwa yi-puppy kakhulu, kodwa akazidla njalo. Kulo shizi, inyama ebilisiwe noma inyama eluhlaza (inkukhu, inyama yenkomo, isibindi) iyokwenza. Ubukhulu bokudla buxhomeke ekuzaleni kwenja (ezincane i-puppy, ezincane izingcezu), kodwa hhayi ngaphezu kuka-1-1.5 cm (isithombe 1). Into eyinhloko ukuthi i-puppy ayifuni isikhathi sokuhlafuna, ngaleyo ndlela iphazamisa isifundo.
Isikhathi sokufunda esiteji sokuqala sokuqeqesha akufanele sidlule izikhathi ezingu-5-6. Esikhathini esizayo, kubalulekile ukwandisa ubude bezifundo kuze kube ngu-5-10 imizuzu. Amanye ama-puppies angakwazi ukumelana nezifundo ezimfushane kuphela. Kulezi zingane, kudingeka usebenzise izikhathi ezingu-5 izikhathi ezingu-3 ngosuku.
Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukuthi emva kwamakilasi i-puppy ayizizwa ikhathele. Ukuqeda isifundo noma isikhashana phakathi kokuzivocavoca, ungaba ngesimo somdlalo ohlangene, ukubaluleka kwalokho esizokukhuluma ngakho emva kwesikhathi esincane.
Ukubekezela nokungaguquguquki amaphuzu amabili ayisihluthulelo okumelwe uqaphele ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uma ukhathele ngemuva komsebenzi - thumela isifundo. Yonke isenzo esifanele se-puppy kufanele sikhuthazwe ngobuqotho yizwi, ngoba ukukhuluma kanye nokudla kungomunye wamathuluzi abaluleke kakhulu ekufundeni okuphumelelayo. Uma i-puppy ingakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi obelwe wona, cishe, isizathu asiyona isimilo sakhe noma ubuwula. Awukwazi ukucindezela lo msebenzi kuze kube yilapho umphumela oqinile utholakala esiteji sokuqala. Kubalulekile ukwahlukanisa noma yiliphi iqembu eliyinkimbinkimbi zibe izingxenye ezilula futhi uzisebenze ngokuhlukile.
Isiteketiso
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka yobudala noma ngabe uhamba emgwaqweni noma engakafiki, "qala ukufundela kangcono ekhaya. Uma ingane ihlala emgodini, ungafunda naye egcekeni. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuqala ukwenza imiyalo ngaphambi nje kokudla.