Kulungile-ke. Yiziphi izihloko amadoda abathanda ukukhuluma ngazo?
Okokuqala imishini yonke.
Amadoda angaxoxa ngemoto uma nje efuna. Amamodeli okuphila kwembonini yemoto ayinani elikhulu, kanti uma amadoda engakhulumanga ngezimoto, ke lapho eqala, isikhathi sabo sizoqala ngokushayela ngokushesha, futhi ingxoxo izogcwala ama-epithets nama-admiration. Ukukhathazeka kwalezi zingxoxo kunzima kakhulu. Bazoxoxa ngama-discs, amasondo, izindaba ezihlobene nemoto, amaqiniso athakazelisayo, izimoto eziqakathekileko, indlela abayilungisa ngayo, indlela abaphuka ngayo njalonjalo. Ungakwazi ukubhala ngokungafani, ngoba akekho umuntu onjalo ongeke abe ngu-100% ongenandaba nezimoto. Amantombazane ayethanda izimoto, abanye kuphela abaphansi. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi abaphatha njengamathoyizi. Akumangalisi ukuthi kukhona inkulumo. Amantombazane - izingane ezifanayo, amathoyizi abo kuphela ngonyaka zibiza kakhulu futhi ziyabiza.
Isihloko sesibili , ngabantu abathanda ukukhuluma, yiqiniso, mayelana nobulili. Babuye basho ngamahloni nangamahlaya mayelana nezenzo zabo, mayelana namacala nezinye izinto. Futhi uma ebusheni bakhe bonke banobuqotho futhi, njengokusho, bakhulume iqiniso, bese besondela eminyakeni engama-50-60, amanga amanga futhi ezama ukukhombisa ukuthi namanje "kukhona". Lezi zingxoxo zibuye zithathwe isikhathi eside, kodwa akulula kakhulu ukuxhumana nabo bonke, ngoba kukhona abanye abathanda ukufihla le ndaba.
Abesifazane, isihloko esilandelayo mayelana nokuthi, mhlawumbe, amadoda angakwazi ukukhuluma ngokungenamkhawulo nangenangqondo, kanye nangezimoto. Bazoxoxa ngezingane ezifunda nabo ngaphambili, izingane ezifunda nabo, amantombazane abangani, abalingiswa babo, izibalo, ubukhulu besifuba nokuma kwesibongolo. Bazochaza izinhloso zabo, abakubonayo, ukuthi bembethe kanjani, bazilungise kanjani kahle. Ingxoxo ngamantombazane ayinasiphelo futhi inesihluku, kubesifazane abayizigidi, futhi kufanele sixoxisane ngalunye futhi sihlukanise okushiwo yilowo nalowo, futhi siphinde sixoxisane ngezinto ezihlobene nobulili.
Yebo, ngaphandle kwamantombazane, ubulili kanye nezimoto, amadoda afisa ukukhuluma ngezihloko ezilula, kodwa ezobuchwepheshe. Ngokuba imishini efanayo iyindlela, futhi okungajwayelekile kukhona amadoda angenayo isithakazelo kumishini futhi, ngokufanele, zonke izinhlobo zamasu. Ikakhulukazi, ikhompyutha nayo yonke into ehlobene nayo.
Uma sikhuluma ngamakhompiyutha, ngisho noma engekho enkampanini eqinile ye-IT, khona-ke bayodingida kanye nolwandle lwabo lwesikhathi. Uma bengakhulumi ngokugxilisa, bazoqala ukushintshela ezinhlelweni, uma kungenjalo mayelana nezinhlelo, ngakho mayelana nemidlalo yekhompyutha. Akubona bonke, kodwa amadoda amaningi okwamanje ayakwazisa imidlalo ethile. Futhi cishe zonke izinsizwa zanamuhla, lapho lokho, kodwa zidlalwa, ngisho nasesheni esisha kakhulu, lapho zisencane. Futhi igxila emphefumulweni isikhathi eside, futhi kusukela engxoxweni yemidlalo yekhompiyutha ingavela ezingxoxweni ezingaphezu kwehora elilodwa, futhi nazo ziyoba ngokomzwelo futhi zivunguvungu ngangokunokwenzeka.
Okusho ukuthi, bayakuthanda ukukhuluma ngezobuchwepheshe. Futhi lokhu kuhambelana nakho konke. Kuyafaneleka futhi ukuphawula ukuthi konke kungadlulela ekuxoxweni kwamafoni, abadlali, izikhulumi namanye amadivayisi.
Noma kunjalo kunesihloko esisodwa , esicacile, kodwa futhi esingenasici esingunaphakade. Futhi ukuba ngumdlalo oqondile. Emadlalweni ezemidlalo akhuluma ngenjabulo, futhi kakhulu, isikhathi eside kakhulu, baxoxa ngebhola isikhathi eside. Xoxani ngezikhathi, amaqembu, imigomo, imithetho, ubuqhawe nokunye-okunye. Babuye baxoxisane nabo bonke imidlalo yama-Olimpiki, qaphela i-hockey futhi babuke ngenjabulo futhi baphinde baxoxe, futhi njengentshiseko njengoba benza ngebhola. Futhi kukhona abantu abaningi ababukela zonke izinhlobo zemidlalo yezemoto. Efana ne-MotoGP, i-World Rally Championship kanye ne-Formule 1. Futhi baphinde baxoxe futhi bafunde izindaba ngabo futhi konke lokho.
Njengabantu abathanda ukukhuluma ngamabutho, nangamabutho ahlomile.
Ngokuqondene nebutho, ngakho konke kucacile futhi. Bakhuluma ngeminyaka yemisebenzi yezempi, mayelana nabangane abayitholile lapho, mayelana nalabo ababalekele kuloluhlelo, nendlela abenza ngayo, nokuthi babefanele benzeni ngakho.
Iqiniso lokuthi ibutho lenza abafana emadodeni angempela akufanelekile ukukhuluma ngakho. Bakhuluma ngamathangi, baqhubekela phambili ekuxoxweni kweMpi Yezwe Yesibili. Qala ukuxoxa ngokuthi ubani opholile, waseRashiya noma waseMelika nokunye okunjalo nokunye. Bazoqala ukuxoxa ngezinhlelo zokulwa nezindiza, izindiza, amathangi, izikhali. Qala ukuqhathanisa amathangi ethu ne-American neYurophu nokunye.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakhohlwa ukuthi amadoda athola imali, futhi bathanda ukukhuluma ngemali kanye nebhizinisi. Baxoxisana ngamadili, baxoxisane ngomsebenzi. Mayelana nalokho okwakudingeka bakwenze, zonke iziqalo zomsebenzi wabo. Konke ukwehluleka kwayo, ukuxoxisana ngezinhlelo zebhizinisi, ukuxoxisana ngezamanani emali ezweni kanye nakho konke lokho.
Amantombazane amaningi abheka amadoda engakhulumi. Kodwa lokhu akunjalo, nentombazane efanelekile, noma abangane bomuntu ababi nakakhulu kunokuba intombazane efanayo inhlebo ingakhulumi lutho. Empeleni, eqinisweni, bathi okuningi, kodwa ngezinye izihloko, futhi uma bezama ukukhuluma ngento ethile namantombazane, abamane nje babeke izihloko ezingxoxweni, futhi baba nesithukuthezi noma bahlazekile, okwenza kube nzima nakakhulu.
Ngakho, khumbula amantombazane, ufuna ukuba umngane omuhle kumuntu. I-Sharm ezemidlalo, ukuqonda okungenani into enjalo emotweni (ngisho nolwazi olungenasisekelo, iholele ekuhlwithweni), wazi okuningi mayelana namakhompyutha, ube yintombazane enhle, ukuthi uzoxoxwa futhi, nakuba engekho, funda isimiso ukuze wazi zonke ezobuchwepheshe izici zamakhompiyutha, futhi ufunde izincwadi zesayensi egumbini nezincwadi mayelana nomkhakha we-IT, ukudlala imidlalo yekhompiyutha, nokujwayele zonke izinhlobo zazo, bese-ke uzobe ube ngumxhumanisi ongcono kakhulu kwentombazane, futhi mhlawumbe, mhlawumbe, intombazane ephupho. Emva kwakho konke, uma ungumama omuhle wendlu, futhi uwanele, ngani? Nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi uzoba nezintombi ezimbalwa, nakuba konke kuguquka kanye namantombazane anjalo, njengoba sichazwe ngenhla, kuba njalo.
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