Izinkolelo-ze, izinkolelo, izimpawu, umsuka kanye nencazelo

Ukuthola ithrekhi, ukuphonsa imali lapho sifuna ukubuya khona, iningi lethu linakho izinkolelo-ze ezincane. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kuneziningi zazo ezivimbela ukuba singaphila. Yeka ukuthi ungawavumeli ukuba abe yizintambo? Inkolelo-ze iyinkolelo yemandla engaziwayo engathinta ukuphela kwethu nokuphumelela. Kusukela ekubukeni kwe-psychology ejulile, lokhu kuyisici esingenasici se-psyche yethu. Izinkolelo-ze zivela ebantwini futhi zihamba kuwo wonke umlando wawo. Funda imininingwane esithombeni esithi "Izinkolelo-ze, izinkolelo, izimpawu, umsuka kanye nencazelo."

Gwema ukuphikisana

Isazi sengqondo uChristos Andre (uChris-tophe Andre) uyachaza: isisekelo senkolelo-ze sinesifiso sethu sokwenza ubudlelwane obangela umphumela phakathi kwezenzakalo. Ikhono leziphetho ezinjalo kwakudingeka ukuba okhokho bethu basinde. Ngakho-ke, kuvamise kulula ukuba izingqondo zethu zakha ukuxhumana komlingo phakathi kwamaqiniso amabili azimele kunokuba uvumelane ngokuzenzakalelayo. Ngakho senza izwe elingalindelekile lihleleke ngokuhlelekile-ngisho noma kuphela emcabangweni wethu. Usuku lonke ngilusizi? Kuhle, kufanele kube, ngoba namhlanje ngoLwesihlanu, ngo-13.

I-Destiny Destiny

Siyaqonda ngokuzwakalayo ukuthi kunamandla lapho singenamandla, futhi angasithonya. Isibonelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngiphatha kahle kangakanani izindaba zami zezezimali, inkinga yezezimali emhlabeni wonke izongithinta. Asikwazi ukulawula konke. Lo mzwa udala ukukhathazeka. Futhi ukungasebenzi kusenza kube nzima. Imikhuba nemibonakaliso yithuba lokwenza okuthile ukuvikela ekubhekaneni nobunzima, ukwakha ukuvumelana nezici noma ukududuzwa. " Isibonelo, isibonakaliso sabantu sithi: "Ukuntuleka kwemali kungaphambi komcebo" futhi kunxusa ukunikeza izipho ukuceba. Lapho sithandwa kakhulu ukukhathazeka, lapho sidinga khona izinkolelo-ze. Imikhosi inegunya elifanayo eliduduzayo njengemithandazo. Izimo ezinobungozi, lapho umphumela ungaxhomeke kumuntu, kodwa ngengozi, futhi kwandisa isidingo sokukholelwa ezeni. Ngokwezibalo, abagijimi bezombusazwe, abaqhubi be-Formula 1 nabathengi babakholelwa ngokweqile kunabantu abavamile.

Inkumbulo okwabiwe

Izinkolelo-ze aziqali nje ukuhlobana okukodwa phakathi kwamaqiniso, kodwa futhi nhlobo ngempela-phakathi kwabantu. "Sithonywa kakhulu ngefa lomndeni kanye namasiko," kusho uChristophe André. Uma thina ngesikhathi esifanayo siphala nomuntu nge-ehlombe lesokunxele noma siphenduke ngokuthula, lapho sibona emgwaqweni ikati elimnyama, sizozizwa umphakathi. Cishe, futhi inganekwane kithi ebuntwaneni funda okufanayo. Angikaze ngibeke isinkwa endaweni ephansi - hhayi ngenxa yokuthi ngikholelwa ukuthi kuyinhlupheko, kodwa ngoba ugogo wami wangifundisa kanjalo, futhi ngikwenza ngenkumbulo yakhe. Futhi izindabakwane zeminyuziyamu - ngokwesibonelo, mayelana nomoya ka-Emperor Paul I, oqinisekisiwe, usaqhubeka ezungeza iMikhailovsky Castle - ukuvuselela umlando wethu ovamile, okwenze kube okuthakazelisayo nakakhulu. Mhlawumbe ukuthinta izinkuni kuyinkumbulo okhokho bethu ababekholelwa emthonjeni onobuhle, abawacela ukuvikelwa ebubini.

Ukuqonda kokulinganisa

Inkolelo-ze yindawo ye-psyche yethu, ayikwazi ukuhle noma emibi. Kuze kube lokhu kusisiza ukuba siphile, kodwa kungaphazamisi, konke kuhambisane nokuhleleka. Sonke-noma cishe sonke-sizijabulisa ngezinye izikhathi ngokuhamba ngezinsalela ku-asphalt. Kodwa-ke, uma senza lokhu, "ukugwema ukungabi nenjabulo," futhi ukwesaba, ngokungahambi ngendlela ehamba phambili, kuvele kubonakala sengathi i-neurosis. Kulesi simo, kungase kube usizo ukuxhumana nodokotela. Qinisekisa leli phuzu kungaba imvamisa yezenzo zokuthi "ukuphikisana neziphambeko", yiziphi izinkolelo-ze ezihlukahlukene umuntu anakho, nokuthi zingakanani ukuvimbela inkululeko yakhe. Manje siyazi ukuthi yiziphi izinkolelo-ze, izinkolelo, izimpawu, imvelaphi kanye nokubaluleka kwazo.