Yebo, siphila ezweni elibonakalayo kakhulu, ngakho-ke, amaphupho ethu okubonakalayo nawo afanele ukunakwa nokuhlonishwa. Akukho lutho oluyichilo ngoba izinkolelo zethu zivame ukwehla ezingeni lezinsuku zonke (kwesinye sofa lesikhumba noma ngomakhalekhukhwini). Abesifazane abaningi banamaphupho afanayo noma afanayo, kepha ngamunye uya endleleni yakhe. Thatha, isibonelo, isikhumba esibi kakhulu soboya.
Indlela yenombolo 1. Ukuqinisa ibhande
Ukuze uthenge le nto yokuhlobisa i-wardrobe, uMas wehlise izindleko zakhe okungenani. Ngesibindi wayishiya isobho lakhe elithandayo lokubhema, izikhathi ezingu-5 wenza isikhwama samateyi esifanayo, wagcina ifoni kuphela yamakholi angenayo (hhayi ukukhokhela ukukhulumisana eselula), kodwa wayejabula ngokuthi usuku nosuku lwalusondela iphupho lakhe lomlilo. Lapha uye walondoloza umkhono owodwa, lapha okwesibili ... Ukusheshisa inqubo, uMasha wayeke ukudla nokuhamba ngezithuthi zomphakathi. Futhi wabuye waba esikhundleni sama-albe ama-light-watt ama-bulb angu-40 (ukuze anciphise ukusetshenziswa kwamandla futhi, ngokufanayo, imali) futhi wenqabe ukukhokhela i-intercom, esheshe yavala. Zonke izimali zikaMasha zifaka imvilophu ekhethekile ngokubhalwe: "Indwangu yoboya", ayifihla ekamelweni lelineni. Ngemuva kweminyaka engu-3 yokunqotshwa (ukuphoqeleka "ukudla", ukuhlala emathunzini, ukuhamba okunzima nokuhlala eholidini ezweni elingamamitha ayisishiyagalolunye angamamitha ayisishiyagalolunye), uMasha wathenga ingubo yoboya. Ngenhlanhla bekungekho umkhawulo, ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ukuthi isobho libuyiselwe etafuleni lomshini, i-bulb-100 watt ukukhanya, umakhalekhukhwini, kanye nomakhalekhukhwini uvumelekile ukusebenza ngaphandle kokuthola izingcingo kuphela. Futhi ngaleyo ndlela azikho izikweletu nezibopho zemali! Ngaphezu kwalokho, "amabhonasi" amnandi angalindelekile: lapho uMasha ehamba ngezinyawo, bese esebenza, lapho esekhaya, wabonwa yinsizwa ehambahamba endizeni yepaki. Kwaphela izinyanga eziningana wayeya emoyeni futhi ekugcineni wazijwayeza. Manje bahlala emotweni yezimoto, baqashisa okwesibili, basindise konke, bavame ukudla nabo nabazali babo, futhi emakamelweni abo enelineni banezithuthuthu ezimbili ezinamanje: "umshado nemoto."
Uma ucabanga ukuthi : "Yeka ukwethuka!", Kuyinto eyize. Kunezindaba eziningi ezesabekayo. Isibonelo, lokho uma ungalondolozi okwesikhashana, hhayi ngenhloso ethile, kodwa nje ukuze ungasebenzisi imali "eyengeziwe". Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi isimo sengqondo esiningi ngokweqile kumali nokulondolozwa okunengqondo kowesifazane wesimanje angeke kubhekwe njengempilo enhle, ikakhulukazi uma kuphazamisa amaphupho akho nezifiso zakho. Futhi uma uhamba ngale ndlela, ungakwazi ngokungaqondakali ngokuphelele ukuphila kwakho kwifilosofi ye-skopidomstvo. Kodwa-ke, akekho oshilo ukuthi ukulondolozeka okunengqondo kowesifazane wesimanje kuyisici esibi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba le nkinga yaqhamuka, sekuye kwaba nemfashini ukuhlala kwimodi yokulondoloza. Ngisho "izinkanyezi" ziqhayisa ngokuthi ziphi nokuthi ziphelelani ukuchitha imali. Nazi izindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokufeza imali enhle yowesifazane wanamuhla.
Qasha
Abadumile baseHollywood abazithengi izingubo nezingubo zokugqoka ukuze bahambe ngazo kuphephethi ebomvu, bese beboleka okwesikhashana ezindlini zemifashini. Ngendlela, sisenamahhovisi okuqasha. Ngakho-ke, unquma ukuhamba uhambo, ungakhathazeki ngezindleko eziphezulu zemishini: amatende, izikhwama zokulala kanye nezikhwama zokwesekwa ngemali encane kungathathwa ukuze kusetshenziswe okwesikhashana.
Thengisa ukungcola
Izitolo lapho izinto nezinto zefenisha ezivela "izinkanyezi" zokugqoka nezindlu, isibonelo, uCher, u-Elizabeth Taylor noma uBrithney Spears, ziyaqhubeka zithandwa kakhulu eminyakeni yamuva. Futhi wenzani ngezingubo ezindala zezimvu, ama-sofas kanye nezinto zokusebenza zasendlini ezingasebenzi? Kulungile, yilahle, yinike abangani noma uyiyise e-dacha. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uma ungaqedi amanani futhi usebenzise isimiso esithi "ngezimvu ezikhuni okungenani i-clone yeboya," khona-ke ungathola abathengi bazo zonke izinto zakho ezinhle. Yiba nocebile, awuyikuceba, kodwa okunye okuzokwenziwa kumabhajethi womndeni kuzokwenziwa, futhi i-dacha ngeke kudingeke ukuthi ilahle izinsalela ze-"zokunethezeka" zangaphambili.
Jabulela mahhala
Yiqiniso, uma ungesiye uJulia Roberts, ungaqiniseka ukuthi uzobekwa mahhala kwinani likaMongameli we-superintelligent kuphela okushiwo kuleli pheshana: "Ubuhle behlala lapha, nginelisekile", akudingekile. Kodwa, ngenhlanhla, kukhona okukhululekile kuleli zwe kubantu abavamile. Isibonelo, isofthiwe: cishe zonke izinhlelo zekhompyutha zinama-analogs mahhala. Ungagcina kude nokude izingcingo zomhlaba jikelele, ukukhuluma nge-skype engenamsebenzi. Ungakhohlwa futhi ngemitapo yolwazi yombuso, amakhonsathini omsizi, amaholide omasipala nokuthi njalo ebusuku ngobusuku bukaMeyi 18, iminyuziyamu eminingi ivula iminyango yazo izivakashi ngokuphelele.
Londoloza umnotho wokuziphilisa
Kanjalo ngisho nenkosikazi yokuqala yase-United States, eyaphule ingadi yemifino eduze ne-White House. Futhi kubi nakakhulu abesifazane bethu? Khulisa i-dill ne-parsley ebhodweni efasiteleni namhlanje, ngisho nemfashini. Futhi lonke ubusika - amakhambi alo mahhala futhi ahlanzekile (izindleko zembewu ye-2 hryvnia ngayinye esikhwameni asithinti).
Konke lokhu, ngokwemibono yakho, kuyisihluthulelo? Mhlawumbe kanjalo. Kodwa uma ubeka ndawonye imali esondolozwe ngezindinganiso ezinjalo ze-hryvnia, ungathola inani elikhulu kakhulu lokulondoloza okufanelekayo kowesifazane wesimanje.
Inombolo yendlela 2. Ukwandisa imali engenayo
U-Oksana - akekho ozogqothula izicathulo zemfashini noma ahlale ngesinkwa namanzi ngenxa yokuthenga noma yini. Imvelo yakhe esebenzayo kulula kakhulu ukuthola imali engekho ngaphezu kokusindisa, ukuziphika injabulo, futhi ngisho nangokwengeziwe okudingekayo. Ngakho-ke, ngibheka ikhathalogu yemikhiqizo yobumnandi, u-Oksana ucabanga ukuthi angamenza kanjani imali ukuze akhiphe imali yesimodeli esithandwa kuye: "Ngizothatha ihora lokuqeqesha elengeziwe, njengoba kuchaziwe ngumqondisi, ngizothola abafundi abaningana abafundela amakilasi ezimele futhi ngakho-ke vumelani ukuhola umbuthano ozungezile bakhokhelwa i-lyceum ". U-Oksana walinganisa inani lemali engenayo engenayo: kwavela ukuthi uzoba umnikazi wejazi elihle eMouton ngesikhathi esifanele ebusika esilandelayo. Kwahlelwa ilungiselelo lakhe, futhi waqala ukufuna ucezu lwephepha elinenombolo yocingo yothisha oyinhloko waseLyceum, osanda kubiza ngesicelo sokusebenza.
Le ndlela ilula kulabo besifazane abasebenza umsebenzi wokuqothula - ungahlala enkonzweni kuze kube phakathi kwamabili noma uthathe izindaba endlini. Uma uhlala emholweni, ungacela ukwanda, uhambe endaweni ekhokhelwayo ephezulu, uthola imisebenzi yesikhathi esithile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, emhlabeni wonke, unikeza izinketho eziningi zokuthola imali eyengeziwe kanye namathuba omnotho onengqondo wesifazane wanamuhla.
Kusihlwa, ngezimpelasonto nangesikhathi sokuphumula, ungathola umsebenzi ozoletha imali engenayo, futhi futhi, ukulondoloza okunengqondo owesifazane wesimanje. Ama-Freelancers emhlabeni wonke ayaba ngaphezulu futhi imali yabo engenayo ikhula njalo. Ungazibandakanyi ezihlakalweni zemali ezingathandabuzeki futhi ungakholelwa labo abakuthembisa ukucebisa okusheshayo nokulula (khumbula, isibonelo, bangaki abantu abashiswa ngemipiramidi yezezimali).
Kukhona enye ingozi ehlala ilinde kulabo abakulungele ukusebenza ngokungakhathali ngenxa yephupho. Lokhu - ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka yi-syndrome yokushisa ngokomzwelo. Kunzima kwabesifazane abanokuhlushwa okunjalo ukuthola injabulo kulokho okuye kwafezwa, iphupho elithengiwe alibangeli injabulo, futhi ngokujwayelekile akukho mzwelo. Futhi kuvela: umphumela uwukuthi, futhi akukho umuzwa wenjabulo. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukuyeka ngezikhathi ezithile ekuphishekeleni ukuchuma kwempahla nokugubha ukunqoba okuphakathi. Phila namuhla, hhayi nje izinhlelo ezizayo. Futhi khumbula njalo lokho okwenza imali.
Indlela yenombolo 3. Ukuboleka
U-Vera ubelokhu engumuntu wesifazane ongenangqondo: ngokushesha nje lapho ethola umsebenzi eqenjini elihloniphekile, ngokushesha wabhekana nesethi ephelele yokugqoka ikhabethe. Futhi ngokushesha waqaphela ukuthi wayengenayo imbobo yesikhumba esanele: "Ukuhamba ngomsebenzi omningi ku-jacket phansi akumukeleki, udinga ubumsongo wangempela!" Kungakabikho kusho ngaphandle kokwenza. U-Vera wathatha umngane wezinkulungwane ezingu-2,5 zama euro ukuze uthole umholo wesikhathi esizayo futhi waya enkundleni yembobo eya eGrisi. Usuku lwalusetshenziswa ekukhetheni ijazi lezimvu (i-mink ye-1800). Izinsuku ezimbili ezimbili uVera wahlala e-Chalkidiki, ehlonipha i-Aegean Sea futhi ehambela izindawo ezikhangayo zendawo, futhi lapho ebuyela khona waqala umsebenzi wakhe omusha. Kwakufudumele futhi kumnandi ukuya emsebenzini emgodini omusha.
Le ndaba ibonisa indlela enengqondo yokuphila, kufaka phakathi imali nempahla ebonakalayo, ukulondolozwa okufanelekayo kowesifazane wesimanje. Lokho umuntu akufunayo, uthola ngokushesha, bese ekhokhela khona kuphela: uyasusa umsebenzi, aphinde abuyele imali, futhi uthuthukise - ukuthi ubani olula. Futhi umqondo wokuthi umgomo usuvele usuzuzile, uvele uphuthume futhi uqinise: kukhulisa ukuzethemba futhi kusize ukusebenza kanzima noma ngesibindi ukuhlala ekudleni, ukugcina emikhiqizo ebiza.
Umsebenzi okhuthazayo usebenza njalo, futhi imingcele ehambisanayo kulula kakhulu ukudlulisa, ngoba izinkokhelo zenyanga zenyanga mboleko ziyisivikelo esihle kakhulu. Kodwa kulabo abafuna konke ngesikhathi esisodwa, kunezingozi eziningana: musa ukudonsa umthwalo, ukuzithela wena kanye / noma ube yindleko engapheli. Ngakho zama ukulinganisela amathuba akho ngokuchitha. Ngandlela-thile, ngezinye izikhathi imfucuza namaphupho angalawuliwe kubangelwa ukwesaba okungenakuqhathaniswa kwekusasa lomfazi. I-psychotherapist izomsiza ukuba abhekane nalona wesifazane.
Indlela yombolo 4. Thola isipho
I-Inna cishe ayizange izwe ukulahlwa kwabazali bayo, futhi zonke izidingo zayo ezibonakalayo, kuhlanganise nezindleko, zihlangene ngokufunwa. Kungokwemvelo ukuthi lapho ukhetha umlingani wakho, wakhathalela kakhulu ukuthi umuntu uzimisele kangakanani ukumkhanda. Ngokuyinhloko, waqala ukungikhumbuza nanoma yikuphi amaholide aqakathekile phakathi nenyanga futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ebuza ukudlala: "Unganginikeza?" Omunye wabantu abathandekayo waxoshwa ngesikhathi esisodwa ("Ufuna kuphela imali kimi!"), Omunye wabanikela ezinyangeni ezimbalwa, ngaphandle kokuhlupheka kanzima. Kodwa uma isoka elilandelayo lombuzo wendabuko-ovusa amadlingozi Inna: "Unganginikeza ngoMashi 8?" waphendula umbuzo: "Ufunani?" - "Shubka", - wamomotheka kahle, wakhala. "Ayikho izinkinga," iRoomo yasabela ngokushesha, futhi ngosuku lwesishiyagalombili emini i-Inna yayivele izama umkhiqizo omuhle kakhulu owenziwe ngotshani lwenkathi yasendle enezikhumba ezifakelwayo kanye nezesekeli ezinezicabha ze-Swarovski.
Le ndaba ngokuqinisekile uyithandile, uma ukholelwa emandleni okuhlukumeza othandweni, ezindabeni zeCinderellas nezikhulu ezihloniphekile nokuthi iqiniso liyiqiniso. Kodwa-ke, ukuba nengqondo ephilile, akudingekile ukuba nethemba ngokukhethekile ukuthi isixazululo sezinkinga zakho ezibonakalayo kuyoba yindoda enomusa futhi engathandeki ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngezinye izikhathi, abantu abanjalo bayatholakala, kodwa ngokuvamile kufanele bakhokhe ngokukhululekile ukupha kwabantu: bayakubekezelela, balalele ukuhlambalaza, bathethelele ukuhlukumeza ... Futhi lokhu kuyinto ehlazekayo, futhi, ngenxa yalolu daba, ukuphanga kwamakhosikazi. Ngikholelwa, kusukela endaweni yokubuka yokuziphatha, ukucela izipho (imali) ibheke, ukuyibeka ngomoya ophansi, hhayi ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Ubani othunyelwe ku: umthandi noma abazali bakhe.
Kodwa ngisho noma ungacabangi ohlangothini lokuziphatha nokuziphatha kwenkinga, isithombe siyabaphazamisa. Uma umuntu ngokuzithandela enqaba ukuqaphela iphupho lakhe eyedwa futhi ezama ngandlela-thile ukwenza omunye umuntu abe yinto yokufeza imigomo yakhe, umuntu angakwazi ukukhuluma ngokuphepha ngokungenakulinganiswa kwakhe noma ngisho ne-infantilism. Ezweni lanamuhla kanye nesakhiwo sayo sezomnotho, umsebenzi okhokhelwayo yiyona inzuzo enkulu kanye nelungelo elikhethekile lomuntu omdala, futhi wena ngokwakho uyayenqaba, kanye nokuhlolwa komphakathi ukuvuthwa. Wena, njengomntwana, cela umuntu "omdala" ngosizo lwezinto ezithile ezingase zibe yimpumelelo yakho. Ingabe yisikhathi sokukhula, ukuzama isandla sakho lapho uqala ukuzihlonipha?
Inkambo inombolo 5. Yenza ngokwakho
UMarina wayegqoke kahle, futhi izingubo zakhe ezinhle kakhulu zazivela emuntwini. Kodwa-ke, umqondo wokugqoka isambatho somboya oboya oboshiwe owenziwe ngomumo awuzange ufike kuye kuze kube yilapho efunda isikhangiso kwi-Inthanethi mayelana nokudayiswa kwezikhumba ezinogwaja ezinemibala. Intengo yabo yayifaniswa nentengo yesitolo yendwangu yengubo, futhi uMarina wanquma. Kwasithatha isikhathi eside ukuzulazula, ngoba kwakungenalo ikhono lokusebenza ngoboya, kodwa ijaji laphumela - idili leso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusukela ekuqothulweni kwakungenzeka ukwenza ikhanda elihle le indodakazi nokuqothula isikhala ngezinsimbi ezibomvu. Impumelelo yaphefumulela uMarina, futhi wanquma ukugqoka isigqoko soboya obulandelayo kusuka koboya obubi kakhulu. Khona-ke, imiyalo evela kubangane nakwabajwayele yawa phansi, uMarina washiya umsebenzi wehhovisi, waqasha abasizi ababili besifazane futhi wahlela isiteji esincane, esinikeza imali engenayo.
Indlela eyenziwe ngumuntu ephusheni yindlela engokwemvelo futhi yasendulo yomnotho onengqondo kumfazi wesimanje. Ekuqaleni kwempucuko, ezinye zazingekho nje kuphela: ufuna ukugqoka ukufudumala - ufuna i-tuesok entsha ukuqoqa amajikijolo nezimpande - i-weave ... Kodwa njengoba isintu sisungula imali, ukwenza ngezandla zethu lokho esikudingayo noma esingathanda ukuba nakho , kwaba yizikhethelo. Ngokuvamile kulula ukuthenga into ephelele futhi hhayi ukukhohlisa nxazonke. Kodwa-ke, isifo sengqondo somuntu odala iphupho ngezandla zakhe siqu kusukela ekuthomeni kokuqala (amantongomane, amapulangwe, nakleechki ...), ahluke kakhulu kwengqondo yezinto ezithokozile zamantombazane lapho efuna ukukhohlisa. Uyakuthanda ukuzulazula ngemininingwane, ukusungula kuze kube manje ukuhluka okungaze kube khona kokuklama noma ukusika, ukucinga izesekeli ezikhethekile. Ngendlela, kufanele kucace kulokhu ukuthi "yenza ngokwakho" akuyona indlela eshibhile ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi akubona labo abafuna ukusindisa ephusheni noma ukuwuthola eshibhile. Kodwa iphupho langempela ekumelelweni kwezinaliti zamasosha kukhona kokubiza kwesikhashana kanye nezinto ezibonakalayo, ngoba okukhiphayo kuyinto eyingqayizivele, eyingqayizivele enhlotsheni yayo, ecatshangelwe ngemininingwane futhi ethandekayo kangaka. Kwabesifazane abadala, musa ukubekezelela imibono ephindaphindiwe, abafuna ukuhlala, ukuba bangabheki njengabanye abantu, lokhu kuyindlela efanele yokubona iphupho lomzimba. Kubo, inqubo ehamba phambili yokupaka ubuciko ayikona nje kuphela, kodwa futhi iyadingeka ukwaneliseka ngomphumela kanye nomqondo wokugcwala kokuphila ngokujwayelekile.
Ukulondoloza okunye
Shintsha. Ukushintshaniswa kwemvelo yinto abantu abaye benza kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo. Futhi njengoba imali ingabikho kule nqubo, ukugcinwa kuyatholakala ngefomu elihlanzekile. Isibonelo, ungafunda incwadi bese uyishintsha ku-intanethi komunye, bese uya kwesithathu njalo njalo. Labo abafisa ukukhetha ukufunda kwakho ngokuqinisekile bayotholakala, futhi wena, ngaphandle kokukhokha ipenny, funda yonke umtapo wolwazi. Ukuhamba kwe-bookcrossing (izincwadi "zokuhamba") kuthola ukuthandwa: abahlanganyeli bayo, ngemva kokufunda le ncwadi, bayishiye endaweni evelele, isibonelo, esihlalweni emotweni engaphansi komhlaba, lapho kungathathwa khona nanoma ubani.
Bambisana. Isibonelo, ngokuvumelana nabangane-abangani ukuthenga ama-CD namafilimu "nhlobo", uzosindisa inani elihle. Isibonelo, kuleli sonto uthenga ama-disc 2, ngakolunye olandelayo - i-Krasnovs, i-Belovs ithenga ama-disc amabili kwesinye isonto, futhi ekupheleni kwenyanga ama-Chernovs enza okufanayo, futhi phakathi nale nkathi yonke amafilimu azungeze embuthanweni. Kubonakala sengathi kuyinto encane, kodwa kusukela ekubalweni ukuthi ilayisensi disk ibiza cishe 40 hryvnia, uzosindisa inyanga ngaphezulu kukazinkulungwane ezimbili hryvnia.
Ukusetshenziselwa ukubambisana, noma ukwabelana manje kuyindlela evumelana nemfashini, engeyona kuphela ama-DVD, kodwa ngisho nasezimotweni, emishini nasemakhadini esaphulelo.
Landelela izaphulelo
Ungalindi isikhathi sezinkathi ezithile zonyaka: amabhizinisi amaningi aziwayo anamasheya esimanje sonke isikhathi. Landela izindleko zanamuhla zabahlinzeki be-inthanethi, izinkampani zamaselula bese ukhetha ukonga kakhulu. Ukuya eholidini, unake amahhotela asanda kuvulwa, lapho amanani aphansi khona njalo. Isaphulelo singaba ngu-30%, futhi lokhu kuwumkhankaso wokukhangisa ukuheha amakhasimende. Uma uya kwelinye izwe, yenza i-visa ibe nenzuzo ngokwakho ngokwakho. Yiba nesineke esanele, futhi umsebenzi wakho wokuqoqa amadokhumenti uzokhokha: ama-ejenti amaningi okuhamba ngokuvulwa kwe-visa athathe i-euro engu-10-20 eyengeziwe. Futhi ujwayele izikhangisi zendawo wena, futhi (ugcine ngezindleko zezokuvakasha), uhamba ezweni emabhasini nasezitimeleni eziyekile, nasemadolobheni onke okubhuka. Itheksi, uma kuqhathaniswa, izobiza izikhathi ezingu-5-10 ezibizayo.