Usuku lwabo bonke abathandi luphawu lwezimvo eziqotho, ukufudumala nokunakekelwa. Ngalolu suku, umbhangqwana othandweni ulungiselela kusengaphambili, ukudala ngezandla zabo siqu izintandokazi ezithandekayo, ukuqamba izinkondlo zothando nokukhathazeka okhethekile ukucabanga ngohlelo lwamabusuku othandana. Ngokuqinisekile uyazi ukuthi uSuku Lwase-Valentine lugubha, kodwa inganekwane edabukisayo yeholide kungenzeka ukuthi ayizwanga. Uma ungajwayele iholide lokuthandana kakhulu konyaka, qiniseka ukuthi uqaphele usuku lokubamba kwalo ekhalendeni, ukuze ungakhohlwa ukujabulisa abantu abathandekayo ngezipho ezingalindelekile nezimanga.
Ugujwa nini uSuku LwaseValentine futhi le nqubo ivelaphi?
Ngamanye amazwe emazweni amaningi emhlabeni wonke ugubha iholidi labathandi bonke ngoFebhuwari 14, kodwa endaweni ethile ethi, ngenxa yezizathu zenkolo, uSuku Luka-Valentine alinqatshelwe ukugubha. Isibonelo, e-Saudi Arabia ngokuphula amalungelo abathandi bokuvinjelwa babhekene nemfanelo yempahla.
Ekupheleni kwesonto lesibili likaFebhuwari, iSonto LamaKatolika lihlonipha uSt. Valentine, uMfundisi oMkhulu, uKlaudius II owanikeza isigwebo sokufa. Umbusi waseRoma wayecabanga ukuthi amadoda ashadile ayezolula ukujoyina ibutho futhi alwele umbusi wawo, ngakho-ke wakhipha umyalo ovimbela abameleli bobulili obuqinile ukuthi bashade. Umpristi, ngokuphambene nalokho, waphatha kahle ukudala umndeni - wabathanda abashadile ngasese, abakhokhela wona.
Ngokuqinisekile akukwazi ukuthi ngabe indaba engenhla iqinisile. Kodwa iqiniso lihlala: namuhla iholidi labathandi bonke abanjwe emazweni amaningi emhlabeni. Lona usuku lapho ungabonisa ngokuzenzekelayo imizwa yakho ngosizo lwesethulo esimnandi, esingenasidingo. Futhi ngoFebruwari 14 ungakwazi ukuhalalisela abangane Valikov ngegama izinsuku. Ngalolo suku usuku luka-Valentine.
Izipho zendabuko zosuku luka-Valentine
Ngaphandle kwezimbali namaswidi, isici esibalulekile, esibonisa iholide ngoFebruwari 14, ikhadi elihle ngesimo senhliziyo, okuthiwa i-valentine. Inqwaba yemilayezo yakhe yocingo eyathandwa ekhulwini le-18, futhi umdali we "inhliziyo" yokuqala ubhekwa njengombusi waseFrance, owabhala ngemikhiqizo yemilayezo yothando kumkakhe.
Ubuhle beholide ukuthi akudingekile ukwethula isipho esibi kakhulu kumuntu othandekayo. Qinisekisa ukuthi iklabhu enomkhono noma ikhadi elenziwe ngezandla libiza kakhulu kunesiqingatha sakho sesibili izikhathi eziyikhulu, kunokuba isipho sokuvinjelwa esitolo.
Ngaphandle kwabamthandayo balaleli holide kukhona nabamelene naye abanamandla, ababiza ngokuthi umkhosi "wamaqaba", abazuzisa kuphela izinhlangano zezentengiselwano: izitolo ze-chocolate, izitolo zezimbali, abanikazi bokudlela (ukugcizelela). Izakhamizi zaseKazakhstan futhi nakancane zicabange ukuthi izenzo ezenziwa esikoleni zinikezwe emkhosini onikeziwe, ukuziphatha ekufundeni kokuqala ngokocansi kwabafundi.
Ngo-February 14, ungaphatha ngendlela ehlukile, kodwa iningi lomndeni futhi nje emibhangqweni yothando akungacabangi ngolunye usuku ngonyaka wokuthandana. Kuleliholidi, ukuqashelwa othandweni akubonwanga njengendaba, kodwa njengokubonakaliswa okuqotho kwemizwa efudumele. Uma ungazi ngaphambili, uma usuku luka-Valentine, sekuyisikhathi sokucabanga ukuthi uzosebenzisa kanjani leliholide kulo nyaka.