Kulula kangakanani ukuqala amantombazane?

Kanjani kahle futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ukwazi umfana ngokuphumelelayo? Kuzo zonke izintombi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zingakanani ubudala, lo mbuzo ukhulu kakhulu futhi awusoze walahlekelwa ukuhambisana kwawo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma unamathele kuwo wonke amaphethini kanye nemibono ebuhlotsheni, khona-ke umfana, njengombuso, kufanele athathe isinyathelo sokuzijwayeza ngokwakhe. Kusukela kulokhu ukuthi isiphetho silandela ukuthi cishe ngamunye wethu uhlezi futhi elinde ukunciphisa kwakhe, kunokuba enze isinyathelo sokuqala futhi ajwayelane nomfana omthandayo. Futhi lokhu kuyize kakhulu. Ngoba la madoda ajwayelekile kakhulu kumantombazane azimisele, wona ngokwawo abaqalile ukujwayele. Ngakho ukhohlwe yonke imigomo futhi endleleni, futhi kulula kangakanani futhi kulula ukuqala ukujwayela nabafana, sizozama ukuthola ndawonye.

Ekuqaleni, zibeke imigomo ebonakalayo nenhloso, okumele ikhumbule ngqo izinkimbinkimbi zakho zangaphakathi. Anikholwa ukuthi awusoze wathola lowo oyinhloko phezu kwehhashi elimhlophe? Ngakho kuzokwenzeka. Kulula kangakanani ukuqala amantombazane? Vele ushintshe isimo sakho sengaphakathi kuwe. Thatha i-motto yakho isimiso sokuthi ungumuntu obumnandi futhi obumnandi kangangokuthi awukwazi ukuhlangabezana nomfana wangempela onothando. Ukuzethemba kwakho kuphela kuzoba ikhadi lakho lempondo. Isigaba sesibili sizoba ukuzalwa kabusha kwakho kwangaphandle. Ukufuna isikhulu, kuhle njengendlovukazi. Ufuna ukumshaya emhlabathini ngokubukeka kwakho okungenakuphikiswa. Ukumxosha ngokuphanga ukuthula nakho konke lokho. Uma ubukeka ngokumangalisa kakhulu, amathuba amaningi okushiya umbono ongakulibaleki ngokwakho. Ungakhohlwa, amantombazane abathanda amehlo. Khumbula ukuthi ubuhle buyimandla embi. Ngakho-ke, sebenzisa izindlela zayo ngokugcwele. UNkulunkulu ngesizathu esihle asizuzile amantombazane ngesipho esingenakulinganiswa, futhi kufanele siwazise futhi sikwazi ukugcizelela lokhu. Owesifazane kufanele abe mnandi kukho konke - ubuhle bakhe, ubuhle nokuzilungisa kuyisignali esemqoka eheha umuntu. Ngakho-ke, ungalokothi ubeke ukunakekelwa kwakho ekubukeni ekona elikude. Hlala ulungele ukushiya umbono ongasoze uzikhohlwa. Ngakho-ke, i-hairdo ne-makeup yakho, kufanele ibe abangane bakho abalulekile, lapho uzoya "endleleni yokuzingela indoda." Konke lokhu okulwa kwakho "okuncane okuncane" kuyoba yizikhungo zakho ezingenakulibaleka. Yengeza lokhu ngesembatho esifanele. Cishe ukhumbule inkulumo enjalo, njengoba behlangana ngezingubo, bahamba nawe engqondweni. Ngakho-ke, zama, uye kumngane wakho othandekayo ukuba ugqoke ngokwezindlela zamuva zetfashini: eziyinkimbinkimbi, ezikhanyayo, ezingenakulibaleka kanye nezitayela. Izambatho zakho, okokuqala, kumele ziveze izwe lakho elingaphakathi kanye nombuso womphefumulo wakho, bese kuphela ugcizelela isithunzi somfanekiso wakho. Ngendlela, ngokuqondene nalezi zinsuku - uma uqiniseka ukuthi wena, iphupho lanoma yiliphi i-podium, ungalokothi ulifihle. Wena usemncane futhi omuhle - kusho, futhi ugqoke ngokuhambisana nalokhu. Noma kunjalo, izinwele, ubuciko, ubucwebe, umbala we-varnish kanye ne-lipstick kufanele njalo kuvumelane nezingubo zakho. Awunayo isambatho sezemidlalo nge-hairdo yothando. Amantombazane athande amantombazane anenambithelo ephelele futhi angawasebenzisa ngempumelelo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngokubukeka kwakho nesimo sakho sengqondo, sasizicabange, manje ake sicabange ukuthi kuphi futhi kulula kangakanani futhi ukujwayela okulula namadoda kungenziwa ngokwenza, ngokusho. Uzoya kuphi? Impendulo yalo mbuzo ilula kakhulu - iya lapho iningi lamadoda. Uma usondela kuye kulula, ukuthola umfana, kufanele uqaphele nokuthi umfana angatholakala ngisho nasendaweni yakhe yansuku zonke (ithimba), isibonelo, esikolweni, eyunivesithi, emsebenzini. Lapha sizobheka amapaki, izikwele ngisho nokuthutha. Ngendlela, njengendlela yokugcina, ungayixoshi, kodwa yibheka kahle ngangokunokwenzeka. Wanikeza indawo, wanconywa, wabuza ukudlulisela imali ithikithi noma umane udle egumbini eligcwele abantu futhi isimo sakhe asiyona into engcono kuneyakho. Khuluma naye, phendula umxhasi, isihloko sizohlala ngaso, futhi uzokhuluma ngokuqinisekile. Futhi ngokuzumayo kuyisikhathi. Kuzofaneleka futhi ukukwenza ngokwakho, uhambahamba phakathi nendawo yedolobha noma epaki. Ukumomotheka kwakho kanye nesiqalo esingahlanganisiwe sokuxhumana kungenza okuningi.

Futhi ungavakashela amakilabhu ezithakazelisayo, indawo yokuzivocavoca, lapho ngokuqinisekile kunesigaba sokufaneleka komama. Noma kunjalo kungaba yi-cafe, amaqembu, izenzo ezehlukene zezemidlalo. Ngendlela, njengamaqembu, kulula futhi kulula ukujwayele abantu. Umkhathi uphumule, ukwazi ukuzijwayeza, futhi ngokufanayo abafana bahlale bekulungele ukuxhumana nentombazane. Kufanelekile ukucabangela iqiniso lokuthi akufanele uthinte amantombazane amaningi kakhulu. Kungcono ukufaka kabusha futhi uthathe izinamba zocingo eziningi ngangokunokwenzeka, bese uzozikhethela ukuthi yiyiphi ohlwini ohlwini oluzokhethwa ngalo. Ngesandla nje, ngesikhathi sokutholana nomuntu wokuqala angakwazi ukuvula ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokuphelele, babonise izinzuzo zabo. Ngakho ngaso sonke isikhathi mnike ithuba lesibili lokhu. Noma kunjalo, ukubukeka kuvame ukukhohlisa - akuholeli ku-wrapper enhle, ngemuva kwayo kaningi kungafihla okungalungile ngokuphelele.

Phakathi nesikhathi sokuthandana, ungalokothi unganqikaze futhi ungabonakali. Qiniseka, uvulekile, uphazamiseke futhi uziqiniseke, ungacabangi ukuthi othile uzolahla isenzo sakho. Unqume ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala - kungani uzixosha ngeziphukuphuku "kodwa ngokuzumayo ...". Yiba nomoya omuhle, ungakhohlwa ukumomotheka. Bonisa umsizi, amantombazane afana namantombazane ahlekisayo. Bonisa lo mfana phakathi kwengxoxo yakho yokuqala zonke izimfanelo zakho ezinhle. Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, zibonakalise kuye ukuthi ungumuntu othakazelisayo, onengqondo futhi ohlakaniphile. Amantombazane angathandi amantombazane angenangqondo, obani, cha, ukuthi bakhulume ngani. Ungamthakazelisa futhi ushiye umbono omuhle ngawe - ungacabanga ukuthi konke kukuphephile.

Futhi ekugcineni, khumbula iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu, obani ngempela ofuna ukuhlangana nayo. Yiqiniso, isikhulu sehhashi elimhlophe yizo zonke izingane, ziphikisa iphupho. Kufanele uqonde ukuthi yimuphi umfanekiso omuhle wendoda ongayifuni - izimiso azikho nje. Yingakho ungathukutheli uma okhethiweyo wakho engafanele nhlobo ngaphansi kwesibonakaliso sokuphelela kwakho, into eyinhloko ukuthi uqondana, futhi okunye akubalulekile.