Imithetho yamadoda nabesifazane
Khumbula ubuntwana, futhi uzoqonda ngokushesha ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane baziphatha kanjani ngokuhlukile emidlalweni yamandla. Abafana badlala ngempi kanye nebhola, ngokusekelwe emncintiswaneni, futhi kusukela ebuntwaneni babona ukuthi: imithetho ecacile yakha indaba, ukuncintisana kudala injabulo, ukunqoba kuyinhle futhi kubangele ukuhlonishwa nokuhlonishwa kwabanye. Amantombazane adlala namadlingozi - futhi kuleli zwe wonke umuntu unquma ukubambisana, ukucabanga, ukulungiswa okuhlangene nokujula emininingwaneni. Kubantu abadala, konke kuyafana. Kubantu, isimo namandla kubalulekile njengezinyawo zokunqoba, futhi umzabalazo "womklomelo" ubangela i-buzz. Thina besifazane siyazisa imibono, sibheke amathemba futhi sifaka imigomo, futhi sinesithakazelo emandleni njengethuluzi elizosiza ukufeza lezi zinhloso. Ngakho-ke, sakha ubudlelwane ngezindlela ezahlukene: amadoda - ngokuqondile, ngokuvumelana nesimiso sobukhosi, nabesifazane - ngokulinganayo. Owesifazane ungena emkhakheni wemisebenzi ngokukholelwa ukuthi kuhle ukusebenzela ukuqashelwa. Kodwa maduze nje uyaqonda: kuzodingeka sibonise ukuthi akulona okulinganayo, kodwa kungcono kunamadoda, ukuze uthole okungenani ukuthi le ndoda ithembela yedwa. Uzama kanzima kakhulu, kodwa akakwazi ukuthi ngaphansi kwalaba bantu "abangcono" abaqondi umsebenzi ongcono, kodwa amandla okushaya. Ukuyiqonda kuyosiza ukwazi amasiko angabhaliwe namakhodi wokuxhumana ezweni lamadoda.
Ziqaphele
Uma uqala ukuqala emsebenzini omusha, amadoda, cishe, wena, ngokuvamile ngeke ubonwe njengomncintiswano. Ngisho noma unempumelelo evelele ngemuva kwakho. Kufanele uhambe ngomkhosi we "ukuqaliswa."
Ungakuthathi ngokungathí sina
Emhlanganweni unikezwa ikhofi nama-biscuits, ukuxoxa nawe, futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nokudlala ngothando, ushokhiswa ibhizinisi - kodwa ekuqondeni kwakho awuthathwa ngokungathí sina, ngoba uyinombolo yokugcina. Ulinganisiwe njengento yezocansi. Futhi akunandaba, i-Armani kuwe noma isaka elingenasici - awukwazi ukugwema lokhu kuhlolwa. Uma isiphetho siwukuthi, okuhle, kule nkambo kuzokwenza ukuphawula okuphazamisayo futhi uzame ukuba nomdlalo othile wokudlala ngothando.
Unqatshelwe
Uma wenqaba ukungena ensimini yokuziphendulela, ukupholisa kungase kufike. Futhi ungamangazi uma umaka othi "i-bitch ekhukhumezayo", "inkomo ekhukhulayo," njll, unamathele kuwe, njll. Ukugcina isigaba semidlalo yokuzikhukhumeza nokunqatshwa ngokuvamile kuvame kunzima kakhulu, ngoba kuhlobene nesidingo semvelo semvelo sokuzwelana. Ukwamukela le nselele noma cha kuyindaba eyimfihlo kuwo wonke umuntu. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi isimo, ukungesabi nokuzihleka kuyasiza kakhulu, izimfanelo ezibaluleke kakhulu emhlabeni wesilisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuhleka kwemizwa njalo kubonisa i-IQ ephezulu.
Uyamukelwa emdlalweni wangempela
Uma udlula esikhathini sokungaqapheli, ukugcina ukuvimbela nokuzimisela, isimo sengqondo siyashintsha. Manje sebekulungele ukuvuma - kubonakala sengathi ungaba umncintiswano.
Ubukhosi obuphezulu ngaphezu kwakho konke
Ezweni labesilisa, angeke kube nomsebenzi ngokusemthethweni kuze kube yilapho isikhathi lapho izinombolo ze-ordinal zisakazwa kuwo wonke ubukhosi. Ngalokhu kufanele nje uyamukele. Yiqiniso, awukwazi ukuhlanganyela kulo mkhuba, kodwa inombolo yakho izoklonyelwa kuwe noma ngabe yikuphi futhi uzozizwa njalo. Nasi isimo esingajwayelekile kunoma yimuphi wesifazane: unomqondo omuhle, futhi uzama ngokuphindaphindiwe ukwabelana ngawo emhlanganweni. Kodwa akekho ozokulalela. Futhi ngomzuzwana umqondo wakho uzomenyezelwa nguPetrov, futhi wonke umuntu uzoqala ngokumshaya ngehlombe ehlombe: "Wenze kahle, sisebenza naye!" Kungani bengakuzwa? Kunezizathu ezimbili ezingenzeka. Okokuqala, awuzange uhlanganyele emzabalazweni wendawo endaweni yobukhosi, kodwa ngokungahambi kahle waya eceleni. Futhi ubani okhathalela ukuthi yikuphi "okuyishumi nesithupha" okugubha khona lapho? Okwesibili, wena nombono wakho awuzange ulandele "inombolo yokuqala" - inkosi yalo mdlalo, kodwa, isibonelo, "kwesihlanu" noma "eyesikhombisa." Futhi imithetho yomdlalo ifundeka kanje: "Uma ufuna ukuzwakala, ngaso sonke isikhathi uphendukela phezulu kunazo zonke iziphathimandla." Ngendlela, kunendlela yokufundisa i-thievish Petrova. Kungenxa yokuthi ngokushesha wambonga ngokuzwakalayo nangesizotha: "Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngokusekela umqondo engikushilo nje." Futhi inkulumo eqhubekayo iqondiswe "inombolo eyodwa".
Izimpawu zokubusa
Emidlalweni yamandla, kubaluleke nakakhulu hhayi lokho okushoyo, kodwa ukuthi uyakwenza kanjani. Futhi lapha isikhali esinamandla kakhulu sinamafomu okungewona amazwi. Vumela ukuba ufike emhlanganweni wokugcina, ugoqe osebenza nabo ehlombe, uphazamise kakhulu, uthathe isikhala esiningi - zonke lezi zifundwa ngokucacile ukulawula. I-Instinct yenza owesifazane abagweme, futhi amandla amabhizinisi lokhu kuvinjelwa ukunqoba. Sizokuhlomisa ngolwazi lwezimpawu eziyisisekelo.
Ukubingelela
Kusho ukuthini uma le ndoda ishaya izandla ngesandla sesibili, ngesandla sayo sesobunxele esandleni sokunene somlingani? Indawo? Ayikho into enjalo isenzo esiqinile kakhulu sokubusa: Ngilapha "inombolo eyodwa". Ukwamukelwa okuthandayo kukaVladimir Putin noJacques Chirac.
Xhumana no-glance
Ngokwemvelo, ababuthakathaka bahlale behlehlisa amehlo abo futhi bakhothamele phansi lapho behlangana nabanamandla. Unganiki izibonakaliso zobuthakathaka: njalo ubheke ngeso lengqondo amehlo akho lapho ukhuluma futhi ugcine umhlane wakho uqonde. Kusukela emvelweni sinikwa: uzwela, ukuqonda okucashile, umthwalo wemfanelo kanye nekhono lokungena ngaphakathi kwenhliziyo yalolu daba, ukuhlanganiswa nokuxazulula ngokuvumelana nezimpikiswano izingxabano. Yebo-ke, inhlekazi yesifazane nesidakamizwa sezocansi. Izingxoxo zebhizinisi zifana kakhulu nokudlala ngothando, futhi ama-virtuosos kuzo zombili izindawo zicabange ngaphambi kweminye imininingwane: ubude bengubo, ukwakheka, ubuhle bezinwele nezenzo. Yiqiniso, isikhali esinamandla, njengezwe lebhizinisi le-sexy, lisetshenziswa njalo ngokuqapha, futhi emidlalweni yansuku zonke kungcono ukuba bahileleke. Enye into ukuthi udinga izimo lapho udinga umphumela (ngaphansi kwesivumelwano, isivumelwano). Futhi-ke ungakwazi ukuhlambalaza futhi udlale uqede: ake umlingani oxoxisana naye kuqala akuhlole njengomphikisi obuthakathaka, futhi uma ekhululekile, meme ukuthi ubani osebenzisana naye.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ngithande wonke umuntu
Owesifazane akakho okwesabekayo okukhulu kunokuba engathandwa, Futhi lesi sidingo somuntu sokuzwelana kwabaningi siyisivimbela esingenakunqotshwa emzabalazweni wamandla. Kulo mdlalo imiqondo enjengokuthi "ezimnandi", "ukuhleleka", "ukuzwelana" akuzona neze eziyinhloko. Ngokungafani - "ukuzimisela", "ukufaneleka", "ukuqiniseka". Esimweni esibuchwepheshe, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlonishwa kunomuntu othandekayo.
Ukulawula abanye, ngibacasula
Kuyinto enhle kakhulu ukuthi abesifazane babe nesitayela esinjalo sobuholi esibangela ukwethemba. Futhi amadoda abathokozi umphathi, ongaqondisi abaphathi bakhe. Ukuncintisana: ukulawula okuncane - ngangokunokwenzeka, nokulawula okuningi - uma kudingeka.
Konke kufanele kube okuphelele
Indoda yathethelelwa kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuthi wayengaphelele - umfana ofanayo. Ngokungafani namantombazane. Kubalulekile ukuba umuntu akwazi ukwakha okungenani isifenqo, futhi owesifazane uzama ukuthola ukuphelela okuningiliziwe. Indoda, ezuze okuthile, iyokhululeka futhi iyojabulela impumelelo yayo. Futhi lo wesifazane uzohlale ekhathazeka ngokuthi kukhona okungcono nakakhulu.
Njalo udinga ukudlala uhlanzekile
Inkolelo enhle kakhulu. Noma kunjalo, kuzodingeka sivume ukuthi labo abahlale behambisana nalesi simiso bavame ukushaywa ngezindlela ezingcolile. Futhi uma ubhekene nale ndlela, akusiyo ingqondo ukudlala ku-ping-pong, futhi ngemva kwalesi sifundo sokubuka ungabuyela futhi emithethweni yakho ehlanzekile.
Umsebenzi omuhle uhlaziywa njalo futhi uvuzwa
Ngeshwa, lo mbono uphuthunyiswa kakhulu. Ukuze uthole "umklomelo", udinga ukwehlisa ukuthobeka futhi ufunde ukukhangisa umsebenzi wakho.
Ukuqhubekela phambili ngokungahambisani
Ukuqhubekela phambili, mhlawumbe hhayi kahle kakhulu, kodwa lona wesifazane uzohlale ekwazi ukwenza lo mzamo, engabi namabhegi ahlangenwe nakho futhi angalahlekelwa ubuhle bakhe. Futhi ukuza phambili kuyadingeka ukuze kubonakale futhi kuzwe.
Akulungile ukunamathela bese uzama ukuba ngcono kunabanye.
Konke okwenzeka enkampanini yezobuchwepheshe kunomfanekiso oqondile nomncintiswano. Lokhu kuvamile. Futhi uma ungafuni ukuba "okungcono kunokuba", uzokwahlulelwa ngokuzenzakalelayo ngokuthi "kubi nakakhulu ...".
Ukuthatha insimu
Amadoda akholelwa ngobuqotho ukuthi isikhala singabakho, futhi bathambekele ekuphenduleni kuwo, futhi abesifazane bahlehliswa ngokuzenzekelayo. Ingabe owesifazane, egqoke izingubo ze-trouser enhle kunazo zonke, ewela enhloko yowesifazane, ewela phansi esihlalweni sakhe phakathi nendawo yehhovisi, imilenze yakhe isakazeka kabanzi? Futhi kumadoda lokhu kuyi-pose-intandokazi, kubonisa amandla omnqobi (ngokomqondo nangokweqile kakhulu - izitho zobulili).
Izwi
Amadoda angaboni kahle ukuthi kukhona umuntu ofanelekayo, oveza umbono wakhe ngokujulile nokuzikhukhumeza. Futhi uma i-soprano yakho yama-lyric ingabeki umncintiswano ne-heroic ye-heroy noma amabhasi aseBerzin, gxila kwi-intonation - eqinile nokuzethemba.
Iziphazamiso
Abesifazane, abaphazamiseka ngesihluku, ngokuvamile bayeka ukukhuluma futhi bavumele ukuba bakhulume. Lona iphutha! Kungcono ukuphendula ngokushesha futhi uqhubeke ukhuluma ngokuthula. Kodwa ukuphawula njengokuthi "kubonakala kungenangqondo ukuthi ungangivumeli ngichaze umbono wami kuze kube sekupheleni" kungukuchitha isikhathi.
Thinta
Isibonakaliso esinamandla sokubusa singena ensimini yangasese yomunye umuntu. Isebenzisa kuphela labo abasesikhundleni sobukhosi ngaphezulu, nalabo abangaphansi, abasoze bawuvumele. Kodwa amadoda abonakala asithatha kalula ukuthinta owesifazane. Futhi uma ufuna ukugxeka umzamo onjalo wokukulawula, phendula okufanayo kumadoda. Noma uzame ukwamukelwa kwe-piquant, uma ukubusa kwesilisa kukuxosha ukuthi uthanda unogwaja: vele ucabange ukuthi umi phambi kwakho emasokisi owodwa - futhi akukho lutho. Uma engekho ikhophi likaGeorge Clooney, le ndlela ikususa ngokuphelele ukungezwani.
Usayizi
Isithombe somholi ngaso sonke isikhathi singahlotshaniswa ngokungaqondani nemibono ye "big" futhi "eqinile." Imvelo isisenzile kakhulu futhi sinesibindi ngaphezu kwamadoda. Lokhu kuhle kakhulu, kodwa emzabalazweni wokubusa - okucacile, ngoba sibonakala singaboni. Ukunciphisa kunganciphisa ngokusebenzisa amacebo ahlukile. Kunconywa ukuthi angamvumeli / abheke kuwe avela phezulu. Okuncani ibanga phakathi kwakho, okusobala kuzoba umehluko ekukhuleni. Ngakho-ke, engxoxweni ebalulekile enomuntu omkhulu, zama ukukhulisa ibanga phakathi kwakho. Hlela lo mhlangano. Uma uzobe uhlezi uhlezi, ulungise ukuphakama kwesihlalo kusengaphambili noma uhlale kude. Ucabanga ukuthi ingxoxo izokuma? Nakekela izithende eziphakeme. Ufike ezitebhisini? Ngokungaqondakali kusuka esiteji esingezansi, hamba phezulu. Lezi zici ziyaziwa kakhulu futhi zisetshenziswe amadoda omzimba omncane. Isibonelo, uNicolas Sarkozy on izithombe zeqembu zamakhanda wombuso uvame ukuphakama.
Izifundo Zesilisa Zesilisa
- Ungathuli
Kulabo besifazane, abantu bakhuluma isikhathi eside ngeze-ukuhlolwa kokubekezela. Kodwa ngemuva kokuba wonke umuntu, cishe, futhi engabuthananga okuthile okumele akutshele, wayemane efisa ukudwetshwa - ethembeni lokuphuma endaweni "yesikhombisa" kuze kube "yesithupha". Le yimiyalo yomdlalo: uma ufuna ukuphakamisa isikhundla sakho futhi unezinto ongakusho (ngaphezulu noma ezingavumelani) - yisho!
- Imininingwane kanye nento esemqoka
Emidlalweni yamandla, ukuthobeka akuhlotshwanga ngokweqile. Ukuze ufeze okuthile, udinga ukubonisa kusukela ngosuku lokuqala ukuthi unesifiso, ubonise isinyathelo, uthathe umthwalo wemfanelo. Futhi ungangeni esicupheni sokusebenza kanzima. Qaphela ukuthi amadoda akakaze atshelwa - ukusebenza kanzima, kunalokho-ukuthanda, ukudala nokwenza i-punchy. Ukuzikhandla kulo mdlalo akubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa kusetshenziswa ngokuhlakanipha. Ubani ngokuvamile owenza wonke umsebenzi ompunga nokungabongi? Abesifazane. Amadoda abalekela kuwo ngesizathu esisodwa esilula: asikhulise udumo futhi akavumeli ukukhanya. Ngokuqinisekile uMargaret Thatcher wathi: "Uma udinga umuntu okhuluma, bheka umuntu, futhi uma udinga ukuxazulula le nkinga - cela owesifazane kangcono."
- Izimpawu zesimo
Cabanga nge-BMW emnyama emnyama "eyisikhombisa", ehamba ngokuthula futhi elula emgwaqweni. Ubani ohlala ngemuva kwesondo lakhe? Indoda, kunjalo. Futhi ngubani ogibela "igalofu", lapho kungcono khona ukuhamba nokupaka? Yiqiniso, owesifazane. Kumuntu, izimpawu zokudumisa zibaluleke kakhulu - iRolex, i-Vertu noma i-Mobiado yakhe ithumela umlayezo ocacile emhlabeni: okungcono kuncono kakhulu. Ebudlelwaneni obuhle, banamandla okubheka, ngakho-ke khetha ukhethe ngokusho kwesimo sabo.
- Ayikho imizwa
Emidlalweni yamandla, kunezikhathi ezingathandeki kakhulu. Abesifazane ngesikhathi esifanayo bawela emicabangweni, abantu abayibona njengobonakaliso obuthakathaka. Uma othile ekuthinte, qiniseka ukuthi ungangitshela ngakho, kodwa qhubeka upholile. Futhi-ke, uma ufuna kanjalo, ungakwazi ukufaka udonga ekamelweni labesifazane noma ukuthululela umphefumulo womngane.
- Insimu Yakho
Isikhala siphinde sikhombise isimo: uma kunjalo, isimo saphezulu. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unesikhala esingakanani, ungavumeli noma ubani awuthathe - ngokuwashada ngezindwangu zakho, ehlezi etafuleni lakho, njll. Chaza imingcele yendawo yakho siqu!
- Okufushane futhi Ecacile
Abesifazane kunzima ukunikeza ukulawula kanye nemiyalo, bakhetha ulimi oluphansi: "Ngicabanga ukuthi kungcono uma ...", "Mhlawumbe singakwazi ...", "Umuntu uzodingeka ..." Ezweni lamadoda lesi sitayela asikho okuhle! Ngakho-ke, khetha njalo ulimi olufushane futhi olucacile bese ulubiza ngendlela enobungane, ecacile futhi eqondile. Kukhona futhi umamukeli wezingqondo osebenzayo: ngokufaka esikhundleni sokubeka uphawu lombuzo ngokufaka uphawu lokumemeza kumusho walo. Isibonelo, "Mhlawumbe uzoba nesikhathi sokwenza kuze kusasa!"
- Ukungaphumeleli
Kufana ne-poker - unganikezeli ukusabela okusheshayo kumakhadi omphikisi wakho. Kuyafaneleka ukufunda ukugcina ubuso betshe - endaweni yesilisa lokhu ku-premium. Futhi khumbula: indawo yethu ebuthakathaka yi-reflex ecacisiwe yokumomotheka, futhi ayikho indawo yokumomotheka ngokweqile emidlalweni yamandla: kungenzeka ukuthi izobonakala njengesibonakaliso sokuhambisa noma isimemo sokudlala ngothando.
Izimo ezingahlelekile
Amadoda ayisebenzisa ngokuzithandela ukuqala ubudlelwane nabantu abalungile. Abesifazane abakutholi ngalendlela, kodwa ngeze. Ingxoxo eyodwa engavamile e-bar, i-sauna noma enkantolo yezintambo ingase iholele eminye imiphumela ngaphandle kwengxoxo ende.
Umzabalazo wethu
Kukholelwa ukuthi kulula ukusebenzisana namadoda - mhlawumbe balwa ngokungenangqondo, kodwa ngokuthembeka, futhi zonke izingxabano zixazululwa ngokukhululekile. Futhi abesifazane bakwenza ngokufihlakeleyo: ukukhipha izinkathazo, ukuhleba, ukupaka ubuthi. Njengoba ucwaningo lubonisa, ngabesifazane abanobuciko bokubambisana. Futhi izisulu zabo, njengokubusa, zikhetha abesifazane. Ukuze ubulili obuhle kungokwemvelo ukuzama ukujabulisa abantu, futhi bavame ukuhlanganisa ukuzethemba kwabo nempumelelo kule ndawo. Ngakho-ke, bancintisana komunye nomunye hhayi nje njengezisebenzi, kodwa futhi njengabesifazane (futhi kaningi - ikakhulukazi njengabesifazane). Uma kuwe umphumela ekusebenzeni kubaluleke kakhulu, kungcono ukulahla kulo mncintiswano. Kwanele ukunikeza umncintiswano isignali: "Wena unhle kunazo zonke phakathi kwethu." Futhi yilokho konke. Umncintiswano onamandla owaziwayo ungabasiza kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni. Futhi uma uyamhlonipha, futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nomona, vuma yona kuye-makube ukuncoma okuvela enhliziyweni. Futhi kungase kube kuhle ukuthi esikhundleni sokuphikisana uzothola umngane ohlakaniphile nokusekela okujulile emzuzwini obaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Ukubambisana kwabesifazane kuyindlela enamandla, ngaphandle kwalokho, ikuvumela ukuba ubuke izinto ehhovisi ngamahlaya. Futhi ngaphezulu. Saxoxa kuphela ngamathuluzi. Konke kunquma umgomo. Futhi uma unomgomo onjalo - sekuyisikhathi sokudweba izindebe zakho futhi ufaka ngesibindi amakhansela wamandla.