Namuhla, cishe wonke umuntu ubhekana nezinkinga eziningi nezinkinga, ngenxa yokukhathala, ukucindezeleka, ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka nokunye okuningi. Konke lokhu kungaholela umuntu esimweni sokucindezeleka okuqhubekayo, lapho kunzima ukuphuma khona ngokuzimela. Ngakho-ke, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphila kalula futhi ngenjabulo ukuvimbela izimo ezinjalo.
Ngokungangabazeki, abanye abantu banezindlela zabo zokubhekana nalolu hlobo lwezinkinga. Kodwa, ngokuyisisekelo, ngesitayela sesimanje sokuphila, abantu abaningi abanalo amandla okunqoba ubunzima obungokwengqondo obuzimele. Noma kunjalo, ukubhekana nakho konke lokhu kulula kakhulu kunokuba kungabonakala ekuqaleni. Unyaka ngamunye ngokuqhubekayo ngokuqhubekayo kuthuthukisa inkonzo yokusiza kwengqondo. Izazi ze-psychologists ezifanelekayo zizokujabulela ukukusiza.
Isazi sezengqondo ngumchwepheshe oqeqeshiwe onamakhono afanele, ulwazi namakhono adingekayo ekusebenzeni namakhasimende. Ngeke kukusize nje ukuthi ubhekane nezinkinga ezikhona, kodwa futhi kuzokuqondisa ngendlela efanele emisebenzini yakho, ukulungiselelwa komgomo, ukuzimisela, njll. Ngakho-ke, uma ukhuluma nomchwepheshe wezengqondo, ngeke nje ukwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga ezithile, kodwa futhi ufunde ukuziqonda kangcono. Phela, ukuziqonda ngokwakho kuyindlela yokuphila kahle.
Kunezindawo eziningi zengqondo ezingakusiza ezimweni ezahlukene zokuphila. Ngokuvamile, ngisho nasemndenini onokuthula kakhulu futhi oqinile kukhona ukungavumelani okuhlukene nokuxabana, kokubili phakathi kwabazali nezingane, naphakathi kwabashadile. Ezimweni ezinjalo, usizo lomqondo wezengqondo lomndeni okwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga zalolu hlobo luyoba usizo.
Ukhathala nokucindezeleka kokukhathazeka kuhlobene nomsebenzi onzima - ukuvakashela kwengqondo kwengqondo kuzokusiza ukuba uphumule futhi usule ingqondo yakho ngemibono emisha nemisebenzi ekhiqizayo. Ngakho-ke, ukuzithola usesimweni esinzima, kufanele ngezinye izikhathi uthintane nomcwaningqondo wezengqondo ongakutshela futhi "uphendule" kwesinqumo esifanele. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo asinikezi iseluleko, wena ngokwakho ufika ngesinqumo esifanele.
Maye, ezweni lakithi umkhankaso wesazi sengqondo usubhekwa njengento ehlazozayo, ngokuvakashela esibhedlela sengqondo. Kodwa kancane kancane leli phuzu liqala ukuphela, futhi abantu abaningi abaziwayo abanamahloni ukuxoxa ngezinkinga zabo nomqondo wezokwelapha. Sithemba ukuthi izikhathi ezinjalo zizofika lapho izakhamuzi ezivamile zizoxazulula izinkinga zabo hhayi kubhiya kubha, kodwa ehhovisi lezengqondo zomsebenzi.
Ngokuvamile kuwo wonke amadolobha kukhona izikhungo eziningi ezingokwengqondo, kanye nezikhungo zengqondo ezizimele, ongayifaka kuzo. Ngenxa yalokhu, ungathola kalula isazi esihle futhi esikhathini esizayo ukubonisana kokuqala okuzokusiza ezimweni eziningi futhi kuholele empumelelweni.