Kusukela ngeviki le-14 ingane ingakwazi ukwenza izinto eziningi, isibonelo, ukuphoqa amehlo, ukwenza ubuso nokugcoba, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuphuza umunwe. Ngalesi sikhathi imisebenzi ye-excretory nemisebenzi ye-pisses, uma ingabizwa kanjalo. Ukunikezwa kungena ku-amniotic fluid, bese kukhishwa ngakho.
Ithemu lamaviki angu-14 okukhulelwa: umntwana ushintsha kanjani?
Ukuphakama kwengane kungaba ngu-9 cm, uma kubalwa kusukela phezulu kwekhanda kuya komsila. Inhloko iqala ukuhlukanisa ngokucacile entanyeni, okungukuthi, intamo iqondisa, insizwa ayikho kakade kuyo. Umzimba nawo wangena ekukhuleni futhi ukhula ngokushesha kunenhloko.
Naphezu kokuthi ikhono lokwenza imisindo livela kuphela emva kokuzalwa, izinto zokufakelwa zakhiwa kakade ngalesi sikhathi. Uhlelo lokugaya lungcono, ingane ayizami ukugwinya kuphela, isimiso sakhe sokugaya siqala ukusebenza, isisu sisanda futhi siphunduka. Esibindi, ukukhiqizwa kwe-bile ne-red cell cells kuqala.
Ukuqaphela ubulili kuze kube manje akusebenzi, nakuba izitho zangasese zangaphandle ziqala ukwakha. Babonakala njengento phakathi kobulili besilisa nabesifazane.
Isikhathi sokubeletha singamaviki angu-14 - i-fetus iyaphenduka ekuthandeni, isibonelo, ngokufaka isibhamu. Lo mphumela utholakala ngokuthuthukiswa kwesimiso sezinzwa, ikakhulukazi ukuzwela kwesikhumba kwengane.
Amanani omzimba aqala ukuvumelanisa. Kuze kube manje, lokhu kubandakanya ubude bezingalo ezihlobene nomzimba. Imilenze ayisakhuli ngokwanele. Umzimba ugcwele i-lagoon, okuthiwa i-hairline encane.
Ngokuvamile, izitho zomuntu omncane omncane ziba nezimo eziguquguqukayo, umzimba uyiselula, okusho ukuthi maduzane uMama uzokwazi ukuzwa ukunyakaza kwakhe. Kodwa hhayi emavikini angu-14, kamuva.
Umama ozayo uzoshintsha kanjani?
Ngakho-ke, ngikuhalalisela ekuqaleni kwe-trimester yesibili, okubhekwa ngokuthi "ukuqhakaza" kokukhulelwa. Izinto eziningi ezingathandeki ezikhathazayo ezinkathini zokuqala zokukhulelwa ziqala ukuphelelwa yisikhathi. Isibonelo, isifuba silahlekelwa ukuzwela okubuhlungu, i-toxicosis nayo idlula, noma, ngeshwa, akunjalo. Abanye besifazane abakhulelwe baya kamuva. Kodwa into esemqoka ezodlula.
Izinguquko azikhona nje ngaphakathi, ngokubonakalayo nazo zibonakala. Njengoba isibeletho sikhula, i-tummy ivela. Ngokwemvelo, kuyinto encane kakhulu kodwa isabonakala. Kodwa-ke, kwezinye izimo, isisu sibe yindawo kuphela kusukela ngesonto lama-17. Manje ungakwazi ukuzibonga (noma kunalokho, wena) esibukweni futhi ujabulele isikhundla sakho.
Umfana? Intombazane? Ufuna ukwazi?
Okumangalisa ukuthi, kuphela abazali abangamaphesenti angama-64 kuphela abafuna ukwazi ubulili bezingane ezizayo ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe. Abanye bakhetha ukumangala. Kokubili indlela kanye nokunye indlela inezinzuzo nezingozi zayo. Abanye abazali abakwazi ukuma nesifiso, kanti abanye abakhathaleli, bajabule ngegazi labo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bazocansi.
Izizathu zokwazi ubulili:
- Ukuveza ingane ezayo, omama abaningi baxhumana naye, futhi kulula ukwenza lokhu uma wazi ukuthi ukhona;
- Ukuze ulungise ezinye izingane ukuze ukwengeze emndenini, ngoba kubalulekile kulabo abazokwenza: udade noma umzalwane;
- Ukukhetha igama lomntwana ozayo, uzokwazi kakade ukuthi ungabheka;
Izizathu zokulinda:
- Kuyinto emangalisa kangaka!
- Mhlawumbe nakakhulu umama ozayo uyofuna ukwazi ubulili bomntwana, ngokushesha futhi kulula ukubeletha, ngisho umzuzu wokuzalwa. I-T. e isisusa esinjalo sengqondo.
- Ngeke kube nokudumazeka uma udokotela enza iphutha ngokubikezela.
Isikhathi sokubeletha amasonto ayishumi nane: izifundo
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