Ukufuna ipharadesi elahlekile
Ingane yachitha izinyanga ezingu-9 esiswini sikamama, kwakuyizwe lakhe elinobuhle futhi eliphephile, lapho ngokuzumayo lathuthela endaweni ehlukile, engajwayelekile. Ngakho-ke kungokwemvelo ukuthi umntwana osanda kuzalwa unesidingo esikhulu somkhathi ofana nalowo olahlekile. Futhi kulokhu, ukusondelana komama nobisi wakhe kuyindlela elula futhi elula kakhulu yokuhlangabezana nezidingo zomzimba wengane. Ukulala okuhlangene nomntanakho kunikeza kokubili ukusondeza nobisi lwebele, okusho ukuthi ubuyela ekuthuthukisweni kwakho kwe-intrauterine.
Ukuncelisa ukubeletha ngempumelelo
Kuyinto yokuncelisa isikhathi sebusuku, eyenzeka ngesinyathelo somntwana, kusize ukwakha ukubeletha okuphumelelayo nangesikhathi eside. Kuyaziwa ukuthi i-hormone prolactin, ebhekene nokukhiqizwa ubisi, "i-hormone yasebusuku", iyasebenza kakhulu kumahora aphelile, phakathi kuka-3 no-8 ntambama ekuseni.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi izikhathi eziningana ingane isetshenziswe esifubeni. Uma iphupho elihlangene nomntanakho lilula kakhulu, umama nomntanakhe kaningi abavuki ngisho nokuvuka - ingane ithola nje isifuba bese ilele, isondla. Ngakho-ke, ngosuku olulandelayo umama uzoba nobisi obanele.
Ukuthokozela wonke umndeni
O, lokhu kungabuthongo ebusuku - abazali abaningi bazi ngokuzibonela. Ngempela, uma kufanele uvuke kumntwana okhalayo izikhathi eziningi ebusuku, ungaphupha kuphela ngokuphumula okugcwele. Lokhu kungenxa yokungalaleli okunjalo, abazali abaningi, ngisho noma bengayazi ngeminye imiphumela emihle, beza embonweni wokuhlanganyela ngokulala. Ngoba emva kokuqala kokubambisana "okuhlangene" kokulala ekamelweni lokulala, ukubusa njalo, wonke umuntu uyavuka ekuseni aphumule.
Umama akadingi ukuba avuke ubusuku bonke ukuze asondle umntwana, ukuzamazama nokuthuthela esihlalweni. I-crumb ayike ivuke ngokuphelele, uma ingaphansi komama, - ithola isifuba ngokusebenzisa ubuthongo, igqoke futhi ilale ngokuqhubekayo, isiphuze. Umama naye uyamondla ulele.
Ngenhlanhla, eneminyaka yama-diapers atholakalayo, ayikho inkinga ngezingubo zangaphansi ezingcolile, futhi ukushintsha i-diaper, ngisho noma ingane isingcolile, yindaba yamaminithi ambalwa.
Izimpikiswano eziphikisanayo
I-"scarecrow" enkulu yephupho elihlanganyelwe ukuthi abazali bayesaba ukulala ngokujulile futhi banamathele umntwana, kodwa noma yikuphi uhlobo olujwayelekile lomama luhlelwe ukuvikela ingane ngokuyisimangaliso.
Ngokuvamile impikiswano "ngokumelene" iba umbono womyeni ukuthi iphupho elihlangene lingalahleka ubudlelwane bomshado, kodwa emva kwakho konke, ubuhlobo obuseduze abugcini nje kuphela ngesikhathi sokulala kanye nombhede womzali ...
Uma umama noma ubaba ephathwa ngemithi ngezidakamizwa ezinamandla.
Uma kwenzeka ukhathele umama (ngendlela, uma uzizwa ulele, gwema ngisho, phumula nje nge-sofa esithambile - kunengozi yokuwela "ukulala" nokulala ingane).
Okukhethile
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukwethemba intuition yakho, uzizwe okubalulekile emndenini wakho, futhi wenze izinqumo ngokuvumelana. Yiqiniso, abantu abaningi abajabulayo, abanempilo nabaphumelelayo abazange balale nabazali babo - omama nabalandeli abahle kulezi zinqola banezindlela eziningi zokunikeza ukufudumala kwengane, ukunakekelwa nothando lwabo.